Ever since I first heard about the It Gets Better Project — a viral video campaign initiated by sex columnist and activist Dan Savage to reach out and extend support to GLBTQ youth in light of the recent rash of teen suicides — I have been inspired by all the different people who have contributed their words and stories. The Queer Etsy Street Team has been working to raise awareness about this horrible epidemic. For months they have donated all the profits from their team shop to The Trevor Project — a suicide prevention hotline for teenagers.
Michelley, known on Etsy as QueenofQueens, is the leader and founder of the team and has put together an inspiring collection of stories from Queer Street Team members about the various ways in which art has helped them get through the tougher parts of life. Michelley lives in Los Angeles with her beloved partner. She is currently awaiting the ability to legally marry without a cross-country trek. An overview of Michelley’s creative compulsions, including her fine art and tattooing, can be seen on her website.
My favorite T-shirt when I was in 4th grade featured an illustration by cartoonist Sandra Boynton, of two roosters. One wore the typical comb that all roosters are born with. The other rooster proudly sported a black, plastic, comb in defiance of convention. Above them both were the words DARE TO BE DIFFERENT. Whenever I wore this shirt I felt wildly empowered and when other kids called me “weird” — which occurred frequently — I thanked them for what I believed was a high compliment.
When I realized the true intentions behind the “compliments,” it eroded my courage to be myself. For a time during middle school I tried my very best to blend in. Most of my efforts were an epic failure. Though my designer jeans were Gloria Vanderbilt, they were a heinous kelly green velvet — a gift from Grandma at Christmas. (She tried.) Everyone else was sporting dark denim Jordache or Sassoon straight legs that never fit me. My wavy hair refused to be feathered Farrah Fawcett-style and I was far more interested in horses than in boys. As you can imagine, school was rarely enjoyable and home was hardly better.
I cannot imagine how I would have found the strength to stay alive in the face of such constant hostility were it not for my discovery of new wave and punk. I was absolutely rabid for Adam Ant; he seemed to be the spirit of art and liberty personified and he was completely unafraid to be completely himself. Adam and the Ants introduced me to a variety of rebellious, expressive musicians and artists. I secretly longed to be so bold. I wanted to outwardly demonstrate who I really was.
My ninth grade year was a nightmare. I was surrounded by three relentless bullies in my math class and their torment of me went unchecked all year by an ineffectual teacher. Their behavior culminated in an act of sexual harassment that mortified and humiliated me. Afterward, I couldn’t stop crying and wanted to die. After surviving their grotesque abuse I became determined to openly and unfailingly “wave my freak flag high.” I decided that if I was going to endure constant indignity, it was going to be on my terms. Over that summer I sought out the most punk clothes I could find (long before Hot Topic) and cut my hair radically short. When I walked through the cafeteria on the first day of school, a self-identified art-fag/punk, I was met with silence from my wide-eyed, stunned schoolmates. I’d never felt more self-assured.
Claiming our space as creative people and choosing to survive in a world that tries to tear us down is the most revolutionary thing we can do. The artist and designer behind Feathered Nest Studio believes that “art gives me superpowers…okay, maybe not actual superhero strength or the ability to see through walls, but art gives me a space to be myself, to say this is what I make, this is what I believe in, this is who I am. It was because of my art that I finally felt at ease and found a place in my local gay and lesbian community. The very first time I went to my local women’s community center, I met a woman who wanted to start doing art shows at the building. Until then I had felt very isolated and had been searching for a way to feel comfortable in my own skin. That initial meeting led to working on a women’s community art show, which blossomed into a community arts program for women and children that I now run.”
For many of us, art classes were true sanctuaries during adolescence. Being afforded a safe space to emote and express ourselves can offer a “test lab” of authenticity until we find our confidence as adults. The designer behind River Wolfe Jewelry found a safe haven in her senior art class in Dallas, Texas. She says, “At home, I wasn’t encouraged to talk about my feelings. There was no room for my emotional needs to be met, and as a result I really had no idea what those needs and desires were. It was in Ms. Hudson’s art class that I discovered how to express myself using pictures. The project was to make a collage of dreams. Mine turned out to be a silhouette of myself with a huge city in the foreground, I was entering a city full of lights and opportunity and the process was very seductive. I wondered, could I really make it in a city like that? I had no idea this desire was inside of me until it revealed itself in the picture.
“I took my collage art to another level in private. I made another piece consisting of images and ideas that expressed freedom, feminism, and complete rejection of traditional gender roles. I was so proud of both of these that finally I began to understand myself. I hold this memory as one of my most sacred and profound experiences. Learning to express my innermost fears and desires with pictures enabled me to become the woman I am today.”
