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Featured Buyer: Rob's Mom, aka Carol Kalin Abedon
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This week we have a very special Featured Buyer, just in time for Mother's Day: Carol Kalin Abedon, otherwise known as Rob's mother. Before Rokali founded Etsy and made it what it is today, he was but a kid with dreams, nurtured by his parents. Here's Carol.

Hi, my name is Carol Kalin Abedon and I am connected to Etsy by birth. Rob Kalin, aka Rokali, is my firstborn and founder of Etsy. This article is dedicated to my mom, Pauline Sonenshine, a proud Etsy seller herself (Sunshinejewelery) and the person who taught me what good taste is. This is also written as a joyful "thank you" to my three children, who have a passion for doing things differently from their progenitors. It is especially written for all the people who love Etsy and want to know more about my eldest son.

Before I show you my favorite items on Etsy, I am going to take advantage of this forum to tell you a bit about Rob and his life before Etsy.


As I reminisce and review the myriad of moments I have stored in my memory of life as a sister, daughter, and mother, I recall many anecdotes that Rob might not appreciate seeing in the Storque. For example, he would probably not want me to reveal to you that his favorite color used to be pink and all he wanted for his 4th birthday were lengths of pink ribbon in every possible hue, or how he would clasp the corners of the blue satin Batman cape I made him and jump off the jungle gym to see if he could fly (his little brother in close pursuit with his very own hand-made, red satin, Robin cape).

Rob was a fine side-armed pitcher in middle school and played a wicked game of tennis (still does). Did you know that in middle school, Rob could play a smooth, jazzy version of "Tequila" on the alto sax? I wonder how Rob would feel about me divulging the details of his nightly habit of carefully placing his high top sneakers facing opposite directions in front of his bedroom door, ostensibly to keep out the "evil spirits." Maybe Rob would think it was okay to tell you about the time he and a friend got into trouble with "the powers that be" while attempting to scale the famous CITGO sign in Kenmore Square, just to check out the neon workings up close and personal. On second thought, I'd better leave that one out.

It might be better to describe how I had to actually show my (shockingly honest) young son how to steal a cookie from the kitchen cabinet by dragging a chair over and climbing onto the counter…a further lesson was necessary to teach him to hide the purloined sweet as he walked by his parents. It is also amusing to remember the time that Rob decided to run away from home: he packed his entire baseball card collection in his suitcase, resulting in absolutely no room for clothes and a bag too heavy for him to carry further than the end of the driveway.


Since he definitely would not want me to tell you all those stories, I will recount the following anecdote which I am sure Rob does not remember, but of which he would approve. It was a dismal, dreary, rainy weekend in May, and all three siblings were stuck inside at home. All that could be heard throughout the house was bickering, teasing, whining, crying, and arguing. I became so annoyed and frustrated by my inability to get them to stop that I finally sent all three kids to temporary solitary confinement. Rob retreated to his woodshop, and Stefan and Laura to their respective quarters. Each child was forcefully told they could only show their face again once all conflicts had been peaceably resolved. I totally ignored their protests of "But Mo-o-om, how can we fix it if we can't see or even talk to each other??"

Once all their doors were closed, and it was finally quiet, I retreated to my room to read. Half an hour later, I began to hear the sound of doors gently opening and closing and the shuffling of papers. Eventually, Rob, Laura, and Stefan appeared at my door, lined up behind the oldest (Rob), who handed me three carefully written pages, personal manifestos, gifts of incredible value. I saved their words with other treasured memorabilia and will end this Mother's Day article with Rob's own words from a Mother's Day 15 years ago.


Now on to the real point of this article: to share some of my experiences on Etsy and specifically the things which I would love to receive for Mother's Day. Some of these things I have already been given as presents, and I use/wear them proudly.


[String Theory by bbusbyarts]

I have used quilts as a focal point in the rooms of my house, both as a bedcover and on walls. I love this quilt because of its detailed and subtle use of color to show movement, and I think purple is my favorite color.


[Stained Glass Silk Scarf by kjmSILKS]

The vibrant colors in this silk scarf remind me of the stained glass windows my daughter has made.


[Oceana End Table by paulus]

This would be absolutely perfect to complete a sitting area in my new home.


