Imagine, if you will, that we are catapulted back in time, several hundred years ago to a small village in Wales where two pairs of eyes meet for the very first time. He smiles and she flushes crimson, both consumed by the bashfulness of youth.
She may have already acquired a small collection of Lovespoons from potential suitors, but this boy hopes to win her heart with his own effort. He must prove to her father that he possesses agile hands for working the land, but how does he persuade the young lady of his honest intentions?
He cannot read or write and the strength of his feelings are too raw for such a young man to speak of, but carving for her a single heart means that his own belongs to her; a dragon expresses his commitment to protect her; intertwining vines tell the story of their future growth together, and commas portray their souls. And so he begins work on this deeply romantic gesture from whence the term “spooning” is said to have originated.

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With unwavering patience he teases life into a fair block of Sycamore, turning it over in his hands, first with twca cam (curved dagger) to fashion the spoon’s bowl, then with pen-knife and metal-scraper to weave smooth, undulating Celtic curves into the handle. A fine Lovespoon is born under his dedicated care through the long winter nights by the fire, singing folk songs and listening to ancient tales.
Should the girl approve of both spoon and man, her blessing will be his indicator to commence official courtship. Perhaps they will commit and cohabit — marriage is practically unheard of at this time, in this part of the world. The spoon that brought them together will hold pride of place on a wall in their living room for all of their days. It will pass from generation to generation, allowing their love to live on in the precious object.
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131 comments
Sign in to add your ownpipapiep says:
Love it!
1 year ago
yaelfran says:
great spoons!!!! And wonderful Heidi's illustration!!!!!!
1 year ago
vKnit says:
so many gorgeous spoons! great article! :) xox
1 year ago
smeastman says:
What a wonderful story and such beautiful items! Thank you.
1 year ago
LittleWrenPottery says:
Really sweet story! I'd never heard of this tradition before some beautiful spoons on display here : )
1 year ago
VintageZen says:
Wonderful article. you guys are brilliant.
1 year ago
VintageZen says:
So many beautiful creations!
1 year ago
maggiemaevintage says:
beautiful story!
1 year ago
SilverSynergy says:
Ahh, how sweet! Such an interesting story.
1 year ago
jewelrybyjackie says:
What a lovely tale! I always seem to learn something new when I read these articles!! Thanks!
1 year ago
perfectwear says:
beautiful story and lovely spoons!
1 year ago
72studios says:
what a lovely tradition.....good to know about it!
1 year ago
mikaljains says:
I truly like to reading your post. Thank you so much for taking the time to share such a nice information. I'll definitely add this great post in my article section. Juicers
1 year ago
memake says:
How lovely!
1 year ago
StudioConestoga says:
Beautiful story...awww! Valentine's day! I decided I won't make items with a valentine's theme specificly...I think valentine's not about the material gifts you give your loved one...I like to think it's the special time spent together
1 year ago
SeaFindDesigns says:
LOVE the spoons!!!
1 year ago
QueenofCuffs says:
I had no idea spoons could be so romantic. Lovely article and beautiful spoons - love the history.
1 year ago
AWishForYou says:
Beautiful. Now I want to make a spoon doll !!!
1 year ago
trinityrocks says:
Wicked!
1 year ago
iroirocrafts says:
Charming post!
1 year ago
MegansMenagerie says:
Beautiful spoons! Wow =)
1 year ago
ChrissiesRibbons says:
What a very beautiful story and an incredible tradition... oh to recieve such a handmade token of love! Gorgeous wares too.
1 year ago
ikabags says:
What a lovely tradition ! Today I bought two set spoon for decoration :))
1 year ago
Lisarachel says:
I have never heard this tradition! how very romantic
1 year ago
ZAPOLdesigns says:
very nice, inspiring.
1 year ago
PereLachaise says:
awwww....makes me want to embroider some spoons to go with my anatomical hearts <3 <3 ,, :-)
1 year ago
squarepaisleydesign says:
Beautiful!
1 year ago
shopbobbi says:
thanks for sharing...
1 year ago
Parachute425 says:
So sweet. Thanks for the history.
1 year ago
stepbackink says:
Captivating Story :)
1 year ago
sianuskavintage says:
makes me wanna cwtch up with my sweetheart. love! x
1 year ago
mazedasastoat says:
Nice to see an electronic medium passing down the folklore from past generations, & what truly fabulous craved spoons!
1 year ago
EnglishShop says:
Love Welsh wooden spoons with a soul a meaning, handcrafted with love for love. Objects with a story - as good as it gets. Great piece Amity!
1 year ago
PlumeandPetals says:
Carved wooden spoons are just amazing!~
1 year ago
myvintagecrush says:
Wow, wow, wow! I love those spoons!
1 year ago
jammerjewelry says:
Wonderful and informative article. Thanks
1 year ago
birdie1 says:
Just beautiful.
1 year ago
HadaraTLV says:
This is so beautiful
1 year ago
littlebirdesigns says:
How lovely, thank you for sharing this tradition with us.
1 year ago
MissHildebrandt says:
Oh I love spoons! Thank you for this! I spoon sugar out with silver...ow!
