Rustic Solid Wood Handmade Wood Home Decor

Raleigh, North Carolina
36,795 Sales | 5 out of 5 stars

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Announcement    Thank you SO MUCH for supporting our small business! Please check each listing for expected production timelines.


Last updated on Nov 30, 2021

Thank you SO MUCH for supporting our small business! Please check each listing for expected production timelines.


36795 Sales

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Sally Harmon

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Sally Harmon


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About DistressedMeNot

Sales 36,795
On Etsy since 2014

From a Creative Hobby to Work I Love!

After completing a typical "project day,", I was so excited about some of my creations that I decided to share them with friends! After receiving requests for custom items like the ones I had created for my own home, I couldn't wait to get started on more projects for others as well!

After working as a nurse full time for 7 years and growing my business over the final 3 years in tandem, I finally took the leap to do what I love full time! My husband and I have 2 young children which are able stay at home with us because of customers like you! We, along with 2 others, work every day to keep up with your requests and orders to make your houses homes!

I love to see eclecticism and contrast in home decor. Modern yet rustic; dark and light; florals and geometrics; traditional and beachy!

Please follow my shop on instagram @distressedmenot for updates on new items and creative projects!

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Shop members

  • Sally Harmon

    Owner, Creator, Customer Service

    Everything from customer service, materials retrieval, staining, cutting, sanding, assembly, packaging, and delivery! :)

  • Steven Harmon


    Sally's husband, Steven, came on full time in January 2018! He is the new master of production!

  • Jen Schott

    Maker, Shipper

    What an incredible woman! There is no way we could keep up with y'all without her. Stain master and shipper!

  • Ed Schott


    Our marvelous coat rack guru!

  • Copper

    Safety Officer

    With his immense fear of power tools, he monitors workplace activities to ensure I comply with safety regulations and inspects my work space for hazards.

Shop policies

Last updated on August 7, 2019
Handcrafting decor pieces to bring a warm, rustic, or beachy touch to your home, office, business, or for someone you love Please message me with any questions you may have!

Accepted payment methods

Paypal Mastercard Visa American Express Discover Apple Pay Klarna Giftcard
Accepts Etsy Gift Cards and Etsy Credits
Returns and exchanges
I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations
Contact me within: 7 days of delivery
Ship items back within: 30 days of delivery
Request a cancellation within: 24 hours of purchase
The following items can't be returned or exchanged
Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:
  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Digital downloads
Questions about your order?
Please if you have any problems with your order.
Returns and exchange details
I strive for your utmost satisfaction! Please contact me immediately if your item arrives to you damaged or you are not satisfied with the product. I will do whatever I can to help resolve the issue. I am dedicated to creating items you love!

When ordering a custom stain (not listed as the default stain within the listing), you acknowledge that this is a custom order and is not eligible for return unless damaged or defective.

Conditions of undamaged returns: Please pack items carefully; Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value. Refunds will be processed once the return is received; Customers will not receive a refund for the cost of outbound shipping of the original item.
In additional to payment methods available on the app/website, cash accepted in the Raleigh/Durham North Carolina area with FREE local pickup/delivery. Message me for details.
FREE Shipping only applies to the Contiguous United States. Additional fees will apply to Hawaii, Alaska, and Puerto Rico. (See returns policy for additional information.)

Need it SOON? Bump your order up in my queue by adding this listing to your order: https://www.etsy.com/listing/399062001/make-my-item-faster-please (**This is not expedited shipping, just expedited order completion.)

Processing time: Building and preparing an order for shipping varies. See individual items for details.

Customs and import taxes: Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. DistressedMeNot is not responsible for delays due to customs.
Additional policies and FAQs
Please bear in mind that each item is made to order, and will have unique details such as wood grain, knots, texture, and minor color variations which add character and uniqueness without affecting the overall quality of the piece. Listing photographs are samples of the item you will receive.
It is important to note that stain color swatches, computer screens, photo lighting, and differences in wood grain make it very difficult to promise exact color matches.

DistressedMeNot will not be liable to a customer for any damages beyond what the customer has actually paid to DistressedMeNot.

More information

Last updated on Jul 14, 2017
Frequently asked questions
Custom and personalized orders

Please include with your idea/request:
*Item description with as much detail as possible. Pictures are helpful, but not required. :)
*Estimated size and dimensions
*Color (i.e., stain/materials)
*Shipping zip code

Need one of DistressedMeNot's listings in a different size? No problem! Just send me a message and I will create a custom listing for you!

Please allow additional time for custom order requests to be fulfilled and shipped; I strive to make each item just as you see it in your imagination!

Local Pickup in Raleigh-Durham and Triangle Area

Do you live in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, or the surrounding area? Great news! You can still order through DistressedMeNot on Etsy, but eliminate shipping costs using the code "RALEIGHPICKUP." Pickup is in Raleigh, NC. I will work with you to determine a pickup date/time!

Shipping seem too costly?

Ask me about a quote through FedEx! Sometimes this can drastically reduce your shipping cost, thus making the item even more affordable! Please include your zip code in your message.