Adult Pacifiers

United States
| 10,474 Sales | 5 out of 5 stars 5 out of 5 stars

SmolGear is a Star Seller!

Smooth shipping

Has a history of shipping on time with tracking.

Speedy replies

Has a history of replying to messages quickly.

Rave reviews

Average review rating is 4.8 or higher

Announcement    💖Please, read the full item descriptions before making a purchase. Shipping is always discreet. Don't forget to read the buyer confirmation email which contains specific information about your order. If you have any questions, please visit our FAQ or send us a message. Thanks for visiting our shop and have a great day! ☺️


Last updated on Sep 27, 2022

💖Please, read the full item descriptions before making a purchase. Shipping is always discreet. Don't forget to read the buyer confirmation email which contains specific information about your order. If you have any questions, please visit our FAQ or send us a message. Thanks for visiting our shop and have a great day! ☺️


10474 Sales

Etsy automatically translates most text on the site to your preferred language.

See in original language


All Items

Etsy automatically translates most text on the site to your preferred language.

See in original language


Contact shop owner



Average item review
5 out of 5 stars
See reviews that mention:

About SmolGear

Sales 10,474
On Etsy since 2017

SmolGear - Adult Pacifiers and Accessories

Feel comforted by our soothing products. All of our adult pacifiers are designed and handcrafted by us. We offer matching accessories such as adult pacifier clips, adult baby bottles, and adult pacifier cases. We also sell plain adult pacifiers in bulk at wholesale prices. We sell both SFW and NSFW themed pacifiers, so you should be 18+.


Shop members

  • The SmolGear Team

    Owner, Designer, Assistant

    The SmolGear Team consists of us, the owners, and our assistants. We love helping littles to feel soothed and comforted. Please feel free to message us with any questions you may have or look through our FAQ. Cheers!

Shop policies

More information

Last updated on Sep 27, 2022
Frequently asked questions
Do you create custom orders?

At this time we are not creating customs due to a high volume of orders. We have a wide variety of designs in our shop, but if you don't see what you're looking for, feel free to message us and let us know. We add new designs regularly, and if we have several customers asking for a specific design, we do our best to create and list it in our shop. We do it this way so that we can make multiples of each design in advance to save time so that we can get your order shipped out to you asap, and customs tailored to one individual take a lot of time out of our workday. And no, we can't decorate with beads, bling, or gems because Etsy has a policy against it. We realize that other shops attempt to sell these, but they eventually get shut down.

Do you offer gift wrapping?

Yes! You may select the 'gift wrap' option during the checkout process. Normally, we place your items in sheer organza bags and ship them in bubble mailers for protection. Gift-wrapped items will be placed in a solid container before shipping. You may also use this option for extra discretion.

How do I clean and care for my pacifier?

Do not boil or sterilize adult pacifiers. Wash the nipple/teat of your decorated pacifier with warm soapy water or a wet wipe, spot clean the rest of the pacifier, and air dry. Wash plain pacifiers with warm soapy water, rinse, and air dry.

To disassemble, gently pull one side of the handle until it comes out, pull the other side out, then remove it. From there you may remove the button. To reassemble, reinsert the button into the nipple without squeezing and put it back together.

We do not recommend taking apart decorated pacifiers as it may require a paring knife or thin screwdriver to break the clear coat seal on the button. *Please keep in mind, we do not replace any pacifiers that have been mishandled or broken by the customer.

What are the sizes of your adult pacifiers and clips?

Most of our adult pacifiers measure about 2.5 inches wide (6.5 cm), and a little over 1.5 inches tall (4.5 cm). Nipple/teat measures a little over 1.5 in long (4.5 cm) and will occasionally vary between frosted and clear.

The ones we sell with ROUND buttons have SMALLER shields than our more popular ones, so PLEASE don't leave bad feedback or take a star away claiming it's too small. It CLEARLY states in the description of those listings that they are smaller. The nipples are the same size as the others.

Our adult pacifier clips average between 10-12 inches long which suits most people, and we can adjust the size if you want. Just list your preferred clip length in the note section during the checkout process.

Do you offer wholesale prices?

Yes! Our bulk listings of adult pacifiers are priced as wholesale, along with certain colors of our other plain pacifier listings. We often have one or two colors in our single pacifier listings steeply discounted, and it changes depending on the excess we have in stock. Our bulk listings range from 10 adult pacifiers to 100 adult pacifiers. If you are looking to purchase a larger bulk order, message us and we will let you know if we can accommodate you.

Returns, Exchanges, Replacements, and Cancellations

*Returns: For hygiene safety, we only accept returns if your package is unopened. Simply mark the unopened package 'return to sender' and mail it back to us.

*Exchanges: We do not offer exchanges.

*Replacements: We will replace items broken upon arrival with photo proof.

*Cancellations: Orders are processed immediately, so Please be sure before ordering. Cancellations are not very eco-friendly. Thanks!

***We no longer send out free replacements to customers who claim they didn't receive their order if the tracking info shows 'delivered'. Check with neighbors. Let us know if you need help tracking down your package. We can usually find it by contacting your courier directly. If you suspect mail theft, you should file a police report.

Do you offer Free shipping?

Currently, we offer free domestic (USA) shipping for orders totaling $35 or more. This is before tax and discounts.

What if I placed an order with the wrong shipping address?

If you message us before we've shipped your order this can be corrected. Log in, update your address and send us a message with your new info. If your address still hasn't updated, we'll change the address for your shipping label. If we've already shipped it, you'll need to contact your local post office with your tracking number to see if they can reroute the delivery.

If your order is returned to us, we can ship it back to you, but we'll have to print a new shipping label because USPS charges shipping even if the item is returned, so you will have to cover the cost of shipping again. If your order qualified for free shipping, we only cover the cost once. You'll have to cover it the 2nd time considering no mistake was made on our behalf.

Do you ship internationally?

No, we only ship to the US. Sorry for any inconvenience.

Can you guarantee that your pacifiers are made from safe materials?

The company we order raw materials from claims they are latex-free, BPA-free, phthalate-free, nitrosamine-free, PVC-free, and the teats are silicone. We have no way of scientifically examining these materials to ensure these claims are in fact true. For this reason, we guarantee nothing. No one has ever contacted us stating that they had a reaction, so we believe that as long as you follow the care instructions listed in the description, all should be well. 🙂

Do you offer discreet shipping?

Shipping is always discreet. There will be no business name on your package and no indication as to what is inside. If you want extra discretion, pay for gift wrap and we will place your item in a solid container so that it can't be felt through the package. It's difficult to tell what it is through the bubble mailer anyway, but we understand that some customers want the extra peace of mind. Bottles and bulk orders are shipped in boxes. 🙂

Are there age restrictions on purchasing?

We sell both SFW and NSFW which places us in the adult category on Etsy, so technically yes you should be 18+.

Do you accept returns?

Yes, but due to hygiene reasons, we only accept returns for items that have been unopened. Contact me within 3 days of delivery if you wish to return your order and ship it back within 7 days. I can't accept exchanges, but please contact me if you have any problems with your order. Custom or personalized orders can not be returned, as they can not be resold. Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs OR mark your unopened package 'return to sender' to avoid fees. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value. These are our detailed returns policies.

When will my order ship?

We have a 1-5 business day processing time, however, we normally ship orders out within 1-3 days. We just like to give ourselves a little wiggle room in case something comes up and we can't get our orders out that quickly.

You should have received a confirmation email from Etsy with an estimated arrival date, and you will receive another confirmation email with tracking information once your order ships. 🙂

Will my order have a tracking number?

Yes, you will receive the tracking information in an email once your order ships 🙂