Personalized Shirt Collar Stays, Always Collar Stiffeners, Valentine Gift for Husband, Ten Year Anniversary Gift for Him, Groom Gift

Personalized Shirt Collar Stays, Always Collar Stiffeners, Valentine Gift for Husband, Ten Year Anniversary Gift for Him, Groom Gift



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  • Handmade
  • Materials: aluminum, hand stamped lettering, hand brushed finish

These Always personalized collar stays are practical men's accessories that help guys look sharp without a lot of fuss. They make a wonderful personalized gift: unique valentine gift for husband, a personalized ten year anniversary gift for him, or groom gift!

Standard size (approximately 3/8" by 2 1/4"), custom collar stiffeners that you can personalize with initials, a name or a message.
One metal collar stay will be stamped with the word "Always." Add a date, name or initials, GPS coordinates, or your own message to the second collar stay.



1. Add the Always Collar Stays to your shopping cart.
2. Please add your personalized details to the "note to seller" section in your cart before checking out.


Matching Always personalized tie clip:

Purchase the Always tie clip and collar stays together as a set:

I use a hammer to hand stamp each character onto the collar stays using a hammer and individual steel letter stamps, give them a brushed finish, and polish them up.

Because each letter is stamped individually, hand stamped lettering will not always be perfectly aligned. This is a desirable feature of this technique that adds to the uniqueness of your particular item.

These metal collar stays are made of low maintenance aluminum. Aluminum is an ideal alternative to silver for this type of accessory: it doesn't tarnish, it is lightweight, and it is sturdy. Keep in mind that it will not feel heavy in hand; rather, it will add stiffness without adding weight.

All my items are packaged in gift boxes, ready for gift giving.


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Nov 28

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Dec 2-8

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Dec 7-12


Estimated to arrive at your doorstep Dec 7-12!

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178 shop reviews 5 out of 5 stars


Kelsey Spofford Sep 3, 2018

etterkc86 May 24, 2017

5 out of 5 stars

Absolutely perfect. I can't wait to add that little touch to my outfit

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Kelly Giles Nov 4, 2017

5 out of 5 stars

Debra did an amazing job and was extremely helpful. She completed my order & had it shipped the next day.... which I was very grateful for since I had procrastinated. My husband loved the custom collar stays. It was our 10th anniversary & we don't normally exchange gifts but these were a sweet & heartfelt way to commemorate the occasion.

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Limitless Artisan Sep 17, 2020

5 out of 5 stars

I rarely purchase items on Etsy, but when it's your wedding anniversary, your trip to Italy is cancelled for 2020, all international travel comes to a grinding halt and your husband LOVES tie bars, this is a perfect gift! I am so happy I came across the ThingsUncommon shop!! The dainty compass on the front encompasses our love of travel and I love that I was able to add a customized message of Italy Awaits engraved on the backside, a perfect gift to celebrate another year of marriage and in hopes to return to Italy next year. The packaging is super cute and I love the handwritten message that is tied to a string to secure the little box. I highly recommend ThingsUncommon for those one of a kind, sentmental gifts.

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