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Mad Tea Party Tarot Reading | Break Free from Passivity and Vicious Cycles

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Most of the time, you know better, you know you can do better, and you know you deserve better. But you keep passively agreeing to a selfish person's demands anyway, unable to say no. You keep criticizing yourselves harshly, blaming yourself for not being good enough, firm enough, strong enough. You continue to put up with the madness that's been handed to you on a silver tray, and you hate yourself for not speaking up.

It's time to break through your negative patterns of passivity. For some, confidence or assertiveness comes naturally. But for a lot of us, confidence is a journey of becoming. It's challenging, but an incredibly rewarding journey that leads to self-understanding and empowerment. And it's worth every step that you take.

//////////THIS TAROT READING INCLUDES//////////
a 1000-word PDF
a photograph of your tarot spread
1 worksheet for reflection

6 cards will be drawn for this reading:

1. Mad Hatter: What is your pattern trigger? This card will provide insight into your current situation and the "switch" of your "downward spiral".
2. March Hare: How do you usually respond to this trigger? What are your thoughts and behaviours that start automatically whenever you encounter this situation? This position will bring your attention to soem of the negative thought-loops and behavioral patterns that you need to break and release.
3. Dorm Mouse: How is your subconscious fear perpetuating this pattern? This card will shed light on how you are justifying your own actions and thought-patterns and perpetuating the triggered behaviour. We'll look at how you perceive the situation, the perceived consequences of your actions or non-actions, and connect with your fears so that we can release them.
4. Tea Party: How are you normalizing and justifying your toxic patterns? Often, when we are afraid, we justify our fears with logical excuses. With this card, we'll look at your tendencies when it comes to self-sabotaging and staying within your comfort zones.
5. Cheshire Cat: What is the necessary step towards creating a better pattern that empowers you and allows you practice self-love? With this card, we'll look at how you are able to break free from your thought patterns, release your fears and cultivate a perspective that is rooted in self-love.
6. Alice: What will give you courage and support to initiate this step? This card will look at the potential and how you will grow when you make the changes that you need to make to break the pattern.

//////////NOTES//////////

When Alice stumbles upon the mad tea party, she encounters the most senseless trio that attempts to talk sense into her. Out of social etiquette and a sense of propriety, Alice remains polite and tries to keep up with the Hatter and March Hare's discourteous conversation.

The Mad Tea Party scene is the perfect allegory for toxic and negative patterns that we confine ourselves in, especially when it comes to our relationships. Most of the time we normalize the negative dynamics that entrap us in our relationships.

Like Alice, who "rage quits" the tea party because of the ill treatment of her, we have the power to choose differently. We can choose to create outcomes that have a basis in self-love and self-compassion. We can choose to evolve. We can choose to change and create a better karma. We can choose to break the pattern and make room for something new.

//////////THIS READING WILL BE AN AWESOME PURCHASE IF//////////
★ you are aware that you have the tendency to suppress your own voice in the face of confrontation or challenge--and you want to explore ways to practice speaking up in necessary moments to defend your personal boundaries
★ you feel like you experience stagnation, passivity and oppression and you are looking for some insight to break free from those patterns
★ you want to work on your personal boundaries and look into how you can best recognize them, express them and maintain them
★ you have the powerful urge to make positive and self-empowering changes in your life and you want to explore your core values, learned responses and negative attitudes that are contributing to this pattern of passivity
★ you want to explore your fears, anxieties and perceived consequences of a given situation, to better understand them so that you can reconnect with your confidence, personal power and self-love.
★ you are looking to do some intense shadow work. Despite being a "mad tea party" reading--this reading can be a pretty deep dive into your psyche.
Most of the time, you know better, you know you can do better, and you know you deserve better. But you keep passively agreeing to a selfish person's demands anyway, unable to say no. You keep criticizing yourselves harshly, blaming yourself for not being good enough, firm enough, strong enough. You continue to put up with the madness that's been handed to you on a silver tray, and you hate yourself for not speaking up.

It's time to break through your negative patterns of passivity. For some, confidence or assertiveness comes naturally. But for a lot of us, confidence is a journey of becoming. It's challenging, but an incredibly rewarding journey that leads to self-understanding and empowerment. And it's worth every step that you take.

//////////THIS TAROT READING INCLUDES//////////
a 1000-word PDF
a photograph of your tarot spread
1 worksheet for reflection

6 cards will be drawn for this reading:

1. Mad Hatter: What is your pattern trigger? This card will provide insight into your current situation and the "switch" of your "downward spiral".
2. March Hare: How do you usually respond to this trigger? What are your thoughts and behaviours that start automatically whenever you encounter this situation? This position will bring your attention to soem of the negative thought-loops and behavioral patterns that you need to break and release.
3. Dorm Mouse: How is your subconscious fear perpetuating this pattern? This card will shed light on how you are justifying your own actions and thought-patterns and perpetuating the triggered behaviour. We'll look at how you perceive the situation, the perceived consequences of your actions or non-actions, and connect with your fears so that we can release them.
4. Tea Party: How are you normalizing and justifying your toxic patterns? Often, when we are afraid, we justify our fears with logical excuses. With this card, we'll look at your tendencies when it comes to self-sabotaging and staying within your comfort zones.
5. Cheshire Cat: What is the necessary step towards creating a better pattern that empowers you and allows you practice self-love? With this card, we'll look at how you are able to break free from your thought patterns, release your fears and cultivate a perspective that is rooted in self-love.
6. Alice: What will give you courage and support to initiate this step? This card will look at the potential and how you will grow when you make the changes that you need to make to break the pattern.

//////////NOTES//////////

When Alice stumbles upon the mad tea party, she encounters the most senseless trio that attempts to talk sense into her. Out of social etiquette and a sense of propriety, Alice remains polite and tries to keep up with the Hatter and March Hare's discourteous conversation.

The Mad Tea Party scene is the perfect allegory for toxic and negative patterns that we confine ourselves in, especially when it comes to our relationships. Most of the time we normalize the negative dynamics that entrap us in our relationships.

Like Alice, who "rage quits" the tea party because of the ill treatment of her, we have the power to choose differently. We can choose to create outcomes that have a basis in self-love and self-compassion. We can choose to evolve. We can choose to change and create a better karma. We can choose to break the pattern and make room for something new.

//////////THIS READING WILL BE AN AWESOME PURCHASE IF//////////
★ you are aware that you have the tendency to suppress your own voice in the face of confrontation or challenge--and you want to explore ways to practice speaking up in necessary moments to defend your personal boundaries
★ you feel like you experience stagnation, passivity and oppression and you are looking for some insight to break free from those patterns
★ you want to work on your personal boundaries and look into how you can best recognize them, express them and maintain them
★ you have the powerful urge to make positive and self-empowering changes in your life and you want to explore your core values, learned responses and negative attitudes that are contributing to this pattern of passivity
★ you want to explore your fears, anxieties and perceived consequences of a given situation, to better understand them so that you can reconnect with your confidence, personal power and self-love.
★ you are looking to do some intense shadow work. Despite being a "mad tea party" reading--this reading can be a pretty deep dive into your psyche.

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