[The Cute Bag - Jungle Bird by thislittlebird]

I have to admit that I love this bag because I have seen my daughter's Etsy choices, and her good taste has rubbed off on me.


[Wild Bergamot - Stained Glass Sculpture by FeralGlass]

I would love to plant this along with the daffodils in my new garden!


[Walk This Way Wall Graphic by ellynelly]

This would spice up any room. I'd follow these guys anywhere.


[Horizontal Peapod Necklace by sudlow]

This necklace would make a great accessory to go with the peapod earrings that I already have. (Hint, hint!)


[Grey and Rainbow Shawl by TJTDesign]

I love to add to my famous collection of shawls, and this would certainly be unique among them.


[Kristen by johnclark - this particular piece was purchased, but other custom pieces are available!]

An amazingly personal, intriguing gift. I happen to know that this young woman is beautiful both in this representation and face-to-face. I also love this interesting form of art — I like the merger of image and words and being able to recognize which novels many of these pages came from.


[Silver Leaf Three by zippandesigns]

Absolutely stunning — imaginative flight of earrings. So sophisticated.


[Mobile Lustron by frithmobiles]

Mobiles bring motion and color to my house, reflecting light and breezes.

So this is where I am right now. More favorites will be found each day as I explore the ever-expanding inventory of listings. It brings me great "nachus" to be a part of Etsy, Rob's "baby." Happy Mother's Day!



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Etsy Admin anda says:

:)


5/7/08 at 10:39a.m.
fernfiddlehead says:

What a nice tribute to Rob from his Mom. Very touching.


5/7/08 at 11:05a.m.
saltandpaper says:

what a lovely article!


5/7/08 at 11:09a.m.
sweetestpea says:

A wonderful article. Thank you for writing it, and Happy Mother's Day to you!

(I love my sudlow peapod earrings, too!)


5/7/08 at 11:21a.m.
moxieandoliver says:

Beautiful article. I can only hope for such wonderful children :)


5/7/08 at 11:28a.m.
LucidDreamDesigns says:

Great article! And what a good son! Such an awesome letter he wrote.

P.S. He looks just like you!


5/7/08 at 11:36a.m.
Odannysgirl says:

Wonderful read!

Hugs and Smooches :)

As a mom myself, that is my favorite part!


5/7/08 at 11:49a.m.
Slowshirts says:

pretty darn sweet. I'm going to try the shoes at the door thing tonight...


5/7/08 at 11:55a.m.
vintageitville says:

What a kind and sweet way to honour Rob's mum for Mother's Day.
Great picks.


5/7/08 at 12:06p.m.
VerreEncore says:

aw muffin :)


5/7/08 at 12:13p.m.
gingerlime says:

Probably my favorite of these articles yet! I LOVE the letter. I can't wait to have those letters from my son :-)


5/7/08 at 12:15p.m.
Etsy Admin Rokali says:

Thanks, mom! You did a great job faking my handwriting in that letter! :)


5/7/08 at 12:44p.m.
SeaFindDesigns says:

Seriously, I don't care who wrote it, this is how much of a dork I am, that letter made me cry!


5/7/08 at 1:14p.m.
treasurefield says:

==Rokali says:
Thanks, mom! You did a great job faking my handwriting in that letter! :)
==

LOL!

==SeaFindDesigns says:
Seriously, I don't care who wrote it, this is how much of a dork I am, that letter made me cry!
==

Me, too!
So sweet and beautiful! I can relate from the mom side as well as the kid side.
Happy Mothers Day to you, Carol!


5/7/08 at 1:22p.m.
SalmonStreetStudio says:

Awwww!
Yay for Moms!
It must be cool to see one's kids follow their dreams and meet with success : )
It is funny how touching these things are once one has a kid of one's own... *sniff*


5/7/08 at 1:32p.m.
Lauralai says:

I am Rob's sister, and just for the record, our mom did NOT fake Rob's handwriting in that letter!!! That is 100% genuine, handmade (by Rob). Also, it's too perfect to be fake...


5/7/08 at 1:39p.m.
thedarkcottage says:

So sweet....thanks for sharing....

I'm going to have to try the solitary confinement for my 3!


