When you're ordering your stationery, you will be prompted to choose your stationery colors and enter the details you would like printed. If you have any special requests or would like to request changes to colors, fonts etc. you can also enter additional requests in the personalization box. You can also add an extra note to me in the "notes to seller" section.
Proofs are not sent (except for business / logo stationery) but if you would like to see a proof before printing, just let me know and I'd be happy to send one via Etsy message. Please note, this may increase the handling time on your order.