Abby Blaire Capalbo is an editor for Style Me Pretty, a style savvy wedding resource devoted to the modern bride. She brings the chicest weddings to the masses, catering to the detail-obsessed bride, and she thinks her job is pretty glorious. Abby is a lover of all things pretty, her smarty pants husband, the ocean, small details that really are quite big, New England, cake stands, and her crazy golden retriever, Otto. (Not in that order, of course; cake stands would be much closer to the top.)
Etsy is a wedding planning haven where a bride’s detailed dreams come true, and that makes for some drop dead gorgeous affairs for us to gawk over. Some of our favorite fêtes are of the fall variety, so we thought we would whip up a few buying guides based on some drool-worthy autumn affairs. First we’ll show a little snap shot of the wedding, and then unveil the board of curated Etsy goodness. Got it? Fab! Let’s get started with this gorgeous Santa Ynez soiree by none other than Jose Villa.
Hard not to love that goodness, and with a little help from our crafty Etsy friends it can all be yours.
[ 1. Name and date favor tags from The Ruffly Owl; 2. Vintage soda bottles from The Gingham Owl; 3. Vintage bow tie from Hello Again Vintage; 4. Mason jars from Twinkle Little Starr; 5. Wine crate from Beatrice in Blue; 6. Burlap fabric from Fabric Mart; 7. Orange ribbon from Not Joe's Stuff; 8. Wood signs from True Connection]
1. Say thank you in style with these adorable tags.
2. Fab vintage bottles for centerpieces.
3. Oh, how I LOVE bow ties!
4. Mason jars aplenty.
5. Wine crate for escort card display.
6. Burlap as a backdrop.
7. Ribbon to tie on chairs.
8. Wood signs to direct guests.
Beth Helmstetter is a styling goddess, and this gorgeous party does elegant rustic so well that the term “elegant rustic” was probably coined for this wedding. But you don’t have to take my word for it: here’s a little snippet from the gorgeous affair.
And now, here are some ideas on how you can make it your very own.
[1. Navy bridesmaid's dress from Anaya; 2. Vintage coke bottles from Glass N More; 3. grey striped straws from The Party Fairy; 4. Cake stand from Roxy Heart Vintage; 5. cake topper from Baumbirdy; 6. Wooden tags from Idea Chick]
1. The perfect navy bridesmaid’s dress your ladies will wear again and again.
2. Cute-as-can-be vintage Coke bottles!
3. Who doesn’t love grey striped straws?
4. Bringing in the rustic with this fab cake stand.
5. Adorable, yet elegant, cake topper.
6. Wooden tags for place cards to hang on the bottles.
And finally, this autumn photo shoot is just my dream fall setting — warm tones, a fabulous menu and wine aplenty. We just had to take the opportunity to make this inspiration a reality…
You just need a few beautiful things to bring it to life…
[1. 1950s German vase from Dotti Rose Studio; 2. Antique hanging wine rack from R Christopher Designs; 3. Parisian princess gown from Claire la Faye; 4. Vintage brass bird box from High Street Market; 5. Natural cotton twine from Inspire Lovely; 6. Vintage 1930s LYSOL bottle from from MyraMelinda; 7. Calligraphy samples from Lauren Hooper Calligraphy; 8. Hand built leaf plate from Sumiko]
1. A fabulous and unique vase to bring that gorgeous gold into the color palette.
2. I am obsessed with riddling racks, and this one gives the rich winery feel.
3. Elegant and rustic, this dress just makes my heart happy.
4. Love this bird box. I would use the top as a cake topper.
5. Twine never looked so pretty!
6. The perfect vintage bottle for flowers.
7. Oh calligraphy, how I love thee!
8. The perfect leaf serving platter to complete the fall theme.
Are you planning a fall wedding?

159 comments
Sign in to add your ownlauraprentice says:
So beautiful!
1 year ago
pulpsushi says:
Love the selections! I know when I finally do get married, Etsy will be the first place I go for my bridal needs. :)
1 year ago
TheMillineryShop says:
Drool-worthy indeed! Congrats to all those out there getting married this Fall!
1 year ago
BirdsNestCompany says:
As a bride about to get married in November, I must say I LOVE everything here! Everything is so simple and unique! Such a wonderful job!
1 year ago
AyeCHIHUAHUA says:
Stunning colors!
1 year ago
myvintagecrush says:
I can never get enough wedding! Love this!
1 year ago
seastararts says:
wedding loveth!