Authenticity is a discipline that bestows the truest rewards. The awareness of this potential often presents itself subtly, as the visual artist behind Etsy shops Scarlet Tentacle and Lace and Sparrow shares with us: “I had been struggling with depression for several years and was reaching the end 
of my ability to maintain hope. I was taking a class that focused on the works of renowned Iranian filmmaker Abbas Kiarostami. I came into class feeling like I was at the very bottom of whatever I could handle — and then our professor put on Kiarostami’s film, A Taste of Cherry. I experienced a profound moment of hope while watching this film. It wasn’t a promise that things would magically get better, but instead, it gave me a feeling that the world is wondrous and that I was not alone. That feeling, that hope, let me keep going for a little longer, and opened me to the possibilities of art to create change and make a difference.”
e.e. cummings once said, “It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.” Unprecedented bullying has recently led to the tragic suicides of several young LGBT people. Embracing your essence and sharing your creativity with the world is never easy in the face of adversity, especially when facing harsh rejection from the mainstream. Despite my adolescent attempts at conformity, I grew up to be the rooster with the plastic comb: a working class, femme, lesbian, Latina artist with a punk rock provenance. My adolescence was painfully isolated in many ways, and there were many times when I nearly gave up. Every time I’m fortunate enough to connect with other artists and experience the beauty of their work, I’m glad I didn’t. I now know that I share history with scores of other defiant artists and courageous queer folk. I now know that I was never really alone.
Thanks so much to Michelley and the entire Queer Etsy Street Team for sharing their stories with us. If you or an LGBT youth you know is at risk of suicide, please contact the Trevor Project’s 24-hour hotline at 1-866-4-u-trevor. The Trevor Project is the leading national organization focused on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) youth.
187 comments
Sign in to add your ownpetitehermine says:
This is a great article. Unique people are the ones who lead us to discoveries.
2 years ago
VivaGailBeads says:
these are beautiful selections. thank you for the wonderful article!
2 years ago
batzy says:
Great article, that is one of the great things about Etsy, you can find so many different great styles
2 years ago
StudioCybele says:
very cool. Great article too!
2 years ago
mokopo says:
Where can I find that chicken print, because it is FABULOUS!
2 years ago
ohthisnose says:
This is so good to see! Thank you!
2 years ago
jorgensenstudio says:
great article and very inspiring. Also great to see I am not the only one with a obsession for Adam Ant :)
2 years ago
justgivemepeace says:
Very nice. Thank you!
2 years ago
dalaimomma says:
Loved the article! Every flower got a right to be bloomin'!
2 years ago
maclancy says:
thrilled to see this article...we must be aware of how this affects us all as a community and nation to recognize, support and rejoice in diversity!
2 years ago
soapymamma says:
Thanks for sharing. Opening our hearts and perceptions and expressing beauty and compassion through our art moves us all along a progressive path toward loving our fellow humans more. Great article :)
2 years ago
FromTheRooftops says:
Beautifully written article and some lovely finds - thanks!
2 years ago
TefillahSerenity says:
This is an absolutely amazing story.. I would love to be apart of the group because I too can relate.. Wow. Very touching.. I'm so proud of what you have done and never given up HOPE on yourself and your dreams. Keep on creating and being that powerful force that you are. :)
2 years ago
ElephantTrunkStudio says:
Thank you for sharing this article. Art is an amazing outlet and it is awesome to hear about the difference it made in your life. I often think of this quote: "Tolerance implies no lack of commitment to one's own beliefs. Rather it condemns the oppression or persecution of others." -John F. Kennedy
2 years ago
maggiemaevintage says:
nice article... way to recover and be yourself, especially today we need everyone to stand up to bullies!
2 years ago
FromTheRooftops says:
@mokopo - http://www.etsy.com/listing/61393880/hilda-sees-things-differently-from-her
2 years ago
Lindensage says:
Fantastic article...to stand up for yourself...
2 years ago
funkomavintage says:
Yes! so always, Keep on Keeping on.
2 years ago
ThePotterySyndicate says:
Word!
2 years ago
DevineCollectible says:
Awe shucks, everybody is different if we all were the same life would be so very boring! peace, everyday brings you joy! Live life to it's fullest! Happy is inside! DevineCollectible
2 years ago
marsia says:
Thanks for the well-written reminder that art is a viable alternative to despair, whatever your sexual orientation may be. Keep on keeping on!
2 years ago
choisette says:
it's true, people tend to feel threatened by non-conformity, and often react to it in negative and often, destructive ways. but, fortunately, the world's a big place. there are so many big cities, such as san francisco, los angeles + london, where a person can enjoy the freedom to express oneself without fear of reprisal or derision.
2 years ago
calloohcallay says:
Oh the hell that is middle school. I hope that it's changing, but there's a long way to go. Thanks for a great article!
