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The World is Our Classroom: One Family's Homeschooling Experience

The Storque is almost a year old! In celebration of this, we'll be reposting some favorites. Last September 20, 2007, GreenMamba offered to give us a more in-depth picture of what it's like to live a homeschooling lifestyle. This is the third of our series on Etsy homeschoolers. Please see  Etsy Youth Sellers: Not Back to School and  Handmade Education: Creativity & Homeschooling.

My kids are, naturally, handmade. So is their education. We’ve been a homeschooling family for 24 years. Okay, maybe I’m fudging a little. But I tend to count all the time spent with my children as a learning experience. I first began ‘formally’ homeschooling my son, a first-grader, after a dismal year in kindergarten, where the open-concept school he attended didn’t allow the children to make any noise and advocated — in the late 80’s — that every child should write right-handed. My son was one of two lefties in his class. After spending the entire year trying to work within the system — volunteering, bringing issues to light and offering helpful suggestions, joining brainstorming sessions, and (unexpectedly) being nominated to chair the local PTO, I respectfully declined the nomination and happily brought my son home to learn.

That first full year was wonderful! A couple of neighbors, intrigued and inspired by my daring decision, joined forces to rotate ‘classes’ in an informal co-op to provide our kids with a variety of learning opportunities, such as music and arts-and-crafts, as well as a change of scenery. The tiny group included my son, his younger sister, and three other children.

The next several years brought many changes, several relocations, and two more children. Homeschooling was an on again-off again affair, depending on where we were living and what was going on in our hectic lives, but, the summer between my middle daughter’s kindergarten and first-grade years, I made the decision to commit for the long haul. I have been homeschooling my two youngest consecutively for more than ten years now. It’s the best decision I ever made.

Our days, early on, were pretty structured and organized. We even created a mini-classroom out of a little corner of the living room. But, as time passed and I became better acquainted with the girls’ academic needs, as well as individual learning styles and strengths, we became less conventional and more adventurous. By the time my girls hit their teens, we were doing mostly interest-led learning, often called unschooling — though we never strictly met that definition, as we continued to include mandatory subjects, such as math and science. Once, we had a guest-student, the daughter of a co-worker, who joined us for three months — just in time for a crash course in basic algebra.

Eschewing traditional schooling has given us the flexibility to enhance and personalize our learning experiences. One daughter studied pirates (Arrrgh!), Japanese samurai, and period fashion. Her sister voraciously devoured biographies of famous impressionist and post-impressionist painters. It was a special treat when we visited the Art Institute of Chicago, where she was able to view many great works up close and see for herself the texture and vibrant color only hinted at in photographs. We are all three inquisitive readers: we make regular trips to the library, at least twice weekly. We also share a love of foreign language films, giving us a peek into other cultures, customs and perspectives.

But our learning has never been confined to the home.

For instance, Kaelin, who is an avowed animal lover, did a stint at a local no-kill animal shelter (minors were required to have a parent present, so we worked together), walking the dogs, feeding and watering the animals, and mucking out the cages and veterinary rooms. Later, she volunteered at a local horse therapy facility, again feeding and watering the horses (and other miscellaneous animals), assisting with miniature-horse therapy for the young handicapped clients, and was even given the task of socializing and training a rambunctious corral of young Caspians. This experience was followed by a summer-plus-several-months of volunteering at the Houston zoo. While other children were waking and getting ready for school, she was already up and helping to feed and care for the zoo’s population of small mammals, which included — among many others — a fennec fox, three warthogs, a reclusive fruit bat, a colony of vampire bats, and an affectionate tamandua. Later still, she worked at a stable in exchange for horse-riding lessons, and spent a day with a local vet where she observed routine care procedures and a couple of surgeries.

My youngest, Erin, is more art-inclined. She and her sister brainstormed, proposed and helped coordinate a Talent and Interest Expo (TIE) — an annual event where children of all ages are invited to showcase a talent, acquired skill or hobby — for two area homeschool groups. She participated in a 6-month mixed-media art class at a small music and arts studio, and later took a 6-week drawing course. Other than that, she is pretty much self-taught. Her artistic interests include outdoor photography, animation, and manga-style sketching. Being a hands-on gal, she loves experimenting with a variety of media, and was inspired to create her own soft-sculpture-sock-monkey version of ‘See no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil’. Her aunt fell in love with the monkeys, so Erin made another as a surprise — which in turn netted her an order for a custom sock monkey from one of her aunt’s co-workers. Both monkeys grace the workstations of their respective owners.