1 year ago
SweetandDandyVintage says:
There are so many things I would do differently if I was getting married now...namely, it would be a total Etsy wedding! Isn't it funny how we shift in life? Thanks for another beautiful post!
1 year ago
sparrowgrey says:
I absolutely love autumn weddings! Collections like these make summer brides like myself want to live vicariously through the couples getting married in the fall.
1 year ago
VivaGailBeads says:
they are so beautiful!
1 year ago
Patalier says:
Drool worthy is right!
1 year ago
okiemonkeybusiness says:
To every wedding there is a season and you have captured the essence of a perfect fall wedding!
1 year ago
WatchWithDaDa says:
Very lovely. I've been at 50s and 18th Century themed weddings this summer and they both managed to be pretty, stylish AND quirky.
1 year ago
MyEverAfter says:
Fall weddings are always beautiful!
1 year ago
VintageHomeShop says:
Rustic Rural Victorian...ahhh
1 year ago
GwenDelicious says:
We had a fall wedding...by far the best time of year....
1 year ago
perfectwear says:
Truly beautiful. LOVE everything!
1 year ago
Marzycards says:
Lovely!!!
1 year ago
FoosieDesign says:
Such beautiful Weddings!!
1 year ago
LoveNaturally says:
Planning a wedding full of wonderful and original etsy finds is so much fun!
1 year ago
Tidepools says:
Gorgeous! Gorgeous! Gorgeous! need I say more?
1 year ago
GracefullyGirly says:
Style Me Pretty is my all-time favorite wedding blog. There is always something beautiful and inspirational to see on the blog and this collection here is no exception! (I just wish I had more time to do read SMP!) I'm obsessed with riddling racks too! The gorgeous wedding dress on the wine rack is what really takes the cake for me.
1 year ago
dahlilafound says:
This is beautiful. I love an autumn wedding. Beautiful lighting, slower, pondering, thoughtful. :-) dahlila xo
1 year ago
VintageEye says:
I had gotten a bit tired of the wedding themes but this is really lovely. :)
1 year ago
SparkleandHay says:
ohmygosh I just LOVE this! what beautiful ideas!
1 year ago
AZCreativeStudio says:
These items are GORGEOUS! Makes me wanna have another wedding!
1 year ago
SweetMagnoliaLane says:
Beautiful! Makes me look forward to my friend's wedding in November!!
1 year ago
victoriabutterbean says:
My sister-in-law just got married with a woodland theme.. it was so elegant and country at the same time. She would've LOVED this wooden cake stand!
1 year ago
rarebeasts says:
We have lots of weddings coming up, you have just reminded me, Etsy is the place for wedding gifts too
1 year ago
hoganfe says:
Wonderful blog post Abby! Lovely ideas!
1 year ago
EcoFoto says:
I love the fall! Nice warm feeling to the photos!
1 year ago
chandrahuff says:
Love this inspiration abby!
1 year ago
EmilyWiserJewelry says:
love it
1 year ago
PeachPitBoutique says:
wow awesome!!!!!!!
1 year ago
LadyCuba says:
I love the article! Too bad I wasn't aware of Etsy when I got married... but I did make my own flower arrangements and table centers and had the most beautiful day : )
1 year ago
needlenerd says:
gorgeous...
1 year ago
paramountvintage says:
i love this theme!!!!
1 year ago
sherrisscentsandsoys says:
Lovely ideas!
1 year ago
vintagejane says:
BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!
1 year ago
sewlola says:
Gorgeous weddings! I love the vintage details. :)
1 year ago
EnchantingOne says:
It's Naomi {from enchanted} I love this so much! Abby has got the best taste and she's an incredible person! Not only that she's got an incredible smile! I love Autumn weddings. The colors are so rich...but I'm loving all the palettes!
1 year ago
MegansMenagerie says:
Wow!!!!! So in love!!!!! Just beautiful!!!!!!
1 year ago
eclu says:
Amazing!
1 year ago
InvitingInvites says:
Love Elegant Rustic theme!
1 year ago
FranceGallery says:
Such pretty wedding ideas!
1 year ago
noce says:
Beautiful wedding ideas! Love the rustic theme as well.
1 year ago
TheScarfTree says:
Lovely idea's! Beautiful wedding pictures!
1 year ago
vKnit says:
Such beautiful weddings! :)
1 year ago
aostudio9 says:
Great autumn theme! Lovely
1 year ago
tapestri says:
So great to see your face Abby! I hope the quilt has found a precious place in your home... :) Still loving the rustic meets elegant look... Want more rustic wedding ideas for the coming season? A five part "how to", from your dress to your venue, to how to make it yours... http://fleurishstudio.blogspot.com/2011/04/year-of-rustic-wedding-part-i-look.html
1 year ago
mandaleighf says:
Mmmmm.... what a delicious time of year!
