Kate Miss is a freelance graphic designer, photographer, jewelry designer, and blogger living in Los Angeles, CA. Her blog, For Me, For You, is a lifestyle and personal photo blog, and she sells her handmade jewelry under the same name on Etsy. She is equal parts cat lady and plant lady and spends an unmentionable amount of time scouring Etsy for the perfect ceramic vessels for her plants (the cat doesn’t appreciate anything but cat food).
While I’m not a die-hard Valentine’s Day kind of girl these days, I still remember the thrill of passing out valentines in elementary school — each containing carefully chosen conversation hearts meant to express my secret love for certain boys in my class. “Will he understand that I’m totally not kidding that he’s my ‘true love’?” I’d wonder, butterflies dancing in my stomach. My days of sugar confessions may be over, but it’s still a bit thrilling to give my real true love a little something on Valentines Day day — or my BFF, because she deserves a little love as well.
For Girlfriends
[Clockwise from top left: Scarf from Leahgoren; Triangle earrings from Kyleannemetals; Succulent garden from Tobieanne; Wreath band from Kateszabone; 15ml Eau de Parfums from Sweetanthem; Antique Victorian Opal and Diamond Ring from Victorianspiritrings; Otters card from Littlebunny; Moon and back card from Quillandfox; French macaron from Themacaronqueen]
There isn’t anything wrong with giving your lady a mail-order bouquet of flowers on V-Day (honestly, not many girls can deny that getting flowers at work feels pretty awesome), but you can avoid a last minute 1-800-Flowers situation with a beautiful handmade or vintage gift, which is guaranteed to impress her even more.
For Boyfriends
[Clockwise from top left:Concrete Gray Chambray Shirt from Brooklyntailors; Card Case from Summitcreekdrygoods; Shaving Cup from Jasonrussellpotter; Cigar Box Sampler from Portlandgeneralstore; Man Meat Valentine Cookie Gift Box from Whippedbakeshop; Vintage Southwest Stone Inlay Money Clip from Lucra; Typography Art Print from Ashleyg; Personalized Camera Neck Strap from Harlex]
Guys can be tricky, but I think giving them something they might not buy for themselves is always a winning idea. Personally, I walk a fine line between mushy and practical for my guy; however, you can always include a ridiculously sappy handmade card to fulfill your Valentine’s Day duty to make him roll his eyes a bit (even if he thinks you didn’t see it).
For Friends
[Clockwise from top left: Thunder in our hearts tote from Fieldguided; Herbs and spices cookie gift box from Whimsyandspice; Standing white pot from Twpottery; Mini Air Plant Pod from Seaandasters; Valentine's Day vintage greeting cards from Klickatat; Heart Vintage Vinyl LP from Falcon255; Best Friend 2 Piece Heart from Ifoundgallery; Red Beast Heart card from Banquet]
If you don’t have a significant other in your life (or even if you do!), why not treat your bestie?




95 comments
Sign in to add your ownmyvoicecolor says:
Beautiful ideas! Thanks so much for sharing!
113 days ago
FullCircleRetro says:
Love the card! Overall cute mix of V-Day goodies.. =)
113 days ago
myvintagecrush says:
Meat cookies, haha awesome.
113 days ago
blueskyclouds says:
those French Macarons look divine...hint hint!
113 days ago
FayesAttic11 says:
So cute and creative!!!
113 days ago
MegansMenagerie says:
Great picks!
113 days ago
perfectwear says:
nice suggestions :-)
113 days ago
magalerie says:
Beautiful picks!
113 days ago
maggiesraggedyinn says:
A nice read and some great gift ideas.....
113 days ago
Apseed says:
Lovely gift ideas!
113 days ago
thebrickkiln says:
What a great collection of gift ideas! Can't wait to go look at them all!!!!
113 days ago
Iammie says:
Love those items!