A sampling of our many away-from-home activities over the years includes such experiences as performing in a homeschool play; speech and debate workshops; a literature (short story) discussion group; museum trips; camping excursions; beach outings; a blacksmithing demonstration; fencing; a single-engine flying lesson at a small local airport; plays, concerts and festivals at the Miller Outdoor Theater; trips to the Texas Renaissance Festival; and violin lessons. In fact, when the girls were younger, the music instructor at their father’s middle school (didn’t I mention he was a public school teacher?) learned that they played violin and invited them to practice in the mornings with the school orchestra. So, for two weeks, they traveled to school with their dad, practiced for a couple of hours, and I picked them up afterward. They not only performed in the school’s spring concert, but were given guest billing as well.

Current interests include various artistic pursuits, Latin dance, and a love of all things manga and anime. They’re also big costume fans. I’ve been custom making their outfits for Halloween every year since before they could walk. Now, Kaelin and Erin design and create their own cosplay costumes and props (with a little help from mom) to wear to anime conventions. And — for something completely different — they would like to look into adopting and sprucing up a tiny abandoned cemetery tucked away in the middle of a nearby city park.

[Animation is by GreenMamba's 12 year old!] 

 



Despite challenges — one income doesn’t stretch very far in a family of six — and occasional struggles (ever hear of math fever?), we have embraced this lifestyle and all it entails. In turn, it has enriched us immeasurably.

Every day is a new learning opportunity. And the world — at least our little corner of it — is indeed our classroom.

 [All rights reserved on the photos in this piece! Contact GreenMamba for more info.]

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Sept. 19, 2007 at 3:38 p.m. ThePaintedTiger

Thanks for showing how rich unschooling is, I always have to keep that in mind when we don't get our workbooks done (but they spend the entire afternoon reading).

Sept. 19, 2007 at 4:52 p.m. mmmfiber

Great article! I was homeschooled in Middle School and count the experience as one of my fondest memories of spending time with my mother and learning together. Well done!

Sept. 19, 2007 at 4:53 p.m. katelynjane

This article is great! I am the oldest of eight kids and Homeschooled for most of my grades 6-12 (I did go back to school for a couple of years but then decided to Homeschool again for my grade 12 so I could work full time as well and save money). I want to give my kids this experience and can't wait for them to have the "hands-on" classes that I fully believe should be enforced in public schools. To many kids are uninterested in their schooling now because they aren't given the opportunity to fully experience the type of class. There's more to science than reading a text book!!

Sounds like your kids are experiencing their lives in full (: If they don't now, hopefully they will fully appreciate it one day!

Sept. 20, 2007 at 10:58 a.m. PlayVentura

Excellent article! Thanks SO much for taking the time to share a bit of your life and experience!
Sonya
Home learner before she knew what it was...

Sept. 22, 2007 at 1:37 a.m. StephanaDesigns

Terrific!We need to get together with our creative kids!

Sept. 25, 2007 at 12:14 a.m. electricdaisy

We are a homeschool family, too! I loved reading your article. :D

Oct. 3, 2007 at 7:59 p.m. SalmonStreetStudio

Your daughter's animated piece is great.
She sure must have taken a lot of time to make the movements that fluid!

Oct. 11, 2007 at 8:53 a.m. Unwaveringfaith

I really loved your article. We are a homeschool family with five children and I am pregnant with number 6. My children's interests range from reading/writing poetry, drawing fantastic art- to building with wood and sculpting with clay. All of my children are very crafty and have even sold things on the internet. We mostly unschool, but like you, we do the basics. We live quite an eclectic life out in the country, surrounded by nature and our love of hand-work and creating binds us together and makes us closer. We are truly each others' best friends. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

Aug. 7, 2008 at 6:33 p.m. VermontFairies

As a 16-year-old homeschooled student, I couldn't agree more! Thank you so much for sharing this.