2 years ago
queenofqueens says:
Thank you everyone for your kind comments. I'm honored to be part of a team whose members possess not only talent but bravery as well. Thank you Morgan & etsy for recognizing the importance of this issue! xox
2 years ago
Niftic says:
I'll share with all, great message and wonderful inspiration to all who are they say, "a bit different."
2 years ago
BreatheCouture says:
Loving it! What a boring world it would be if we were all the same and no one stood out. One of the reasons I do one of a kind is to always have something unique and different. Keep being uniquely you! :)
2 years ago
Alfonzi says:
love this article, and love that so many people have come together to inspire hope
2 years ago
rozzie says:
very artistic and unique!
2 years ago
VelveteenHabbit says:
I'm so glad there are people with open hearts-glad glad glad I don't have to do middle school again!!!
2 years ago
RubySkeleton says:
It really is a dare to be different. Those of us who take that dare are stronger than the ones that never do because they fear of what their "friends" might say. True self expression is what brings out the creativity in each & every one of us. No matter how "weird or freaky" it may be to others, it should be free, fearless, & unjudged. The conformists are too afraid to be different that they must bully the brave ones that are not afraid. Extremely powerful article & thank you for sharing!
2 years ago
SilverSistersStudio says:
great article. Very interesting to see the progression of becomming who you really are, no mater what others think. Made me understand some of the reasons people enter the counter culture in a way I hadn't thought of before.
2 years ago
myvintagecrush says:
Thank you for sharing. Beautiful stories, beautiful art. Amazing. No hate, only love.
2 years ago
EForestCreations says:
Such a wonderful inspiring article. I try and teach my kids everyday that different is cool and weird is great. I always said " A rainbow in black & white just wouldn't be as great, every color had to be different to make it magnificent" :-)
2 years ago
beachglassshop says:
great article - dare to be different - something I should think about!
2 years ago
nowonder says:
Fun to read! Its always best to do what you're most comfterble with.
2 years ago
verdigreen says:
Thank you thank you thank you for baring yourself in this article. It is a touching reminder that we can rise above.
2 years ago
riverwolfeartjewelry says:
Thank you ETSY for providing a space where we can all thrive and realize our true potential.
2 years ago
creativityismessy says:
What an inspiring and wonderfully written article. It took me too many years to feel comfortable in my own skin and just "own" who it is I really am. And now with an 12 year old daughter I am trying so hard to encourage her to be who she really is and try not to take it too hard when people are too ignorant to understand.
2 years ago
PlumeandPetals says:
Love the first painting! so inspiring =)
2 years ago
2TrickPony says:
thanks to everyone involved for this inspiring article.
2 years ago
thepapermoonstudio says:
Very inspiring..love it!
2 years ago
IslaNewYork says:
Wow, this is a truly inspiring story! I think there's always a silver lining to even the darkest clouds :) Thanks so much for sharing this personal story!
2 years ago
Mclovebuddy says:
wonderful! thanks so much. :D
2 years ago
yaelfran says:
Wonderful article, thank you for share it with all of us!!
2 years ago
PoleStar says:
Fantastic piece. I hope to teach my boys the same thing, to stand up for themselves and what is right no matter who they feel they are, and to always know they have a sheltering place at home where we will always be there for them, find alternatives to problems and defend them to the last.
2 years ago
Krystyna81 says:
I am so honored to be surrounded by creative individuals in my life, many of whom are LGBT, and proud of it. They are dedicated to their partners, hard workers, amazing artists. It pains me when other people have an issue with another person's sexuality. How in ANY way does it effect YOUR life? Congratulations on the well written and thought-provoking article. I hope that every child, or adult, who needs to hear "it does get better", hears it today.
2 years ago
OneLittleHouse says:
i enjoyed reading this - thank you! :))
2 years ago
SkyDreams says:
Great article! Thank you for sharing it with us.
2 years ago
simplyworn says:
lovely article and pieces of art thank you for sharing this!
2 years ago
AllThatIAm says:
Great article! Thanks to Etsy for showing their support for the queer community and how our lives have been affected by art. Being who you are, in peace and safety, is so very important and every step we take in that direction is a big one.
2 years ago
beadfreaky says:
Thanks for this inspiring article! We all need that assurance to be ourselves and to love ourselves. And art is the best way ( that I know of at least ) to let out some of what's inside.
2 years ago
lovelygifts says:
Great article
2 years ago
monocotoleydon says:
Thank you for a beautiful article on a topic very close to my heart. I love that Etsy has a strong queer community and that it's a place that welcomes us all. I think that for many of us the act of creating ourselves and the act of creating our art can have strong parallels, and it's wonderful to see this process in others, as I've found it in myself.
