Welcome!
I talk to rocks.
I would be the kind of person that offers crystal healing, creating fabulous grids and mandalas all over a person's body, focusing on chakras and tapping into the aura....except I'm not that kind of person. Keep your clothes on. Just put some moonstone in your pockets for your cramps and you'll be fine.
You'll be drawn to a stone in a shop. It chose you. According to your chemistry perfumes all smell slightly different on different people, and similarly, crystalline energy reacts just a little differently for each person. I think that's why someone will say they use Garnet for "X" and you think, "that's not how I use it." That's ok! You aren't wrong! Go with your gut! The crystalline energy of a single stone has many interpretations.
My elixirs use a variety of stones with similar attributes to strengthen and focus that particular energy.
Let me know how I can help!