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It's Hard Out Here For A B!tch Cross Stitch Pattern

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This listing is for the *pattern only* for my latest cross stitch design - a quote from Lily Allen's song "Hard Out Here". The instructions include the colors and style shown in the photographs of the completed piece, but you can personalize however you like!

The design is mine, and I do therefore ask that you don't sell my pattern (I mean, that is stealing after all).

If you love what you make and want to sell your finished product, go for it! If you do choose to sell your finished stitch, please let your buyers know where you got the pattern and share the love!


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I gladly accept returns and cancellations
Contact me within: 3 days of delivery
Ship items back within: 7 days of delivery
Request a cancellation within: 3 hours of purchase
I don't accept exchanges
But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.
The following items can't be returned or exchanged
Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:
  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Digital downloads
Conditions of return
Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.


Custom order production time varies greatly - a small piece (such as my $5 mini name stitchery) typically takes 1-2 days to ship, but a very large custom design may take up to 2 months from initial contact to shipping. If you have an idea you'd like to see, please contact me for an estimated timeline.
Sizes given usually allow for .5 to 2 inches of blank space around the design, to allow space in the frame without crowding the stitchery.
Crochet piece sizes are within .5 inches deviation, but may stretch on handling. Washable items are pre-washed to avoid shrinking.
I do not generally gift wrap items, but if you would like an item wrapped please contact me and I'll do my best to find a solution!

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