2 years ago
SHAbang says:
For me as a parent, its important to start teaching acceptance at a young age - everyone is different & there is nothing wrong with it. I've already run into other parents who say they would never let their kids - some of whom are still infants - hang around certain people, and not only does it make me angry, it makes me sad. We can do so much when children are young to prevent closed minded ways of thinking before they even start school.
2 years ago
VelvetBitchOriginals says:
Thank you for your amazing article! What an awesome world it would be if everyone could feel safe enough to really be themselves...
2 years ago
OxOriginalArtJewelry says:
Growing up is sooo difficult. I, too, developed a passion for art early and found it helped me through many difficult times. Thanks for sharing your stories and struggles.
2 years ago
ColoradoGirlGear says:
I was always the "weird" and "different" kid; so this article hit really close to home. I didn't want to wear cookie cutter clothes or do the cookie cutter job and lead a normal lifestyle. Now, I am part of a great community that understands and life at 30 isn't as weird as it was when I was 16 :)
2 years ago
sharonclancydesigns says:
Thanks for this great article Morgan. I love hearing stories about how art has helped so many people get through rough times, enabling them to creatively express their deepest emotions. I find it tragic, that the art programs have been cut from most of the public schools, as if to say it's the least important thing for students. This proves the contrary. Thanks so much for sharing...love the artwork here as well.
2 years ago
arsniccandy says:
Such a close to home and familiar story......brought tears to my eyes. In result I turned into a goth queen when I was in high school:) Now I am a dancer/clothing designer/maker:) You are fabulously amazing!!
2 years ago
cheapherveleger says:
Cool idea! Thanks for sharing! http://www.cheap-herve-leger.com
2 years ago
Parachute425 says:
It's a wonder any of us survived middle school! Great article.
2 years ago
FunWithNeedles says:
beautiful article... haters gonna hate! wonderful wonderful, what makes you different makes you beautiful!
2 years ago
deepfried says:
This is absolutely excellent. You had me at the donations but Adam and the Ants too? After my own heart!! Excellent Etsy Team, great article and great picks. Wonderful. Thank you for doing what you do. Kimmy
2 years ago
ScarletIvySoaps says:
Amazingly well written article. I am in tears. <3
2 years ago
VeloNoir says:
Inspiring article... The world would be a boring place if nobody dared to be different. Diversity makes life more vibrant. Also, this quote comes to mind, "I may not be better than other people, but at least I'm different." --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
2 years ago
accentonvintage says:
Thanks for sharing your story! Wonderful Art!
2 years ago
GalleonGal says:
Teens need to be given the opportunity to grow and build their self esteem, Once I was a shy teen, yet family encouraged me to grow, My art, books, imagination were my friends
2 years ago
chrispysmom says:
My son is going through middle school now. He is an artist and individual spirit who definitely stands out and pays the price. Thank you for this.
2 years ago
BunnyKissd says:
Thank you for sharing your story, Michelley!
2 years ago
mazedasastoat says:
Acceptance & tolerance doesn't make you a lesser person, it makes the world a greater place.
2 years ago
BellaPuzzlesToo says:
Right on. Thank you.
2 years ago
smagnet says:
It's so great to see this kind of politicized art on etsy. It feels really fabulous to see art connected to anti-racist, queer-positive and feminist action. I really crave finding this type of work in the craft world - and that's not always an easy task. Your article really quenched the place in me tonight that I didn't even know was thirsty.
2 years ago
Emmamaha says:
Thank you for sharing Michelley. Your story is poignant and true to our time (sadly) Thank you for all those who brought it to light here. Perhaps a lost soul will read it and it will bring some hope:)
2 years ago
Lotsofjewels says:
I live in Central Pennsylvania, a very very conservative and uptight place! Recently, a young teen boy committed suicide because of kids bullying him about being different and gay. Watching his classmates mourn him and talk about his talent and kindness was heartbreaking. Hearing that the other so-called "normal" kids called him a "freak" because of his hair and clothes really made me furious. Thanks for this thought provoking article and a glimpse into your life.
2 years ago
KhaliNouveau says:
Thanks for a awesome article. Truly enjoyed it.
2 years ago
RusticGoth says:
Thank you for sharing. It's informative for anyone who feels ostracized.
2 years ago
LouisestArt says:
Thank you! Great article.
2 years ago
LouisestArt says:
“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.†Thanks for the article!
2 years ago
labellefairy says:
Everyone has a best time in their life for some it will always be the glory days of high school, for others the best days happen later, like they have to me! thanks
2 years ago
aleiher says:
Thank you thank you thank you!
2 years ago
EmmasDestiny says:
Thank all of you for your comments. I am proud to be part of the Etsy Queer Team and this article is simply a way to remind all of us how important it is to respect and honor difference.