5/7/08 at 1:39p.m.
Lauralai says:

ps - his handwriting still looks pretty much exactly like that!


5/7/08 at 1:40p.m.
thefunkyfelter says:

such a great article! I so appreciate it!


5/7/08 at 1:48p.m.
blondechicken says:

Oh my goodness - could this be any more adorable?


5/7/08 at 1:59p.m.
DesignsByBari says:

great to remember why I am saving all the cute notes from my boys...so touching, I got teary...


5/7/08 at 2:02p.m.
ArtMind says:

Hey Lauralai, I read the comments from bottom to top and without reading you said you were Rob's sister, I could tell by your face! :)

Wonderful story! Thanks for sharing Rob's mom! :)


5/7/08 at 2:25p.m.
twolefthands says:

As Rob's Mom you must be very proud! What a sweet story, thanks for sharing!


5/7/08 at 2:46p.m.
selflesh says:

The sweetest.
Loved reading this!
xo


5/7/08 at 3:11p.m.
smeeta says:

Geez, my eyes got all watery!
That was a really great article, Carol! Happy mother's day to you and all other mothers out there :)

PS i hope the storque features more buyers!


5/7/08 at 3:29p.m.
EarthArt says:

Adorable:)


5/7/08 at 3:29p.m.
fertherder says:

Also for the record (this is Rob's brother): Rob was a 3/4 arm angle little league all-star pitcher, not side armed. I remember crying when his team lost in the regional playoffs after they had won the city series.

A demonstration of how loving an older brother Rob was: for my tenth b-day he gave me his entire baseball card collection, the one thing he was going to take with him when his plot to run away was foiled. Oh, Rob.

And yes, I can confirm that it is his handwriting as well.

My mother was worried about the some of the stories being embarrassing, but she never mentioned those adorable pictures.

Mom, you forgot to tell everyone about the fights we got into during car rides. Remember how many times you had to play judge and jury in regards to who was looking out the other siblings half of the car window. Was it divided top/bottom, or left/right?

Happy Mothers Day to all, but especially to you Ma.


5/7/08 at 4:47p.m.
siiri says:

It's a wonderful story indeed! Thanks for sharing.


5/7/08 at 4:51p.m.
Etsy Admin weirdwolf says:

Awww so sweet! Thanks for sharing those stories.


5/7/08 at 5:40p.m.
BlackStarBeads says:

Thanks for such a lovely post. Happy Mother's Day~


5/7/08 at 5:50p.m.
carolgradkalin says:

I have just come home from a hard day at school where I work with pre-adolescents with severe emotional and behavioral disabilities, and reading your comments is a salve to my soul. Writing this short piece and sharing it with the Etsy community is by far the most interesting Mother's Day activity i have done. That and the fabulous fudge and pecan turtles and honey and jam (all from Etsy sellers) that i received for early Mother's Day gifts. Hurray for celebrations. And thanks Laura and Stefan for setting the record straight about letters and pitching. I love you. Mom


5/7/08 at 5:51p.m.
Etsy Admin HeyMichelle says:

What a great article! And the pictures and letter are adorable. Rob cares about you all very much...and he likes to show off family pictures in the work chat room from time to time.

And dude. You should totally get another Batman cape, ha ha.

So touching- reminds me to do something really sweet for my dear mom!


5/7/08 at 6:50p.m.
RedCorduroy says:

Oh my word! Rob is the cutest. I just cant get over his awesome red hair and big smile. I love your choices also!


5/7/08 at 11:07p.m.
TexstyleTextures says:

that's fine - make me cry at work first thing in the a.m.

too sweet.


5/8/08 at 9:26a.m.
Art2ArtColorado says:

What a great article and pictures.
*LOVE the part about the remote!
Thanks for sharing and Happy Mother's Day out there to you and to all Moms...

p.s.
please let him keep the remote. ;)


5/8/08 at 10:06a.m.
BoutiqueCandle says:

I'm so glad that I just came across this wonderful article. As a daughter and a mother from a very loving family, I relate to and admire all the love captured here. This article isn't just about Mother's Day gifts and memories. It's about the gift of being a mother. Beautifully written and beautifully shared. Thanks for inviting us.


6/9/08 at 1:01a.m.
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