I hate being labeled.

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WickedClean avatar
WickedClean says

It's so frustrating. And no matter what, it's gonna happen.

I go to an all womens university. My school is so segregated. Seriously, straight people are often HATED on this campus. And the other night I went to a gay dance club with my gay friend and a bunch of her friends I don't know well. I got asked 15,000 times if I was gay by them. And I hate explaining my reasoning behind why I feel the way I do.

I don't want to be clumped anywhere. I understand that they were just curious, but I don't see why it really matters.

I hate this school sometimes. Which is why I'm transferring. Too bad that won't solve the problem.

Posted at 5:47pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

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faerwear says

what school do you go to?

i'd probably slit my wrists if i had to go to an all womens' school...

Posted at 5:48pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

well, that does not sound like fun. Good thing your transferring.

Posted at 5:49pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

WickedClean avatar
WickedClean says

I go to Chatham.

Pretty campus. Full of girls who hate each other.

Posted at 5:49pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

Mystarrrs says

=(
yea no matter where you go,what you do, you will always be labeled.
it sucks.

Posted at 5:50pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

WickedClean avatar
WickedClean says

I just dont see why it matters.

THESE GIRLS NEVER TALKED TO ME UNTIL THEY WONDERED IF I MIGHT BE GAY.

Ugh.

Posted at 5:50pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

Rena B avatar
mydesertstudio says

Let me get this straight (no pun intended). You were at a gay dance club with a lesbian friend and you are upset that people asked if you are gay?

Or did I miss the point of the post altogether... I can be thick sometimes, forgive me.

Posted at 5:50pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

jenNco2 says

Women are so judgemental of each other... it makes me sad sometimes. Gay, straight, or otherwise.

It's a shame you had to go through this. :(

Posted at 5:50pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

CubistLiterature avatar
CubistLiterature says

Hahaha, MyDesertStudio.

That's my question.

Posted at 5:51pm Jan 27, 2008 EST

WickedClean avatar
WickedClean says

As I just said, I;m upset because these girls NEVER talked to me until they realized "hey. she might be gay?"

Posted at 5:51pm Jan 27, 2008 EST