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Be My Bridesmaid Card and necklace, Couldn't say I do without You Card, bridesmaid invitation, keepsake gift, flower girl, maid of honor


This complete gift package is a creative way to say thank you to the special girls who have stood up for you on the most important day of your life or a unique and memorable way to ask "Would you be my bridesmaid?"

Multiples are available, contact me for quantity purchases and group discounts.

*This gift package is available using any jewelry design in the shop, contact us for custom orders and pricing information!*



The necklace is presented inside a glossy black gift box, wrapped in double faced silver satin ribbon with a circular tag displaying the Otis B company logo. Inside the box the necklace is secured to cardstock that is printed with the words "I couldn't say 'I Do' Without You!"

This necklace is 100% sterling silver and consists of a delicate hand stamped initial charm aside a beautifully wire wrapped gemstone of your choice. ALL birthstones and custom colors are available, see chart below.

A lobster clasp is flanked by tiny rice pearls in the back for an elegant finishing touch!

Length is 17" (43cm) from end to end. Custom lengths ARE AVAILABLE, Up to 20" is FREE

1) Garnet- (January)
2) Black Garnet (spinel)- January alternate
3) Purple Amethyst- (February)
4) Green Amethyst- (February alternate)
5) Aquamarine- (March)
6) White Topaz- (April,alternative to diamond)
7) Emerald Green Onyx- (May, Alternative to opaque emeralds)
8) White Pearl- (June)

9) Pink Pearl- (June)
10) Rainbow Moonstone- (June alternate)
11) Ruby - (July)
12) Peridot- (August)
13) Sapphire - (September)
14) Pink Opal (October)
15) Pink Quartz- (October,alternative to pink tourmaline)
16) Chrysophrase or Green Opal- (October alternate)
17) Citrine- (November)
18) Turquoise- (December)
19) Swiss Blue Topaz (December)

20) London Blue Topaz (December)
21) Aqua Chalcedony
22) Labradorite
23) Blue Quartz
24) Lavender Chalcedony
25) Green Quartz
26) Carnelian
27) Hot Pink Chalcedony
28) Light Pink Chalcedony

29) Green Chalcedony
30) Brown Smoky Quartz
31) Ametrine (mix of golden citrine and lilac amethyst)
32) Lilac Amethyst
33) Blue Chalcedony
34) Golden Rutilated Quartz

Be My Bridesmaid message Card & personalized necklace set, bridesmaid gifts, bridesmaid cards, ideas for asking bridesmaids

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  • Handmade item
  • Materials: pearl, sterling silver chain, initial charm, lobster clasp, hand stamped heart charm
  • Made to order
  • Ships worldwide from United States
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