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Denise on Mar 15, 2024
5 out of 5 starsJust as perfect as last time. Thanks much for getting this to me so quickly.
Paul and Victoria responded on Mar 15, 2024
thank you!
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timothy on Feb 4, 2024
5 out of 5 starsGreat collar, My submissive will be proud to wear it.
Paul and Victoria responded on Feb 4, 2024
thank you!
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Craig on Oct 12, 2023
5 out of 5 starsMy slave loves this collar. It's very attractive and her hair doesn't get caught in it. I like the screw clasp that makes it semi-permanent. Very happy with my purchase.
Paul and Victoria responded on Oct 12, 2023
thank you!
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Ashley on Sep 27, 2023
5 out of 5 starsHighest quality jewelry I have ever bought from Etsy. Love it!
Paul and Victoria responded on Sep 27, 2023
thank you!
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woodsup1 on Mar 18, 2024
5 out of 5 starsGreat quality. Would buy again.
Paul and Victoria responded on Mar 18, 2024
thank you!
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Sebrina on Mar 12, 2024
5 out of 5 starsAs always great quality! I will always recommend to friends
Paul and Victoria responded on Mar 12, 2024
thank you!
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Closet on Mar 10, 2024
5 out of 5 starsI cannot wait for Sir to lock this around me at our collaring ceremony!
Paul and Victoria responded on Mar 10, 2024
thank you!
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Keat on Mar 9, 2024
5 out of 5 starsIt is fuck ing perfect.
Paul and Victoria responded on Mar 9, 2024
Thank you
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catherine on Mar 4, 2024
5 out of 5 starsWas kept up to date throughout and any questions I had were answered right away thank you both!
Paul and Victoria responded on Mar 4, 2024
Thank you!
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Ashton on Feb 25, 2024
5 out of 5 starssturdy and exactly as pictured. fantastic product.
Paul and Victoria responded on Feb 25, 2024
thank you!
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About ToBeHis
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Victoria
Owner, Designer, Silver/Goldsmith
Florida local, jewelry obsessed. Grew up on the beach making jewelry from seashells, sharks teeth and seaglass. Raised in her family's owned surf shop until she started a business of her own in 2013 that she named ToBeHis, in honor of her Top, Paul.
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Paul
Silver/Goldsmith
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Frequently asked questions
Do you use discreet packaging? How about Gift Wrapping?
Most of our pieces come already gift wrapped! Most of our items are branded and come securely gift wrapped in our signature black and silver ToBeHis® logo box with a metallic silver elastic bow to close it- while supplies last. Purchases are shipped in plain black bubble mailers addressed from "P&v". Purchases shipped using the expedited shipping services will be in their designated envelope or box that is provided by USPS, still addressed from "P&v"- while supplies last.
Do you sell Wholesale?
Because each piece is made individually and with our own two hands from scratch, we couldn't possibly wholesale in any quantity that would benefit us.
24/7 Wear VS. Continuous Wear
Our definition of what 24/7 means is that the item can be used during daily activities such as showering, swimming, and sweating without damaging the item or causing any kind of rust, discoloration or malfunction or allergic skin reaction. While most of our collars and locks can be worn continuously with out problems, some of our 24/7 rated collars are too delicate to be worn during certain activities such as sleeping or while doing strenuous activities. Again, we ask that you use common sense while using our products. If you think it can possibly be damaged by your activities it probably will be. We are always here for our customers, if you're not sure about something please ask us, we are always happy and eager to help you!
How Durable are you products?
We do not sell hardware. We sell High quality Jewelry symbolic of our lifestyle. With the proper care our products will last a lifetime.
Please remember that these are DAY COLLARS, and as such they are High quality jewelry and STRICTLY for ornamental use. Sterling Silver and 14/18K gold are soft precious metals. Under no circumstance are these intended for anything other than wearing as you would any other High Quality Fine jewelry. ( i.e. no pulling, restraining, tugging or stressing) Doing so will subject your collar/lock to being possibly damaged.
Stainless Steel and Nickel Plated (locks) are stronger metals, but still fall under the day collar definition and care. Again, please use common sense when wearing jewelry.
Do you offer any "free" products for promotional exchanges?
While we appreciate the kind offer, we do not offer any free merchandise for any reason; due to the custom, handcrafted and typically high ticket nature of our pieces.
Do you take custom or personalized orders?
ABSOLUTELY YES!
We pride ourselves on being a 100% custom shop and are highly skilled Artisans who are experts in our craft. If you have an idea or design you would like made just let us know and we will work with you to make it a reality.
Also, we can mix and match anything in our store so if you see two (or more items) that you like and want to combine it just let us know. We are always here to help!
Are you products hypoallergenic?
All of our items* are 100% nickel free and totally Hypoallergenic. We pride ourselves on offering our customers the highest quality metals on the planet. To us this is the only logical way to do business. We know if our customers are happy we are happy.
* Because our competitors can ONLY offer lower quality metal padlocks we also offer them (as a "free lock"). These locks are typically made of a zinc alloy and then plated with copper and finally plated in nickel and polished to a mirror shine. If you have jewelry allergies this is not the lock for you.
We are the ONLY store in the ENTIRE WORLD to offer locks in Nickel Free Precious Hypoallergenic Metals. (Sterling Silver, 14/18K gold and Surgical Stainless Steel)
How do I care for and clean my collar?
Our High Quality products are so very easy to clean. Since most all of our collars and locks are 24/7 wearable (see below for exceptions) just soaping them up when bathing is enough to keep them clean and shiny. Of course make sure to rise them with clear water afterwards.
Stainless Steel is a very hardy metal and can be maintained with just soap and water. Surprisingly enough, even Sterling Silver and Gold can also be kept clean and tarnish free this way as well. How much your sterling or gold collar and lock will tarnish also depends on your body's chemistry as well as environment (air, water, chemicals).
How do I care for and clean my collar (CONTINUED)
If your sterling or gold collar does tarnish we recommend using a good silver polish or dip. These items can be purchased at just about any hardware store or supermarket. Our favorite is a product called "Tarnex." It is literally a dip (or wipe) for 5 seconds and the tarnish is magically gone! Just remember that Tarnex works only on "tarnish" and you should clean your collar with soap and water to clean off any dirt or oils first before using the Tarnex. Also remember to rinse the collar or lock after using the Tarnex. Then just wipe dry with a paper towel or towel.
How do I care for my leather collar?
Our Leather products are made from the Best Quality Leathers available to us. They are not meant to be worn during swimming or bathing and should be regularly cleaned and conditioned as you would with any high grade leather. There are many leather cleaners and conditioners available on Amazon or at your local hardware store or supermarket. Our favorite is from a company named Bickmore and the product is "Bick 4". This stuff is amazing! It conditions, cleans, polished and protects all in one product.
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