Here at Etsy, we believe that the story behind an object is often just as fascinating as the object itself. Short Stories is our series dedicated to telling the tales behind extraordinary pieces found or created by Etsy sellers.
Today Pippa explains the origins of this awe-inspiring antique German wedding tiara (and matching boutonnière).
I first learned of these ceremonial tiaras when I was a little girl, growing up in England. My elderly Swiss-German godmother kept her parents’ silver and golden anniversary tiaras in a large box. Sometimes she would let me look at them and try them on. They seemed so very magical to me back then that they took my breath away.
There is a long history of wearing myrtle leaf and flower garlands for weddings that goes back to to ancient Greece; in fact, myrtle is considered to be Aphrodite’s flower and a symbol of love. During the Victorian and Edwardian era, these garlands made a comeback with the Art Nouveau Movement. In Germany, the amazing fabric myrtle and leaf garlands were traditionally worn at weddings; intricate silver tiaras were worn to celebrate a couple’s 25th anniversary; and golden tiaras, such as the piece shown here, were worn for the fiftieth anniversary, with a matching boutonnière for the groom.
I have been collecting these tiaras for many years, but since I’ve moved to Germany, I have been gathering them with a view to sell. I think the crowns that I have are common only to Germany and Austria, but other European countries have their own unique traditions. I am trying to learn more about other amazing antique bridal headdresses.
As for these forgotten headdresses, I think that people have moved past celebrating anniversaries with ritual celebrations, which is a shame. I really think that the bridal accessories of the past, particularly these German tiaras, were very special and incredibly beautiful. I’m trying to help them make a comeback.
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58 comments
Sign in to add your ownMegan from MegansMenagerie says:
Love the story behind this =)
291 days ago
Tryntsje from HandmadeHandsome says:
Beautiful story. These tiaras are indeed very special.
291 days ago
Genise Park from genisepark says:
Such a beautiful tradition, I have never heard of this before. Thanks for keeping it alive.
291 days ago
Susan from LiseVintageLighting says:
Such a lovely tradition! These would be beautifull as the "something old" worn by a vintage-adorned bride today!
291 days ago
JD Kohler from ParisCabinet says:
How beautiful! Traditions are so interesting. Thank you for the story.
291 days ago
Silvia Berrios from DesignsbySilvia says:
Absolutely stunning tiaras, with very special history.
291 days ago
Josie from JosiesBoutique says:
They are beautiful! Lovely story!
291 days ago
BellaEpoca from BellaEpoca says:
Gorgeous tiaras! I love everything in the shop. The model looks like she came straight out of an old painting- perfect choice!
291 days ago
Renata and Jonathan from RenataandJonathan says:
great story !
291 days ago
lovelygifts from lovelygifts says:
Nice story, what a lovely hobby collecting tiaras!
291 days ago
Pippa Anais Gaubert from pippatree says:
Thank you so much everyone, I love the Etsy community, it is just so supportive. You are all just so great. Thank you Alison, the editor of this blog, for making this piece happen! Yes you're right 'BellaEpoca' she does look like an old painting - that's exactly what I thought. Thank you for your kind words everyone!
291 days ago
Rosamund Bird from PhoenixAndHawkstag says:
this is one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen!- Just gorgeous
291 days ago
LivingVintage from LivingVintage says:
Lovely! Wonderful story.
291 days ago
Stitch from TheStitchAndFold says:
What a lovely story!
291 days ago
Ashley M. from SquirrelsSpot says:
These are gorgeous! What treasures!
291 days ago
ZOUi from XZOUIX says:
-oh my dear, these are gorgeous treasures <<<<<< <3
291 days ago
Stephanie from StringBeardCraftery says:
Ausgezeichnet!! Danke for sharing!!
291 days ago
Edie Ann from OhHoneyHush says:
Beautiful!
291 days ago
Ayelet Cohen-guzik from darioushka says:
Beautiful story! remarkable work! good luck:)
291 days ago
bedouin from bedouin says:
Beautiful story ~ Such soulful pieces of art.
291 days ago
Erika from ErikaPrice says:
What gorgeous tiaras!
291 days ago
Erika Kelly from AbleAndFree says:
My grandparents are from Switzerland, and though I've heard many stories from my grandma, I've never heard of this! I will have to ask her about these tiaras :-)
291 days ago
Despina Tsafetopoulou says:
In Greece, traditionally we marry wearing flowery hearths, made either of a specially trated kind of fabric, or of pure silver, beads, crystals, pearls etc...After the marriage we usually put our weadding hearths back inside their boxes, or we create special glass frames, that we hang on the wall, most of the times in our master bedroom...
291 days ago
Diane from LaughingWaveDesigns says:
Wow, that's really neat..love the history around it..
291 days ago
Amanda Gynther from CafePrimrose says:
Guten tag! Es ist schon!!!
291 days ago
Natalia from KMalinkaVintage says:
Great story!