1 year ago
LidiDesign says:
Beautiful story, love those spoons!
1 year ago
blessedvintage says:
what a lovely story!
1 year ago
TubeHeaven says:
oh awesome spoons and great story! i love that ring.
1 year ago
afternoontees says:
Love the connection between the past and the present...love historical traditions...I hope we get to see more posts like this! :) Beautiful!
1 year ago
carousel2 says:
this story makes me smile :)
1 year ago
daydreamjewels says:
Great story :)
1 year ago
VivaGailBeads says:
lovely spoons!
1 year ago
KeepEvolving says:
Beautiful!
1 year ago
TheNightjar says:
Thanks for the unique article!
1 year ago
lovelygifts says:
Interesting article!
1 year ago
paramountvintage says:
what an adorable article!
1 year ago
accentonvintage says:
Beautiful story and tradition! Lovely spoons!
1 year ago
theroyal says:
who doesn't love spooning :)
1 year ago
LucentJewels says:
What a great piece - thanks so much, Amity. Great picks too!
1 year ago
AvianInspirations says:
Oh, this is lovely! I love the spoons and spooning!
1 year ago
ThePolkadotMagpie says:
Wonderful piece, Amity. I'm Welsh and have spoons. :-)
1 year ago
andraswhimsies says:
Beautiful!! I visited Wales a few years back and saw many of these gorgeous spoons! It's great to hear a story behind the tradition. Very romantic!
1 year ago
LineOfSight says:
Spoon it on ! Great spoonful details !
1 year ago
ForsythiaHill says:
Oh wow, I feel a spoon addiction coming on - to add to my coffee pot collection addiction --- ! NICE!
1 year ago
TashinaFalene says:
Beautiful story with pictures of equally beautiful spoons!
1 year ago
DetailsByDonna says:
beautiful story handcrafted with love! I Love the spoons.
1 year ago
tripperdungan says:
I never knew there was so many different types of spoons. Where's the tiki spoons at?
1 year ago
AtelierRetro says:
Beautiful :)
1 year ago
mrsmacolsson says:
We were given a welsh spoon when we got married. Reading this reminded me of the wooden spoon my mum hung on the wall saying "Cooking doesn't last, but spooning does". I remember my parents collapsing in gales of laughter when I tried to explain that it was back to front! Now, with three little ones of my own, I finally get the joke.
1 year ago
petekdesign says:
This is brilliant! thank you for this and for featuring my spooning print! I'm honored! :-)
1 year ago
makissima says:
It's a really charming story! Ahhh, real love! So precious! Thanks for telling us! ♥
1 year ago
acuriousbrood says:
Lovely, timely story...I had never heard of love spoons....they are wonderful!
1 year ago
terminy says:
Fantastic spooning poster!!!! Great wedding gift! :-)
1 year ago
paulajeansgarden says:
i love the history! really fun article and lovely images.
1 year ago
VintageEyeFashion says:
Spoontastic! :)
1 year ago
artworksbycarol says:
I never knew that Welsh custom, interesting.My husband's family tree goes back to Wales, we are Pulliams.
1 year ago
CositasSeriasVintage says:
LOVE it
1 year ago
enjoyorigano says:
Such a Lovely Tale :D I love your story and your design !!
1 year ago
kmariedesignz says:
Who would have thought spoons could be such fun?
1 year ago
kmariedesignz says:
I wish you the very best of luck!
1 year ago
VintageMarketPlace says:
oh I just love spoon art. something about a spoon makes me smile :)
1 year ago
THEODORADESIGNS says:
LOVE the spoon art tradition, As a matter of fact my husband is the chef in the house so a few Valentine years ago I gave him an antique Heart spoon. He was actually thrilled!! Thank you for sharing.
1 year ago
VogueVixens says:
What a lovely story, I've never heard of lovespoons.
1 year ago
thesecrethermit says:
Love Heidi's illustrations!! Lovespoons are wonderful, I'm off to Wales later this year, maybe i'll pick one up then :)
1 year ago
Franellie says:
LOVE Spoons! Love it! good luck x
1 year ago
PlumLanePhotos says:
Wales is one of my favorite places on earth! LOVE this story...
1 year ago
WingbornRavenJewelry says:
Love the spoons! My son's dad is from a Northern California indian tribe that carved spoons from bone, wood or antler...but none that elaborate. Beautiful!
1 year ago
julessabjewelry says:
What a great tradition. I love it. I'll never look at a spoon the same way again. Thank you for sharing this lovely story and all of the wonderful new items for me to puruse.
1 year ago
KMalinka says:
Great article, lovely items:O)
1 year ago
collectiblesatoz says:
Lovely story! Interesting that I just listed a book on Welsh basics this week.
1 year ago
HouseOfLittleDresses says:
I feel so proud to be Welsh. This has reminded me of all the most beautiful things that are almost lost to todays generation. Thank you so much for such a wonderful article.
1 year ago
SugarCubeVintage says:
sweet story and spoons!
1 year ago
FeltTheFluff says:
What a beautiful collection of images, I may try to needle felt an ornate spoon!