2 years ago
MarquesaJen says:
Rock on! I remember the hell that was middle school and freshman year of high school. If I hadn't found punk music and other freaks I don't know where I'd be right now!
2 years ago
medicineproductions says:
Its important to love who you are and Express yourself!! Thanks for an inspiring article! :)
2 years ago
sparrowsalvage says:
Thank you so much for this beautiful story. I grew up different too, as did my brother. Our parents weren't exactly the Cleavers; in the 1970s mum wore disco fashion proudly and Dad dressed like an 1850s farmer. And we lived in a pink house. And my aunt was the town hippy. I guess you could say I never really knew normal! I've never been afraid to be who I am. From D&D fantasy nerd, to goth, street punk, hippy, feral (that's an Australian blend of punk and hippy) and all over and back again. In the late 1990s I because heavily depressed and suicidal purely because I didn't 'sit' with the rest of the world, but thankfully I came through, purely with the help of my friends. Now I just get to say 'I'm an artist' and it's like a free pass to be crazy! Fly that freak flag high, and never let the muggles bring you down!
2 years ago
roseshellojewellery says:
Great article!
2 years ago
LittleWrenPottery says:
Fabulous article, I think we all have to maintain hope that life can be better in the future.
2 years ago
sweetjane says:
Thank God you got through your tough period growing up and are happy with who you are today. I know a lot of people can relate to parts of your story. Take care of yourself!
2 years ago
ThirdHandArt says:
Beautiful article!
2 years ago
TCaponePhoto says:
Such a touching and beautiful article... thank you to all for sharing your stories. I can relate to much of it, being the, shy, quiet "geeky nerd" in high school. Funny thing is, those who picked on me are still right where they were 20 years ago (and, oddly, all married to one another) and I'm living in an amazing city that I love, creating art that I love (and hope others do), with good friends who I love and who love me for who I am. It took a long time for me to be comfortable just being me but I'm so happy I got to that place. Thank you again for sharing... I'm so glad I started my day reading this. *tracey*
2 years ago
Gynx says:
What a great article. Thanks!
2 years ago
FreshUrbanVintage says:
Super, thanks.
2 years ago
MurDesign says:
Tv channels have made a video to young gay people "Kaikki muuttuu paremmaksi" here in Finland, inspired to that "it gets better". Nice that someone is doing something atleast..
2 years ago
fandanglz says:
This is a wonderful article that will hopefully give great inspiration to lots of "unique" people! I Love It!
2 years ago
rakshniyavintage says:
yes!! this is exactly what's so needed! I'm so happy to read this article, thank you for making such an amazing effort :)
2 years ago
Vanessa says:
Art class in high school can be such a refuge. Yet another reason why it's so important that we continue to fund art programs in public schools! Thank you so much for sharing your stories.
2 years ago
jewelrybymichal says:
Very good article.touching!!!
2 years ago
BigSkyArtworks says:
My sons are all "different." While none of them is LGBT (at least, as far as I know), each of them lived far outside the box they were expected to live in. They suffered abuse in high school - but they emerged from the fire as strong, creative, individual thinkers. Thank you for sharing your experience - and reminding us all that "it gets better."
2 years ago
debidoesdesign says:
great article... inspiring
2 years ago
MetroGypsy says:
Beautiful Morgan!
2 years ago
thecraftparty says:
It took me three tries to read this whole post because I kept tearing up. Though I'm not gay, I was bullied in school and Michelley's story really resonated with me. "Claiming our space as creative people and choosing to survive in a world that tries to tear us down is the most revolutionary thing we can do." Yes! Thanks to the Queer Street Team & Etsy for speaking out on this incredibly important issue.
2 years ago
stonz says:
Bravo. A wonderful article~ thank you for sharing your stories.
2 years ago
catbirdcraft says:
"I can relate to much of it, being the, shy, quiet "geeky nerd" in high school. Funny thing is, those who picked on me are still right where they were 20 years ago (and, oddly, all married to one another) and I'm living in an amazing city that I love, creating art that I love (and hope others do), with good friends who I love and who love me for who I am. It took a long time for me to be comfortable just being me but I'm so happy I got to that place." TCaponePhoto ^ I can relate to this so much too. It's easy now to forget how vile life was in high school (it was quite a while ago for me!) but for those of you out there that are still going through it please believe it WILL get better, it will because it has for ones like us :) Great article. Thank you QST and Etsy.
2 years ago
dragonhouseofyuen says:
a fantastic article!
2 years ago
compassionmalas says:
What a great article! I'm so inspired to read the stories of people who fought to be who they are, unoppressed. It makes me really wish everyone could have a good art class, choir, drama department, or band in high school and before, when people are really struggling to feel comfortable. Be well!