113 days ago
papergirlstudios says:
I remember those innocent days of passing out those little Valentine cards also. My favorite Valentine was always my dad...he just loved Valentine's day. The cards, decorations, candy and big heart balloons! xoxo
113 days ago
TheBloomingThread says:
I love FromMeToYou cards! I remember them from your last feature...i cannot get enough of these gift guides. love them!
113 days ago
WingedWorld says:
Thanks for the gift ideas! Guy gift ideas are especially tough.
113 days ago
HeatherLucille says:
So many cute gift ideas! It's a good thing we can have multiple valentines!
113 days ago
driftforever says:
Really great finds!
113 days ago
PurpleToedGypsy says:
wonderful stuff! thanks for the suggestions!
113 days ago
izzerdoodle says:
I sooo want those cookies! I've had them favorited for a while =)
113 days ago
jammerjewelry says:
Beautifully done congrats on your article
113 days ago
RossLab says:
Great picks!
113 days ago
stellasavestheday says:
I have always loved Kate's blog...thanks for the great picks!!
113 days ago
volkerwandering says:
Fantastic pics! Great job!
113 days ago
TuesdayFreya says:
I'm all for sending gifts even to sisters and girl friends, especially those who don't expect anything on Valentine's! :)
113 days ago
MootiDesigns says:
Love the picks~
113 days ago
HelloShoes says:
oh, edible valentines are always the best..
113 days ago
evelynnsalcove says:
I never know what to get my man for valentine's day so thank you for the great ideas Kate. I'll take one of each !!!! LOL
113 days ago
pasitorkkeli says:
Really good gift ideas for everyone! :)
113 days ago
RetroRevivalBoutique says:
I ♥ Heart, and the rest of these picks are pretty awesome too. (^__^)
113 days ago
RivalryTime says:
Great ideas.
113 days ago
AvianInspirations says:
Thanks for all the wonderful ideas!
113 days ago
TheCatkinBoutique says:
so cute!
113 days ago
RedFernVintage says:
Great treasury and mood boards, it's subtle instead of in your face.
113 days ago
MarilynsMedley says:
Brought back some memories about Valentine cards in elementary school. Always put alot of thought into those cards. Thanks for sharing.
113 days ago
accentonvintage says:
Perfect ideas!
113 days ago
KKSimpleRegalJewelry says:
Good ideas! Thanx! ~KK~
113 days ago
astarteearthart says:
Remember to love yourself too!!! :)
113 days ago
EllaJakob says:
Thanks for the great gift ideas!
113 days ago
Aneyeontheworld says:
I've been amazed by the items I've found on Etsy for my own treasuries, and those that you've posted above are even better! Love the meat cookies and camera strap in particular.
113 days ago
KookiiBoutique says:
Beautiful ideas! Excited for Valentines!!
113 days ago
KookiiBoutique says:
Beautiful ideas, so excited for Valentines now!x
113 days ago
fieldguided says:
Aw, thanks for including our tote, buddy!
113 days ago
auntmaymayzcrochet says:
love all the wonderful things =) come by and check out my facebook page ......https://www.facebook.com/AuntMayMayzCrochet Thanks and have a wonderful DAY =)
113 days ago
accessory8 says:
Good ideas.
113 days ago
MerCurios says:
Lovely ideas. Thanks for sharing. xo, MJ
113 days ago
howsheseesitecwood says:
Awesome Ideas!! Thanks so much for sharing. :) ECW
113 days ago
elleestpetite says:
Love the selection for boyfriends, thanks for the ideas.
113 days ago
rivahside says:
Like the gift suggestions and shops.
113 days ago
dandybolu says:
This is a brilliant article! Thank you for including the Red Heart Macarons!!
113 days ago
tsmdesigns123 says:
The breadth and depth of Etsy creations is just amazing!!
113 days ago
raniprimmer says:
Great ideas... thank you!
113 days ago
QsGoodies says:
Good article & beautiful finds! Great ideas! Thanks for sharing =)....
113 days ago
cassandrasailer says:
I'm not a big Valentine's Day person, but I like your suggestions!