1 year ago
earlybirdcreations says:
Such a beautiful sentiment! We were given a Welsh love spoon for our wedding and it has always been special to us. Lovely article!!
1 year ago
HeavenlyNaturals says:
Love the pic, looks like me in the morning :)
1 year ago
Verdurebydesign says:
This story is a great piece of history. I had the pleasure of visiting Wales and they are very proud of their spooning.
1 year ago
AmberGypsySky says:
awwww love this article
1 year ago
frommylifetoyours says:
love the story
1 year ago
Asianexpressions says:
Love it!
1 year ago
jungledread says:
We all know that spooning leads to forking! ^_^
1 year ago
craftyferret says:
Although we're English not Welsh we were given a love spoon on our wedding day. Saddly it got knocked of the wall many years ago and broke, thankfully it didn't prove to be a bad omen, our marriage is still going strong.
1 year ago
thebeadgirl says:
who knew spoons could be so awesome!!
1 year ago
Mattamorphis says:
This raw food restaraunt in Dallas has the most amazing spoons
1 year ago
blueroompottery says:
Great article, I love the spoons!!
1 year ago
girliepains says:
Haha!
1 year ago
PlayfulMomentsbyJ says:
Wonderful spoon collection. Very creative designs as well.
1 year ago
cakemates says:
My husband is Welsh and he made me a love spoon when we were first dating, the most beautiful thing I've ever received.
1 year ago
poorjimsvintage says:
I heart spoons.
1 year ago
caseysharpe says:
I love this! Normally I don't get all sappy around Valentine's, but now I'm feeling the need to go make something sweet for my boy.
1 year ago
Pipkyn says:
I heart spoons too! I'm with caseysharpe, I don't really get soppy with valentines either but this article makes me wish I lived in wales 200 years ago. Amazing tradition :)
1 year ago
NewEndStudio says:
Great post! My husband bought me a Lovespoon at an arcade in Cardiff. Hearts with linking chains, pretty and sentimental.
1 year ago
bmused says:
Such a charming story! The spoons are wonderful!
1 year ago
NatashaMorgan says:
In my little corner of South Wales there are still, thankfully, a lot of love spoon makers and places they can be bought. I recieved two on my wedding day, and they both hang in pride of place. The meaning behind each decoration makes every spoon so special
1 year ago
MagpieWorkshop says:
This story made me smile. My husband brought back a lovespoon for me after a visit to Holyhead.
1 year ago
LionAndTheCrab says:
I love this story. I love the shapes of these beautiful spoons!
1 year ago
bezaleljewels says:
Beautiful Spoons! I have always wanted to make one from copper.... Hmmmmm
1 year ago
DiscoverYourUnique says:
my hubby gave me my spoon when we lived in Germany 10 years ago and it still hangs in our doorway. I love it!
1 year ago
InnaBela says:
Oh, this gift is really special. If my boyfriend gave me something like that, I would cry with happiness. Because such gifts speak about many things: about tenderness, attention, sincere, open heart and kindness. I admire the Celtic culture, it is the most refined and mysterious culture in the world. This is a great nation!
1 year ago
Rechargelife says:
Such a unique design indeed to spoon-feed someone (my hubby)!
1 year ago
lulusnest says:
Lovely spoons but an even more lovely story. Thanks for sharing it with all of us!
1 year ago
GalleonGal says:
elegant dainty treasures, How I remember my first little teacups, saucers, spoon and forks, I even have large wood spoons carved up and down with grimacing tiki gods
1 year ago
tuckooandmoocow says:
This is such a beautiful story! I'd heard of Dutch love spoons, but not Welsh. Very beautifully written.
1 year ago
Snowdon says:
Love it, I'm party welsh and my mum used to have one of those spoons!
1 year ago
LightOfTheMoonShop says:
Very touching story. You did a wonderful job portraying this in words and pictures. Bravo! I love it!
1 year ago
LifeCovers says:
What a fabulous idea for a valentine gift. I'm going to browse some shops now and see what I can find.
1 year ago
jewellerytreasures says:
what a beautiful tradition shame things arent that simple now!!
1 year ago
AlisaBrides says:
Love this stuff!
1 year ago
redjen68 says:
Dwi'n caru rhein! 'Love these!
1 year ago
kraft1kimmi says:
thankyou for sharing a romantic gesture,,,with gratefulness
1 year ago
Torann says:
Love the illustration at the start very nice! www.amg-arts.com
1 year ago
Torann says:
Love the illustration at the start very nice! www.amg-arts.com
1 year ago
polkadotsandblooms says:
What a lovely story. Haven't read or seen something romantic for a long while ;-)
1 year ago
claylicious says:
Lovely:) Thank you
1 year ago
DreamCandy says:
Brilliant story and lovely items - fantastic!
1 year ago
eastwitching says:
There is nothing as appealing and tactile in any Welsh craft shop than th ehandcarved lovespoon. I used to work at the Museum of Welsh Life in Saint Fagans and handled many a lovespoon. The best ones are totally handcarved and not machined. They have a beautiful soulful feel in the hand - my faves were lime as they are pure white!
350 days ago
peshka says:
Lovely products!
219 days ago