2 years ago
OurDecay says:
love love love
2 years ago
Miclason says:
my grandma used to say: "Weird" is a petty person´s way of saying "unique"
2 years ago
TheHouseOfTerez says:
I am sure that the rest of your article was awe-inspiring, but I simply could not go on after reading this: "Claiming Our Space As Creative People And CHOOSING TO SURVIVE In A World That TRIES To Tear Us Down Is THE MOST REVOLUTIONARY THING WE CAN DO." That statement alone speaks volumes to me. When I am able to compose myself a little more, I may go back and read the rest, but as of now, what I've quoted above, is to me, the core feeling of your article. Please do not be offended by my posting your quote on my facebook page. I will not claim it as my own, but my fellow artists NEED your inspirational words, as do I. Thank you. I am filled with emotion and intention at this moment.
2 years ago
1AEON says:
h8te..wow!
2 years ago
queenofqueens says:
Thank you all again so much for taking the time to read this article. I'm overwhelmed by the kindness of your comments and so excited to "meet" more members of my tribe. :) With much love and gratitude.
2 years ago
SavoyFaire says:
At a church craft fair a couple of years ago there was a teenage boy sitting with his mom I figured helping her. They were selling the prettiest bead bracelets for like $5 so I stopped to buy one. The hours of work must have been a lot and I love supporting people who try to support their church, charity, etc. I said to my friend I have to have one of these GORGEOUS Bracelets! The look on the mom's face was not something I'll soon forget as the boy jumped to his feet in shock! They had both been sitting looking kind of dejected I thought and it almost turned me off but alas I forge on! Anyways after I stated that the mom said her son makes them! I was pouring out compliments and held the red one I wanted to wear for Christmas but pretended I couldn't decide. Another shopper was going by and chimed in and also agreed when seeing the boy as the creator and bought another one! I let her go ahead and finish her transaction with him and while he packed her bracelet his mom told me quietly she couldn't thank me enough and I told her I genuinely thought they were beautiful. (For 5 bucks to make someone's day and encourage them in their hobby was priceless to me). She said he had been made fun of by his friends and school mates for this hobby. I told her he could be come a metalsmith or jeweler some day who knows and to let them know that as he was now a successful seller!
2 years ago
PassionForVintage says:
A wonderful article. Thank you for sharing.
2 years ago
JackiesDream says:
Thank you for this article. It is important to make people understand that it is ok to be different. It is sad to think that as much as the world has supposed to have changed for the better, tormenting someone who is diffent is still accepted as cool. I am a 44 year old woman with a husband and a 17 year daughter, who just happens to have Cerebral Palsy and the CP is all that people seem to see. I hope that people will one day be able to see with their hearts not just their eyes!
2 years ago
NOLAdreadfulll says:
Nice :)
2 years ago
bluebicicletta says:
what a great article here. I can't agree more! I think a lot of us artists went through a weirdo phase, and it's hard to see out of it and find a way to create your own self. I applaud anyone who does!
2 years ago
SMIRNOFFdesignSTUDIO says:
AMAZING ARTICLE! I'M PROUD TO BE DIFFERENT,CREATIVE,WEIRD,CRAZY (WHATEVER IT'S CALLED) IN ALL ASPECT OF MY LIFE... AND MAKE A LIFE MORE BRIGHT, MEANINGFUL AND HAPPY AROUND ME, MY LOVED ONE AND FRIENDS. GOOD LUCK and BE INSPIRED. :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
2 years ago
breations says:
great article and very inspiring.
2 years ago
BPvintage says:
excellent!!
2 years ago
thebadgerset says:
Brilliant article, be inspired by anything and everything, be unique, love yourself. Exactly what Etsy is all about, and what life should be about!
2 years ago
cooljewelrydesign says:
This collection is so "everyone." Face it. We all need to rejoice in self-discovery, offbeat humor, accepting eccentric (that would be my norm) and allowing "others" who we don't necessarily understand..."in." What a treat to discover another perspective. One that opens minds for deep inspection Loved the article...(let us reread it weekly)
2 years ago
aurorajewel says:
A truly inspiring article! My greatest respect goes to those who have known these struggles,& have have grown to show the world just how special they are. I feel how deprived we would have been not knowing those who have had to stand up to those whose ignorance is so sad for them.
2 years ago
ilovewhatilove says:
thx for sharing=)
2 years ago
ilovewhatilove says:
thx for sharing=)
2 years ago
bonni1982 says:
great article! thank youx
2 years ago
destash4u says:
Wonderful ARTicle!! So glad to be a part of the Queer Etsy Street Team! Paz!! xo
2 years ago
SEOWebDesign says:
Thank you for a well-written intelligent article. Becoming real and authentic is never easy but some go through harder times than others. The world is full of fear and hatred. Sadly, the expression of that fear often is the bullying and intimidation of anyone who dares to be different and authentic. e.e. cummings wrote, "it takes a lot of courage to grow up and become who you really are."