291 days ago
Parachute425 from Parachute425 says:
Fascinating! So Beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
291 days ago
Heather McGuire from FauldsForge says:
How gorgeous! As a metalsmith I wish there was more of a demand for intricate heirloom pieces like this! If I could I would be making these all day :)
291 days ago
Tanja says:
Love it! We have one of these tiaras in a frame with the picture of my great-grandparents' wedding anniversary (my family's German) It's a very cool tradition that's nice to know is being kept alive!
291 days ago
messinabella from BandBEstate says:
great post!
291 days ago
Emily from EmSewCrazy says:
The piece is beautiful! The story is neat too! I agree we should celebrate special anniversaries again!
291 days ago
Sarah from CopperheadCreations says:
They're so gorgeous. The Grecian one is nuts. I WANTS. I'm already married, but I wonder if I could get away with wearing it to the grocery store with my Converse. Too much?
291 days ago
nevinackered from OddityCollective says:
They all look so lovely. What a beautiful story!
291 days ago
Jennifer Richardson from NamePlateDepot says:
Very Touching! Love the story..
291 days ago
Donna Thai from PetiteCuisine says:
What a gorgeous tradition!
291 days ago
ACupOfSparkle from ACupOfSparkle says:
I always and always loved tiaras. They are so cool. I wish i can wear one to work every day :)
291 days ago
AMSkrafts from AMSkrafts says:
Beautiful tiara and such an interesting story behind it! Thank you so much for sharing, traditional and historic items are so intriguing.
290 days ago
Matejka Max from NattyMatty says:
Lovely!
290 days ago
Melani Anastasia from magsbeadscreation says:
Wow, such a wonderful and interesting story! Thank you so much for sharing!
290 days ago
pickymiss from pickymiss says:
What a beautiful tradition, thanks for sharing these stories. Reaching your 25th and 50th wedding anniversary is definitely something to celebrate, I'd love to wear one of these.
290 days ago
Victoria Baker from LittleWrenPottery says:
Wow they look so delicate, I never knew about Aphrodite's flower lovely!
290 days ago
Kandylee Carter from KANDYLEES says:
What a sweet story and remembrance to wake up to this morning..These are beautiful ! And what they represent is even more amazing ...thank you so much for sharing..Some or should i say many traditions need to stay a part of our every day life...Thank you again.
290 days ago
Kathy Johnson from kathyjohnson3 says:
So pretty, I love tiaras, especially nowdays the ones made from flowers and leaves for an outdoor wedding is especially pretty!
290 days ago
mazedasastoat from mazedasastoat says:
I think part of the reason why customs like this are dying out is that people no longer really expect to be married "for ever". I've been with my better half for 28 years (OK, we're not legally married, but that's beside the point) & our relationship has outlasted those of all our friends, most of their parents & pretty much everyone we know. I'd be interested to know what was the length of the average marriage these days...
290 days ago
Lindsay from SweetThreesBoutique says:
Beautiful, classy, and inspirational!! I love the pictures!
290 days ago
Zane Saracene from Zalavintage says:
My grandmother, of German Scottish ancestry, saved hers with such great care. I'll value it even more knowing the story behind it. Beautiful...
290 days ago
sandstormcreations from sandstormcreations says:
Wonderful story, beautiful tiaras.
290 days ago
Laura Hale from fbstudiovt says:
My friend is living in Germany for the summer, and thanks to this article I've sent her instructions to seek one out and bring it home for me :)
290 days ago
HandiworkinGirls from HandiworkinGirls says:
What a wonderful tradition! This definitely needs to be revived....
290 days ago
Windy City Novelties says:
They are beautiful and traditions are drifting away form society which is a shame. People should bring them back!
290 days ago
RetroRevivalBoutique from RetroRevivalBoutique says:
*Swoons* Beautiful pictures!
290 days ago
rivahside says:
Toll!
290 days ago
Sherri from BurninLoveJewelry says:
Well I learned something new today! What a beautiful tradition! And how great of you o try and bring it back. I hate when things like these traditions get lost along the way. Hopefully it will all be new again for the next generation of brides!
290 days ago
Margaret Garnett from SemiPreciousGarnetts says:
so lovely!
290 days ago
Silvertalisman Artists from silvertalismanartist says:
Wonderful story! And great pictures!
289 days ago
Kirsti Joy from KaiceJoy says:
Gorgeous pieces, and I so love to hear the story behind the pieces! Thank you!!
288 days ago
Jane from PaperDen says:
I'd never heard of or seen these before. They are absolutely beautiful! They remind me of the pieces in the Victoria & Albert museum in London. It's such a pity traditions like this one get lost along the passage of time.
286 days ago
rivahside says:
I just watched the movie The Sound of Music again for the umpteenth time and, because of this post, realized that in the wedding scene Maria is wearing a myrtle leaf wedding tiara!
284 days ago