1 year ago
sophiemomo says:
The colors of autumn are so inspirational for a wedding! The ideas here are really lovely!
1 year ago
kadydesigns says:
So pretty! I wish I had know about Etsy when I was getting married. Makes me want to do it all over again.
1 year ago
alessandragerevini says:
Amazing combinations! Beautiful autumn weddings.
1 year ago
WoodlandBelle says:
These wedding snippets are *divine.* Autumn weddings are my favorite. Excellent roundup.
1 year ago
WeddingAmbience says:
Wow! I love the fall colors. . . off to add to my favorites!!!!
1 year ago
bedouin says:
Love it all ~ cheers!
1 year ago
WhisperingOak says:
Oh, this so lovely.
1 year ago
thevelvetheart says:
Beautiful, beautiful decor!
1 year ago
ArtistaTree says:
Beautiful details--I love a fall wedding!
1 year ago
baconsquarefarm says:
Wow~ what a beautiful wedding day~ enjoyed looking at all the photos too~ wish you much happiness always...!!
1 year ago
KKSimpleRegalJewelry says:
Fun topic! ~KK~
1 year ago
HippyCheeks says:
I want a wedding!
1 year ago
ideachic says:
Abby - you are amazing and an inspiration. Thanks for the inclusion of the wood tags. FYI, Our shop is Idea Chic ;)
1 year ago
SweetiePieCollars says:
How did anybody even HAVE weddings before Etsy? They must have been so BLAND! :-)
1 year ago
MapleCreekShop says:
I LOVE that navy bridesmaid dress!
1 year ago
ChloesCollars says:
I am obsessed with Style Me Pretty..and have been for a long time! Even after being married for 2 years I still stop by there and check out all the great wedding finds!!
1 year ago
GreighdayVintage says:
Lovely design ideas!
1 year ago
AccentsandPetals says:
beautiful wedding finds. Love the Autumn theme.
1 year ago
treehouseherbs says:
This is just awesome... love the colors and finds. Ahhhh, weddings... :)
1 year ago
domesticdebbie says:
Lovely wedding selections. I love weddings on Etsy!
1 year ago
DreamyIsabel says:
lovely indeed
1 year ago
jazzymimi says:
I'm planning a winter wedding with fall colors -- pumpkin orange and deep burgundy with plenty of white and ivory to lighten the palette. Wonderful selections!
1 year ago
collectiblesatoz says:
Lovely! Thanks for sharing.
1 year ago
Americansockmonkey says:
Just gorgeous!!
1 year ago
vlnewsom4 says:
Love it all! My daughter's wedding gown is from Claire la Faye, can't wait to see her walk down the aisle in it.
1 year ago
beachngoodthings says:
Very elegant!
1 year ago
VintageMarketPlace says:
i love autumn weddings so full of beautiful auburn colors and textures
1 year ago
BelladonnasJoy says:
I love weddings and autumn is my favorite time of year so I love this combination. Thanks for sharing.
1 year ago
lesleya34 says:
Thanks for the inspiration- Very nice collection of items :) I'm planning Sept. 2012!
1 year ago
EleganceElizabethLee says:
Beautiful post! So many great ideas and I love any thing wedding.
1 year ago
studme says:
These are great, just like looking through a magazine, my sister is going to love this blog post.
1 year ago
CupcakeMafiaWest says:
Wish i would have known about Etsy when i got married, such an amazing selection.
1 year ago
AnnamalSF says:
This is a great post! Etsy was a lifesaver for my DIY wedding!
1 year ago
SimpleJoysPaperie says:
What lovely collections! If I were a bride these days, I'd have a very hard time deciding on a theme with all the wonderful choices!
1 year ago
lovelygifts says:
Very nice!
1 year ago
whimsypics says:
Now I want to have a wedding...again....8 years later :) Lovely, lovely collection.
1 year ago
partycraftsecrets says:
I'm an aqua person myself, but orange is such a happy colour, it suprises me that we don't see more of it in wedding ensembles! Perfect for something autumnal. Nice work
1 year ago
violintide says:
I'm not quite wedding ready yet, but Etsy really does have some of the most unique and creative wedding ideas around!
1 year ago
JulieMeyer says:
I love the combination of orange and green - perfect for a wedding! Lovely picks!