2 years ago
redemptionart says:
Okay, are we allowed to cry while reading interviews? If not then I guess someone has to give me a ticket...crying while under the influence! ha! ha! Just had heart to heart with my wonderfully sensitive granddaughter who is concerned about a friend who is gay and being bullied..interesting thing, they do art together, she said that's when (friend) is really happy! I am posting this on her fb page. Blessings on you, your art, your shop and all whom you minister to...
2 years ago
olana11 says:
Wild article-reminds me SO much of my own youth-struggling to be me.( I laughed at "long before Hot Topic-I remember those days...) And now I watch my own daughter go through it. Diversity is what makes us beautiful. thx for the words and the collection!
2 years ago
sofisticata says:
I like the chicken print :)
2 years ago
GratitudeLady says:
Beautiful article! This ol' lady hopes to join your group soon. Art has always been the expression of healing in my life and that of some many others of us who spent so many years searching for ourselves! Thank you! michaelann
2 years ago
ikabags says:
Well done and great article ! Many thanks for sharing !
2 years ago
mojosewsew says:
This article was so refreshing. I used to idolise Adam Ant and, indeed, had my "different" moments. I then began to blend in with evereybody else, and gave up. After reading this article, I have decided that I need to unleash my inner-self again.... I have become boring and I don't like it!!!!! Thankyou xx
2 years ago
sarahsquiltsncrafts says:
Children can be so cruel. The "target" doesn't even have to be "different", as I found out the hard way in my school years. "Against-ism" can be found everywhere, and many mistakenly think that re-establishes and reaffirms their own individuality and value. This can be seen in households, among small circles of people, between groups, political parties, between nations...
2 years ago
MonikaDesign says:
Thsi is a GREAT article! Thank you so much for sharing!
2 years ago
RawEdgesStudio says:
This article was so uplifting and inspiring. Learning that it is okay to be "different" and learning to love yourself as you are can be such a long journey. Even now, I still have to check-in with myself now and then and remind myself of this fact. Thank you for sharing your story Michelley!
2 years ago
fanfreluxe says:
Great article! Thanks!
2 years ago
rokinronda says:
I'm inspired to go on.....creating art is pure joy for me!
2 years ago
rokinronda says:
My son was bullied.......I was excluded from art classes because of overcrowding......just started painting again.......
2 years ago
BettyVonBat says:
This is a great article! Dare to be different, that's what I always live by.
2 years ago
WickedClayGirl says:
Viva la diferencia!
2 years ago
leesmith says:
Great article! I think a lot of artists come from a hard life and struggle we don't realize. It's nice to hear and share our experiences. Thanks for the posting.
2 years ago
jaipuronline says:
Very interesting............
2 years ago
Flyk says:
Oh, I love love love this article. I was in marching band for all of middle and high school, and, sadly, we were not the praise of my school ;-). I found myself in these types of situations often. Thank you for sharing.
2 years ago
faithnhope10 says:
I LOVE this story, best one yet! I am now going to check out your shop becasue you seem to have some very beautiful and unique gifts. You are very talented! I am going to have my daughter read this article as well, thank you so very much for sharing your story. Keep up the great work
2 years ago
handmaidencanada says:
Very well said! Kudos to you for being so independent and strong from such a young age! I feel like I'm just coming into that space now...and I'm in my thirties. :) I have cared too much for too long about what everyone else thinks. It's time now to discover who I really am and honour that...to live my dreams. I am very excited about my new shop on Etsy, because I feel it will allow me to really delve into my own passion for creativity and hopefully bring joy and warmth to others along the way.
2 years ago
OldSchoolTools says:
Wonderful article! Being "different" (in any way) takes bravery...I applaud you for yours! I was a "weirdo" in school too...art, crafts, and punk rock gave me a way to express myself, for which I'm forever grateful. Were it not for the arts, I honestly don't know how I would have made it through adolescence at all... Stay free, strong, and 100% yourself...peace!
2 years ago
SnuggliMumCreations says:
What a Great Article... makes us realize more!
2 years ago
LindseyErinArt says:
I love the artwork shown in this article. I am a high school art teacher and these are great to show students for examples in my honors art classes. Thank you!!
2 years ago
SpaceAgeCeramix says:
Gotta push the limits. (-:
2 years ago
CherylsTrueNature says:
Imagine how quiet the woods would be if all the birds sang the same song. I hope you have a Wonder-Filled Day!!! Cheryl
2 years ago
Chatonia says:
i love people that have the courage to be just their selves
2 years ago
kawaiiktsch says:
what a wonderful section, love the hearts embroidery piece!
2 years ago
helensadornments says:
Lovely article and love the idea of the Trevor Project. I will have to get more info to see how i can help.
