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Hammered brass collar stays, tough and durable, are personalized with your message, which can include words and dates. This is a great gift for a special occasion, a wedding, an important milestone, and it will be inscribed with something you want to remember. Great for men and women, for engagements, weddings and commitment ceremonies, for a groom and groomsmen, for a wedding party, for Father's Day, a special birthday, graduations, anniversaries, and for any formal occasion when shirts have to be perfectly pressed, but feelings can be all warm and fuzzy!

These collar stays or stiffeners are 65mm long by 9mm wide, and they are made of heavy duty raw brass that I have cut, hammered, filed, textured and polished by hand. The complex and organic surface is gleaming gold and polished when it comes to you, reflecting the light, and will get a beautiful darker gold patina over time. The material matches the hammered brass cufflinks available in my store, as well as the hammered brass tie pin, and a number of men's and women's hammered brass earrings, so many combinations are possible and they make great gifts for couples.

This item was featured in the wonderful wedding blog A Practical Wedding, check it out here:

Please make sure you add the message you want me to stamp to the stays in your NOTES TO SELLER box as you check out, or to contact me with ideas or questions about the inscription. Up to 12 letters are possible on each stay, and I can also do 2 lines on one stay if needed. The design you see here in this listing, with the inscription "NEVER CONVENTIONAL" is actually still available, so these very stays can be in the mail for you right away.

This item is made to order, please allow one to two weeks before shipping. All items from trillium are shipped in jewelry boxes ready to give as gifts.

Oberon Personalized Collar Stays in Hammered Brass -- For Men and Women

$26.00 USD
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  • Handmade item
  • Materials: hammered, brass, stays, personalized, stamped, gold, metal, textured
  • Made to order
  • Feedback: 729 reviews
  • Ships worldwide from Washington, D.C., United States