Aug. 7, 2008 at 6:44 p.m. GreenMamba

Wow! A whole year gone by - and what a year it has been! My girls are now embarking on a whole new chapter in their lives: they will soon be studying fashion/costume design, and plan to do some traveling, as well.

Thanks, everyone, for the positive comments! Best of success to you all!

Aug. 7, 2008 at 7:55 p.m. BowWowBeds

Enjoyed reading this article! My husband quit his teaching job of 9 years to Homeschool our children. So very rewarding!! Thanks for sharing...

Aug. 7, 2008 at 9:41 p.m. chimeracrochet

I'm intimidated but excited to homeschool my daughter (now 19 months). I've always felt strongly about homeschooling, ever since I was a teenager. Your article was wonderful and inspiring.

Aug. 7, 2008 at 9:42 p.m. AmandaBethBoutique

Great article! I am an "unschooled" grad (oldest of 10) and love the many blessings and incredible flexibility and adventures that it has allowed us to pursue.

I have also been involved in some theater and fashion design (not sure I want to do it full time yet...) and it is loads of fun. Are your girls members of the Sensibility.com forum? I learned so much over there...

God bless!

Aug. 7, 2008 at 10:57 p.m. mommayaya

I'm so glad they re-issued your article, it is quite inspiring! We are homeschooling too, and you've given a delightful peek into how rewarding the experience can be; your daughters are both amazing!

Aug. 8, 2008 at 10:11 a.m. littlegreyowl

I was homeschooled for a year in middle school and loved it. My mom had been diagnosed with cancer the year before and it was awful being at school and knowing she was sick or in the hospital. After she had surgery, we decided we'd stay home the next year and home school with her. She let us learn about whatever we were interested in at the moment in whatever subject and we read all the time. It was wonderful! I went back to public school for high school more to see my friends than anything. We learned alot of crap and I was way past my friends in studies. My test scores were better than theirs and I ended up tutoring. So much for all those who oppose homeschooling! Homeschooling is wonderful and I wish I'd kept up with it.

Aug. 8, 2008 at 11:10 a.m. GreenMamba

Thank you so much, mommayaya! I'm pretty proud of my girls (only slightly biased . . .) and I know the sky's the limit for them. But them again, why impose limits?

BoWow, kudos! Here's to your success!

chimera, don't be intimidated! Kids are super-absorbent sponges - they just naturally soak up knowledge and experience. There are terrific resources out there to help you on your journey, many free for the taking or asking. Start with your local library. Don't be afraid to experiment, and to use subjects and materials that your child strongly identifies with to teach a variety of subjects. Be adventurous! Kids are never too young (or too old, for that matter) to learn. And their enthusiasm is infectious!

VermontFairies, AmandaBeth, littlegreyowl: it's great to hear from kids who are/were homeschooled - like anything else, it is what you make of it. You all have reinforced how truly rewarding it can, and should, be.

Aug. 8, 2008 at 11:17 a.m. sugarsandwich

Just what I needed just when I needed it. I homeschooled my son last year, filled with self doubt. Thanks for the encouragment to carry on.

Aug. 8, 2008 at 11:18 a.m. woodmosaics

Very good article.

Aug. 12, 2008 at 3:50 p.m. quirkybags

Thanks, GreenMamba for sharing your inspirational story.

Aug. 12, 2008 at 11:51 p.m. mosaicsdivine

Thanks GreenMamba! We are a home school family and splash in our local river looking for critters, read and travel. The children are thriving and your words encourage me to continue. It is truly rewarding.

Aug. 13, 2008 at 7:11 p.m. InspirationPoint

I just graduated from home-schooled high-school, and cannot say enough good about home-schooling. It is not always the right answer, but is too often over-looked.

Aug. 25, 2008 at 11:22 p.m. ladywaiting

aw, I'm on my senior year of homeschooling!

Sept. 2, 2008 at 1:17 p.m. SuzyOzone

How exciting to read about families in a parallel universe! My 8 creative and interesting offspring make life worth living. This is year 15 of homeschooling--formerly, that is. When I taught high school before they were born, the students looked like someone blew out their candles, and I vowed I'd never do that to my own children. Our pursuits are too numerous to mention, and watching children blossom inspires everyone they meet.

Nov. 13, 2008 at 8:45 p.m. soap

Fantastic article, GM :)

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