UPDATE: I think it's fair to say I win because TeenAngster is forfeiting due to the stir she caused, aka the "furtroversy."

Wedding duel!!!  Which dream wedding would you go for? Super swank and extravagant or laid back and affordable? Vote in the comments of whichever post you would prefer!

Welcome to my dream-wedding world: a worry-free realm of comfort and laissez faire. What me, worry about four dress fittings and matching tableclothes? The best part is that the ideas below don't have to be a fantasy: these styles are all within reach!

I'm dreaming of a hot, summertime wedding in my parents' backyard. Think New England clambake with tin troughs of lemonade, beer and whisky on ice, a few friends taking turns on guitars and drums, alternating with an iPod paired with incredibly loud speakers. At some point, someone will jump into the pond — perhaps, dare I say, there will be some good ole fashioned skinny-dipping. (BTW, this photo by luxedesign REALLY looks like me. I just spooked myself a little bit.)
After the party spins out of control (a drunken, nude reveler will steal the neighbor's horse), guests will simply crash in tents in the field. This will promp fiends to forever send me and my husband such anniversary gifts as this Lady Godiva planter by SurrenderDorothy:


So, what does Etsy have to offer, befitting such a marvelous daydream?

Well, I'm not really into diamonds or anything too flashy, but this Speak No Evil, See No Evil, Hear No Evil Ring by LinneaSilver resonates with my personal philosophy:


My husband-to-be would probably like a band like this one. It's a different choice, sure, but who says wedding bands have to match? ...Well, a lot of people I guess, but we're not the kind to follow conventions. Here's a cool wooden ring by naturalezanica:


I'm taking jeans and white t-shirt as my "theme."  My man and I could wear matching diamond tshirts by nodemo, to make up for the lack of bling.

Imagine a perfectly warn in — comfy and cool — white t-shirt with some vintage jeans. These are from gagavida:


Or you can use your casual wedding as a rationalization for buying those special handmade jeans you've been eyeing. These  are by Shovava:

Just think, if you were buying a wedding dress, you would be spending thousands of dollars!

If I were to get girly, I could double up this frilly mini skirt and shirt combo from imyourpresent:


My groom, by contrast, could wear the square white on white t by CubistLiterature. He'd bring a little art history twist to the table too. You know, class it up a little.

My little flower girl would be so chill she would be rocking nothing but a tutu. Here's a classic one by TuTuCuteBaby.

Let me tell you, I'm sooo down to earth. I don't wear heels.  I mean, I really don't. Ever. I'm all for flip-flops.  If you muster the energy to deal with the hassle of wearing a wedding dress, then why not wear something easy on the feet? No one is going to see them under a long dress...Actually, who cares. Wear flip-flops regardless. Poke a little fun at formality, try these by  ritakontny:


Or if your toesies are dying for something comfortable but you feel like you need to dress it up a bit, go with something interesting or ethnic, like these by FWesterhof from Istanbul:

Or something vintage and casual, like these polka dot numbers from beatvintage:


I think I'm going to sport these vintage hiking boots from Retrogirlgypsyarcade:

They would look cute and quirky with a vintage white dress too. And perfect for this next element, my dear readers...

The fanciest thing we're going to do at the reception is drive in on a tractor. By man and I are planning to tie tin cans to the back of my mom's tractor and make that our "grand entrance."  Watch out, Aunt Mary! Here comes the backhoe!


Oh, and the porta-johns will be nice, don't worry. At least you won't have to go in the woods.

 Check out TeenAnger's hoity-toity wedding and then vote for my fantasy! Comment below!

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