1 year ago
tinybabylady says:
I love seeing great and unique ideas like these. I just added a few sparkly clutch purses to my shop and sold four to a bride to be who plans to give them to her bridesmaids. I had never thought of my item for that purpose before and thought it was the most wonderful idea. I love when my customers inspire fresh ideas for items. Happy wedding planning to all and to all a good crafty night!
1 year ago
Parachute425 says:
I was a fall bride. My favorite guy and my favorite time of year. Splendid!
1 year ago
Iammie says:
Beautiful!
1 year ago
PoppyandPearlCo says:
Beautiful!! Makes me wish I could do it all over again :)
1 year ago
perebags says:
Love this!!!
1 year ago
DirtyGirlCreations says:
Ah-mazing, such thought provoking items/ photography. It is incredible what you can find on etsy and what you can do with a little creativity!!
1 year ago
lmetzdorff says:
I love orange dahlias. They are soooo beautiful! I don't know why I'm choosing to leave them out of my wedding. Perhaps I should just start dressing my home with their presence!
1 year ago
felicitycrew says:
So many great picks!
1 year ago
LetThemEatPie says:
this plus a few horse touches and you've got my ultimate favorite wedding. Well... that and pie :)
1 year ago
PomLove says:
oh! beautiful finds. :)
1 year ago
JoyMerrymanPaperie says:
If only vow renewals could be so lavish.... sigh.
1 year ago
amartisan says:
Amazing colors, beautiful finds and perfect ideas for a wedding!
1 year ago
laralewis says:
Etsy was a resource for soooo much of our wedding last year, and I still can't help but find more and more things I love (including dresses). Makes me wish I could redo our wedding again and again! This is a great post!
1 year ago
redemptionart says:
I now recommend friends to etsy when it comes to their wedding planning. Thanks for creating a strong foundation for this art venue. Aloha!
1 year ago
beliz82 says:
Perfect ideas and beautiful finds Thank you for sharing
1 year ago
Trenza says:
Beautiful!
1 year ago
ImagineThatCustDesig says:
Thanks Abby, Georgeous! So Many Wonderful finds right here on Etsy. Best Wishes, Tammy
1 year ago
SpiritedWoodland says:
What beautiful collections - Love the unique style of each!
1 year ago
SewBeeItClothier says:
I just loved this! I follow your blog daily! Thank you!
1 year ago
AurDenDesigns says:
Everyone loves a wedding. Creative ideas!
1 year ago
kathyjohnson3 says:
Beautiful pics! i just loved the ice tea sign with the wooden frame, thanks for sharing, everything was very eye catching and interesting!
1 year ago
TheEverlastingPosy says:
Very pretty pictures and wedding ideas!
1 year ago
ExpressingDevotion says:
I love the wood cake stand!
1 year ago
PinesVintageClothing says:
mason jars and old soda bottles are a favorite of mine for any get together
1 year ago
SparkleSM says:
such an awesome fall collection of items! It's now inspired me to add some fall/autumn themed wedding accessories to my own shop! :) Thanks for sharing!
1 year ago
hawthornehill says:
I love the feel of these weddings. So personal and creative. I wish I had this for mine.
1 year ago
LouisaCatharine says:
Absolutely beautiful, in love with it all!
1 year ago
MaggiePainting says:
Great ideas, my daughter is planning a fall wedding in 2012.
1 year ago
lulusnest says:
Wow! I can never get enough wedding! Love this! Congrats on getting featured too!
1 year ago
mmerrittdesigns says:
I love the personal and cozy feel of these weddings! Beautiful!
1 year ago
BodamerStudio says:
Autumn is my favorite season, great wedding selection!!! ~Michelle B~
1 year ago
NaturalPetProducts says:
Fabulous finds & thank you for sharing too!
1 year ago
BarbaraWoltmannPhoto says:
Beautiful! Congratulations to anyone getting married this season!
1 year ago
AMarigoldLife says:
Wonderful!
1 year ago
WereRabbit2006 says:
So beautiful !
1 year ago
ikabags says:
Amazing !!
1 year ago
blissfulbathandbody says:
Love, love, love it! Fall weddings are my favorite to do! :)
1 year ago
jenAitchison says:
Beautiful!!!!
1 year ago
BridalBling says:
I discovered Etsy after getting married. I'll never forgive myself....
1 year ago
CountrySquirrelsRUS says:
Great collections! Reading wedding blogs keeps me up-to-date on the latest trends and with Etsy being a world class place for all things wedding, I'm blessed to be able to follow my creative dreams with my growing Etsy shop!
