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This lapel pin is in the form of a an elegant folded silk flower with six round petals. Available in custom colours, to match with your wedding theme, this men's boutonniere is a Japanese kanzashi flower. If you are looking for a flower button hole in your wedding colours, this elegant piece is perfect for your groom and groomsmen. I can send samples of fabric on request, to ensure you have the perfect flower lapel pin for your perfect wedding!

A small-medium (2.5 inches diameter), 6 petal flower made of habotai silk

This piece will be made to order. Please allow 1 week for items to be made before they are posted.

You can choose whether to have black or white stamens in the middle and it is backed with grey felt. Lapel pin is a gold coloured capped pin roughly 2 inches long.

Please bear in mind that the colours you see on your screen may not exactly match the appearance of the kanzashi 'in the flesh', though I have tried to show them as accurately as possible!

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Kanzashi are Japanese hair ornaments. Hana kanzashi means ‘flower kanzashi’ and simply refers to the flower shape of the hair accessories. Tsumami kanzashi means kanzashi that are made by pinching silk to form petals and is the Japanese traditional craft which inspires my own kanzashi.

If you would like a custom kanzashi made in a flower or cluster shape, according to an existing design of mine, in the colours of your choosing, please get in touch with me via Etsy conversations. I am also happy to undertake more complex bespoke orders, such as bridal fascinators, boutonnières, corsages and bouquets. Just get in touch to discuss what you are interested in!

Lapel Pin - Custom Colour - Men's Wedding Boutonniere - Silk Flower Buttonhole - Kanzashi Flower Lapel Pin - Japanese Wedding

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  • Handmade item
  • Materials: silk, habotai silk, habotae, habotai
  • Ships worldwide from United Kingdom
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