Sorry about that. You have your main personal profile (for you, Jenny), and then you can create "pages" off of that profile. That's how our system was set up to function best. We have you connect your main profile through Your Account>Settings, then when you go to Your Shop>Info and Appearance, you will see all the pages associated with that profile and you can choose one to connect.
Some people set up their shop as a main profile, instead. It does tend to cause connection issues if it's set up in that way. Was your BeaderyDestash shop page set up through your main profile? Or is it a different Facebook account (and log-in)?
It is a little confusing. I hope I explained it more clearly. Thanks!