hopetheblackdog

shipping positivity across the globe

Nottingham, United Kingdom | 1609 Sales

hopetheblackdog

shipping positivity across the globe

Nottingham, United Kingdom 1609 Sales On Etsy since 2016

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Amy Alice Jakob

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Amy Alice Jakob

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About

small crafty steps every day

So why a craft shop with a mental health message? Well I have a story to tell...

Since I was very small, Anxiety - although I didn't know it then - was a part of my life. From pulling out my hair, to blushing when the register was called every.single.lesson.

I didn't know that I had a mental health problem. I thought it was just me. Mental health problems happened to other people. Not people like me. I was happy. I didn't have any trauma growing up. So I pushed aside these feelings and physical symptoms and got busier and busier until I couldn't focus on it anymore.

I first started to realise the nondiscriminatory nature of mental illness when a good friend of mine admitted to suffering with depression. We couldn't get our heads around it, she smiled, she was pretty, she did things, she didn't LOOK depressed - so how could she be? At this point, I thought that if she could be, then maybe I could too. I even booked a session with a counselor but couldn't bring myself to go in the end - I emailed them and told them that there were people in greater need than me. I pushed the thought down and got on with it, I made myself even busier to not have to think.

A few years on, I had graduated and trained to be a maths teacher. I won the prize in my year for outstanding contribution to teaching, and had completed two very successful years in school. But at the start of my third year, something changed.
I began to get scared about leaving the house for too long. I started to withdraw from my friends and took out my horrid mood swings on my poor boyfriend. I didn't listen to the signs that my body sent, and kept working, ignoring and pushing down the worry, the dread and the constant questioning. I kept working and working, harder and harder so that I didn't have to deal with my own mind.

But my body had its own ideas. I couldn't function properly anymore, I was fainting, weak and nauseous, dizzy and fatigued all the time. Skin complaints, stomach pains and food intolerances galore. Mentally, I noticed that this year I wasn't bonding with my classes at all, I didn't have the energy to learn their names and I certainly wasn't planning inspiring lessons - I was just ...coping.

This of course led me to become even more anxious - I had always been good at things, and now I was just doing the bare minimum to survive. This wasn't me at all.

The final straw came when I had what turned out to be my first "proper" panic attack. My arms went numb, every time I breathed in I felt like I was going to be sick, and I started crying. I was terrified.

I went straight to the doctors, and told them all about it. I asked if they thought that I had Generalised Anxiety Disorder and they agreed. And that agreement was such a relief! I worked with therapists, have worked out which medications and activities help and which ones hurt and now I feel like I have control again.

I have always crafted but this shop helps me in two ways:
1- personally, keeping my hands busy and having something to DO when I get home or have down time keeps the demons at bay, and my hands from devil's work.
2 - I was incredibly ignorant of mental illness and was horrified by the myths that I believed about it.

Mental illnesses take on average between 5 and 10 years to be diagnosed.
How horrific?

So let's talk, let's help and let's promote. <3

Shop members

  • Amy Donoghue

    Owner, Creator, Designer

    Hi! I'm Amy. I make beautiful crafty things to promote positive mental health and wellbeing. Each sale donates £1 to Mind. <3

  • Laura Donoghue

    Craft Fair Assistant

    Laura loves freebies. She works for necklaces and food offerings. She helps me at craft fairs, and we get mistaken for twins all the time.

Shop policies

Last updated on April 1, 2016
Hello all. Please feel free to browse. My shop is all about promoting mental health awareness, while looking beautiful too. If you have any ideas or would like a custom order, please get in touch. And each item bought contributes £1 to the mental health charity Mind.

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Returns and exchanges
European Customers: Returns are accepted if you let me know within 14 days from receiving your item that you wish to return it. All returned items must be in unused condition (unless faulty - see below). Return postage is the responsibility of the buyer. Please retain a proof of posting, and make sure that the item is posted within 14 days of our conversation. On receipt in acceptable conditions, refunds will be returned as soon as possible.

International (non EU countries): I will accept returns from International shoppers, if you let me know within 14 days from receipt of the item that you wish to return it. All returned items must be in unused condition (unless faulty - see below). Return postage is the responsibility of the buyer. Please retain proof of posting, and make sure that the item is posted within 7 days of our conversation. If you wish to make an exchange, then postage both ways is to be paid by the buyer.

Lost items: Royal Mail does not consider an item lost until 15 working days have passed. Please allow plenty of time to arrive. Replacements will be offered where possible, otherwise a refund.

Faulty Items: If your item doesn't arrive in perfect condition, then a full refund will be offered on return of the item, at which point I will reimburse fully plus return postage costs.
Payment
I accept Etsy Direct Checkout and Paypal. All prices include taxes, although the buyer is responsible for any customs charges on arrival.
Shipping
All items will be posted within 3 days of purchase, unless a custom order is required, in which case I will advise you of the turnaround time (but usually within a couple of weeks). All UK deliveries are made with first class Royal Mail and are anticipated to arrive within 3 working days. International shoppers, you can choose between standard delivery with Royal Mail which takes usually a week to ten days (but allow up to 4 weeks for customs), or upgrade for Tracked and Signed service for more security.
Additional policies and FAQs
All donations to Mind are made from my personal account at the end of every month. £1 from every item bought.