2 years ago
beadsbymiyuki says:
Your article was very moving. Thanks for sharing!
2 years ago
UsagiRabbit says:
In high school, art class was always my haven as well. Lovely and inspiring article. I can certainly identify with the things you said. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
2 years ago
scarr13 says:
YES. Thank you.
2 years ago
bmjnyc says:
Thank you so much for sharing your inspiring story. By doing so and promoting Trevor Project you are making it easier for future generations and that's amazing. Happy holidays.
2 years ago
topsyturvydesign says:
Thanks for sharing your story Michelley! You are a Queen of the Wild Frontier.
2 years ago
baconsquarefarm says:
Thanks for sharing your stories yea art~ just saw this article today would have responded sooner.
2 years ago
NancyvdBoom says:
Thanks for sharing. Wishing you wonderful holidays, enjoy!
2 years ago
Waterrose says:
oh my...I can't believe I missed this insightful article. Thanks for writing it with such introspection and honesty.
2 years ago
TZain says:
Beautiful art! Very inspiring!
2 years ago
pinkpoison74 says:
I love the never give up tattoo thats super sweet! xoxo
2 years ago
retroreclaim says:
this is fantastic, I wish I had internet when I was a youth "daring to be different" in rural ontario, being queer and femme, and artzy in a small working class town is asking for it, I am so glad blogs and info exist like this today! great stuff!
2 years ago
jerise says:
thank you so much, queenofqueens! the stories are important to share, and simply having us all out here is a statement in itself that things can (and do) get better.
2 years ago
NaturalEarthCraft says:
Thank you for sharing your story. Things do get better for all of us...queer and straight.
2 years ago
ArabesqueAromas says:
I Heart this!
2 years ago
ArabesqueAromas says:
I Heart this!
2 years ago
ArabesqueAromas says:
I Heart this!
2 years ago
ninalara says:
Nice designs
2 years ago
jdbrogdon says:
I love the chicken print! :) good article.
2 years ago
galahad40 says:
Fabulous!
2 years ago
fasign says:
Inspiring Article! I have tried hard to be myself, to follow my dream and dare to express who I am. And you make me feel I am not alone. Thank you!
2 years ago
GreenNotion says:
Thank you... and it DOES get better. I am proud of you for baring such personal things and for the strength which you have gathered over your journey. Wisdom in experience.... you can see this clearly in your writing. <3 Keep on keeping on
2 years ago
StyleDezigns says:
I'm so happy to read this article. Thank you very much.
2 years ago
sisobaba says:
May all our children have access to inspirational teachers, they make all the difference.
2 years ago
cloudkeeper says:
An awesome post -- thanks so much for sharing!
2 years ago
Bumbleweedz says:
I am moved by this blog, I think I will print this one out.
2 years ago
PrettyLoot says:
This was a wonderful article. I tried so hard to blend in when I was young, I think it only resulted in me being lost in the crowd. I'd have much rather been myself and been remembered ;-)
2 years ago
MaLaMiNaKaNo says:
Like it!
2 years ago
MaLaMiNaKaNo says:
Like it!
2 years ago
LANCERIKA says:
We have the right to exist... merci for posting this awesome article! I wish to have the courage to be the Real*me*...art free us to be honest with our deeper feelings...is pretty hard to be accepted in our current world without being criticized or judged by people that do not understand why we are different from the norm. People are strange!
2 years ago
LANCERIKA says:
We have the right to exist... merci for posting this awesome article! I wish to have the courage to be the Real*me*...art free us to be honest with our deeper feelings...is pretty hard to be accepted in our current world without being criticized or judged by people that do not understand why we are different from the norm. People are strange!
2 years ago
LysanderNViviana says:
Absolutely inspirational! Great article!
2 years ago
creationsbyks says:
Absolutely beautful, so inspirational! Thanks for sharing! I used to try so hard to be like everybody else, great story to all of those people like us out there!
2 years ago
CassidyStarr says:
fantastically beautiful.
2 years ago
queenofqueens says:
Just came back to "visit" this article again after being away for awhile. I'm humbled by the kindness, coolness and openness of everyone who has posted here. I've read every one of your comments and I'm truly inspired by your stories, bravery and defiance. I'm so proud to be a part of such an exceptional community. Keep fighting the good fight, y'all. And TopsyTurvy, that's one of the best things anyone has ever said about me. ;) XOX QoQ
2 years ago
Ken Dayton from ThePackRatsAttic says:
As a very proud and out 56 year old gay man that lived thru similar fears but in a much different time in a small town, thank you for the fantastic blog. Much more....thank you for the groundbreaking efforts you and others of your generation helped make for the current one, so that they have the ability to live being WHO they are much more than any previous one.
330 days ago