Lilian Asterfield

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Last updated on Aug 4, 2022

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Nicole Deponte

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Nicole Deponte


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On Etsy since 2009

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Accessories for the modern Victorian

I had no idea what I was getting into when I stumbled upon two bags full of necktie, sitting in my studio for almost 2 years before I dragged them out. I was hoping to find inspiration for a couture accessories collection that I was designing for my brother's industrial/steam-punk inspired clothing line, Crisiswear. After I designed my first brooch, belt and neckpiece, I was hooked! All the love I have for my object making as a sculptor and collagist manifested into these wearable curiosities.

My designs feature transformed vintage and hand dyed materials. I am a sucker for innovation and good design. The fine artist in me wants to challenge perception. I become obsessed by materials allowing me to comfortably horde in a positive way.

Our signature collection of hand stitched necktie scarves, the first of it's kind, continue to be our most popular pieces. Our Eye-catching color combinations and juxtaposed prints make each of our necktie Ruffs a wearable work of art and totally one of a kind. Collaging colors and prints is where my love lies. They blew the socks of the handmade world when launched in 2009, thanks to the Blog love and features on sites like Etsy, MTV Switch, Nylon, Coolhunting, Treehugger, and Ecouterre to name a few.

Lilian Asterfield has two new collections that I am very excited about: my hand dyed satin, a more modern and casual collection called "RuffDye"; and a jewelry line of neck pieces called "Goddess", made form dead stock vintage bits and baubles. Lilian Asterfield continues to challenge the process of upcycling, refashioning, and repurposing from our curated collection of vintage, dead stock, and remnant materials always hunting for new inspirations.

I love my day job!

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  • Nicole Deponte


    Nicole Deponte is the mastermind behind Lilian Asterfield, a handmade accessories label featuring vintage materials transformed into wearable curiosities, based in New England.

Shop policies

Last updated on May 10, 2022
All our lilian asterfield designs are handmade and one of a kind. We try to upcycle as many materials as possible! *all designs are the rights of Lilian Asterfield™ by nicole deponte, text and design are copy written under the intellectual act*

We only sell to established customers of Etsy. That means a 100% feedback rating. If a customer does not meet this specification and/or it becomes evident that their intention is to copy Lilian Asterfield's designs, we will cancel the sale and that customer will me refunded in full. If a customers purchases an item with the intention to duplicate, it is Lilian Asterfield's right to take further action.

****I support everyone's creativity, as well as unique inventiveness and I am thrilled to inspire, but let's try and stick to coming up with amazing work that is your own bold and new idea****

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