1 year ago
JewelsandCrafts says:
I never would have thought of some of these combinations for a wedding. The autumn photo shoot is my favorite!
1 year ago
RedBirdBaking says:
Wow! Beautiful! I wish I would have used Etsy more when I got married, though we did get some AMAZING invitations and thank you cards from some awesome Etsy artists!
1 year ago
recycledwares says:
gorgeous colors and ideas.i love how elegant everything looked with the vintage flair. thanks for sharing your ideas.
1 year ago
windrosie says:
SO prettyful!!!
1 year ago
chasingbutterflies2 says:
LOVE LOVE LOVE
1 year ago
solocosmo says:
I really like the first set, we got married on Oct 4th so Fall colors just get me! Love oranges and browns and deep reds!
1 year ago
freshpikd4u says:
So lovely.
1 year ago
selenadesigns says:
Enchanting ideas for a gorgeous Fall wedding!
1 year ago
PetiteLemon says:
Such lovely wedding finds. So inspiring.
1 year ago
delilas says:
I am doing a fall wedding - in just over 6 weeks, in fact! I am a big DIY-er and a big country girl. I grew up on a horse farm, so burlap and jute are totally my thing, and I love antiques, so lace is always my go to. I already have a huge collection of blue, green, and clear antique mason jars Im using for place settings, and Im sewing burlap runners and bunting flags. I made my own chalkboards for signage and grabbed a birdcage for 10 bucks at a garage sale that I plan on sanding and antiquing to get it just right. Loved this post, and happy to see what I've been designing myself fits in quite well.
1 year ago
MarieVaughnDesign says:
Beautiful photography! I especially adore the iced tea signage. Lovely :)
1 year ago
DellyDumpling says:
Not having a fall wedding, shame when I see those beautiful colour schemes! What lovely photos. Thanks for sharing http://ramblingbridetobe.blogspot.com/
1 year ago
helloagainvintage says:
I absolutely love Fall weddings! And these color palettes are beautiful. Thanks so much for all the ideas!
1 year ago
EclecticAffinity says:
Gorgeous! Autumn weddings are so beautiful!
1 year ago
vsc83 says:
Great article! I love the comparison from the original wedding pics and how to re-create it with Etsy finds. :) I've been having so much fun working with brides this summer - can't wait for the fall and winter weddings!
1 year ago
carolbroadleypottery says:
I love the term Rustic Elegance...and the Iced Tea calligraphy sign is beautiful...great post!!
1 year ago
honey555 says:
Love EVERYTHING, but especially the Ice Tea sign in the wooden frame. Does anyone know where I could get a frame like the one in the photo. Thanks, peonyjrlh@aol.com
1 year ago
blueroompottery says:
Beautiful article, I love the German vase, the colors and the rest of your picks! Thanks for sharing!! :>)
1 year ago
sweetsmilesbaby says:
Beautiful!! I love the ribbons on the chairs, I'll use that for Christmas dinner.
1 year ago
WildPoppyShoppe says:
Those colors make me so excited for Autumn!!
1 year ago
LuciaStofej says:
Just reading about it makes me wanna marry my hubbie again this fall...
1 year ago
therufflyowl says:
Just came across this, thank you for including my 'thank you' tags! :)
1 year ago
bazketmakr says:
fabulous unique ideas! thanks so much for sharing them!
1 year ago
KatyScudieri says:
I like this post with multiple weddings, multiple themes. Still collecting ideas, but ours is coming up quick! Ours is September 24th, 2011. ;)
1 year ago
kristinlee80 says:
We had a summer wedding, but I think that our colors yellow and gray with hints of green still work really nice for early fall http://vimeo.com/26702956
1 year ago
Shineton says:
Getting married next October and this really inspires me! How gorgeous. Our favourite time of year and the colour inspiration is almost too easy. Have already purchased many items off of Etsy (Bridesmaid dresses, table decorations, bridal shrug, etc)...and many more to be purchased soon I'm sure. Is there such a thing as Etsy addiction? If so...I have it.
1 year ago
lilinspirations says:
Have to love the Autumn!
1 year ago
leslieholz says:
totally in LOVE with the new trend toward natural, organic, outdoor, fresh, simple and elegant without all the "over the top" crap that is meaningless. Way to go!!!
1 year ago
basilhill says:
Lovely and beautiful. Already married 7 years, made my own dress etc, and wish I could have another wedding, same man... (without the stress, haha). Waiting for a 20th anniversary or something so I get to do it all again as a small anniversary party. Thanks for the ideas.
1 year ago