Miscarriage and grief card - It's Unfair / Thinking of you / Support card

Miscarriage and grief card - It's Unfair / Thinking of you / Support card



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Recycled card, recycled paper, ink, biodegradable packaging


Um. If you’re looking at this listing I’m pretty sure you get it. I designed this card for everyone who is experiencing grief or loss. In particular, infertility, miscarriage and pregnancy loss are painful emotional processes, often taboo. Please can we start telling it as it is?

Don’t know what to say to your friend? Send a card, let them know that you love them.

This card reads “it’s unfair, so damned unfair, and there’s nothing that I can do to take the pain away”. It has been left blank inside for your message.

This A6 card (folded size 104x152mm) has been designed and printed by me in my lovely little home studio. I aim to produce mindful products, so this card has been produced on recycled ivory card. Your card will be supplied with a recycled kraft envelope and packaged in a biodegradable bag.

I will ship all cards within 2 business days of order, sent first class post in a boarded envelope to make sure it reaches you in tip top condition.

All images copyright (c) Hello Treacle, 2016


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Jo Sep 8, 2017

5 out of 5 stars

I bought four cards from Hello Treacle and they are all gorgeous! Happy customer and super speedy service 😀

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Saskia Nov 15, 2018

5 out of 5 stars

This is just the card I was looking for for my friend. she is battling infertility, and although I am no stranger to that, I am not sure how to best support her from a distance, so this is a good start. Thanks so much for making things like this!

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jessica malcew Dec 7, 2018

5 out of 5 stars

Sent this card to a friend during the midst of a postal strike in Canada. The seller was extremely helpful. She transcribed a message into the card for me and sent it directly to my friend. Thank you so much for making a difficult situation a little easier.

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Chrissy W Feb 2, 2017

5 out of 5 stars

Much as I wish there was no market for pregnancy loss cards, there is, and HelloTreacle's cards are just beautiful. Fabulous customer service, perfect product. Thank you <3

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