113 days ago
AvasYellowRainBoots says:
I love giving a hand made gift on Valentines day, it's so thoughtful and in my opinion, far more special!
113 days ago
JennasRedRhino says:
The Man Meat cookie set by whippedbakeshop is blowing my mind! Those things are fabulous!
112 days ago
chatterboxboutique says:
What a wonderful collections of gifts! I love all of the succulents (I'm making terrariums for my friends this Valentine's Day!) and the Man Meat cookies! Love it!
112 days ago
PolClary says:
Wow, so many lovely gifts.
112 days ago
QuirkMuseum says:
Great V-Day gift ideas. Thanks Kate.
112 days ago
NicoleNicoletta2 says:
great ideas!
112 days ago
littlebunny says:
Thanks for including my otters in your picks!
112 days ago
BrightonCrock says:
Every day is Valentine's Day for me... ;)
112 days ago
LivingVintage says:
Great picks!
112 days ago
Ayca says:
Wonderful picks!
112 days ago
ruchla says:
Wonderful,thanks for sharing!!!!!!!
112 days ago
bloominglilydesigns says:
Wonderful!
112 days ago
felicitycrew says:
Love your picks!
112 days ago
GoingHoLLyWood says:
I love all these items. Great ideas
112 days ago
papiroeventus says:
Great gift ideas!
112 days ago
glusk says:
The red beast heart card has my name all over it :)
112 days ago
OnlyOriginalsByAJ says:
Awesome picks! I love the shaving kit for men :)
112 days ago
BonTons says:
great gift ideas
112 days ago
2bloomsdesignstudio says:
Love your selections, the macaroons look divine.
112 days ago
funkyjunkyart says:
Great finds!!!
111 days ago
FrenchTwistPostcards says:
Creative and unique gift ideas to get started with!
111 days ago
sadiedesignsca says:
Great ideas! I've never thought too much about the ceramic plant pots that are available on Etsy. Definitely have to check out the offerings soon!
111 days ago
missfrenchi says:
<3 all of these items!!
111 days ago
breadandroses2 says:
The wreath ring is dear. Wonderful collections!
111 days ago
junkgarden says:
Cool finds!
111 days ago
AMSkrafts says:
Lovely ideas! I like the pots you found the most. Thank you for sharing!
110 days ago
AutumnLeavesJewelry says:
good to see the Heart album sold, gosh that brings back memories of high school, the 70s :-)
110 days ago
LovesCreations03 says:
Wonderful Ideas! There is something for everyone!
110 days ago
sweetanthem says:
Thanks so much for including my perfumes! <3
109 days ago
harlex says:
love your pick! thanks for featuring my leather camera neck strap
108 days ago
replicawatchshopus says:
good view.
108 days ago
Judywa4006 says:
Thanks for sharing! Enjoyed! Wish one of my Betty Boops had made your list! They are precious.
106 days ago
MentalBaggage says:
Love the variety of choices, quirky, bold and beautiful, just like Etsy!
106 days ago
ekohaus says:
So Stylish Gifts ! I will add the New Tags to my shop - Gifts for Boyfriends and Gifts for Girlfriends. I'm making Felted Wool Shoes with Contrast Color Soles :)
106 days ago
AvantCarde says:
Very nice ...
106 days ago
organicpinklady says:
Man Mean Cookies? That's pretty funny!
106 days ago
organicpinklady says:
*Meat
106 days ago
ACESfinds says:
Wow~ Super Cool items! Thanks for the suggestions. There are some wonderful ideas here!
106 days ago
NaturalWoodland says:
Awesome ideas! Thank you
106 days ago
sonyarasi says:
Great collection! I'm a dedicated follower of your blog.
106 days ago
sofiyaferrell says:
I Love it !
106 days ago
Christine from VeloNoir says:
Wonderful and sweet! Ah yes...the valentines of elementary school were so much fun. It was more of putting a smile on someone's face--be it your secret crush, your seat mate or your school buddies.
104 days ago