Collars & Cuffs

Helsinki, Finland · 168 Sales


Collars & Cuffs

Helsinki, Finland 168 Sales On Etsy since 2010

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Sir N


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Chester Howes

Chester Howes on Oct 26, 2015

5 out of 5 stars

Shipping a bit slow, BUT he does GREAT WORK. Well worth the wait. We couldn't wait to pit them on - - never gonna take 'em off!!


gwegz on Sep 1, 2015

4 out of 5 stars

Un bel objet, solide et bien fini :)

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jodesserres on Jul 16, 2015

5 out of 5 stars

The etching is amazing! You can decide the font and details of it and get reminded all the time who you belong to in style! The creator even went on with doing the etching on a special plate for us. Would never hesitate even a milisecond to buy again.


jodesserres on Jul 16, 2015

5 out of 5 stars

The product is of amazing quality and style, communication with the creator went super fast and friendly. dont look elsewhere, these are wowza all the way!

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After a break that turned out to be way longer than expected, the shop is now open again!

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I am a dom, who wanted a nice set of cuffs, but couldn´t find what he was looking for, so he made `em himself.

I started to make cuffs and collars for my own and my friends´ use a few years ago. The designs ended up working pretty well for their purpose, and it sprung to my mind that someone else might want something like them too. I started to look for easy ways to sell my creations, ended up scrolling around Etsy, and here I am, making my stuff available to you.

My shop had been growing slowly for the first two years, and the quality of the products I sell had improved steadily since the beginning. Then I started my military service, and closed the shop for a year, never seeing what it might grow into. Well, I did my duties, and came back, to start again. This time I want to see where this leads.

Aesthetics have always been important to me, and I try to make every item beautiful. I am a part of the BDSM community myself, have been long enough to know what I want from my toys. Originally my idea was to make cuffs. Actual cuffs that can be used for restraining people, and I have kept the restraining functions on my more jewellery-oriented items that came later.

I think the best collar for to be worn in public is styled so, that people aware of the BDSM community recognize it as a symbol, but your neighbor or the random guy in the grocery store thinks it´s a cool piece of jewellery. It has to also be durable and secure - you have to be able to really use it, not just wear it as a decoration.

Almost everything I make is always custom made to order and customizable to match the buyers preferences. I always try to make my items as durable and secure as possible, and try to keep away from weak solutions on my designs. I like items that are both beautiful and functional.

I do custom items, so if you want something special, just contact me!

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  • Sir N

    Owner, Maker, Designer, Curator

    I´m Lauri - the guy behind the shop. I design and manufacture everything I sell. I ended up as a collar maker through being involved in the BDSM community and making gear for myself and my friends. I started to sell my designs on Etsy in 2010.

Shop policies

Last updated on January 3, 2014
Hello, and welcome to my shop´s policy page. Forgive me if my English isn´t perfect at all times, because I am not a native speaker. I am Sir N, a maker of quality steel wire collars and cuffs. I make my products in Helsinki, Finland, in the north of Europe. For now I work as an independent craftsman - in other words I don´t have a company. This doesn´t mean that I wouldn´t pay my taxes for the small income I get from making collars. My business ID number is 2329021-5. As long as my sales keep small enough I don´t need to change this, and I can for example sell my products without a VAT, which is a good thing for customers living inside the EU.

If you have any questions regarding anything about my products, please don´t hesitate to contact me either by sending me a conversation or a mail to wirecollar(*attt) You can write me in English or Finnish.

All of my items are original designs by me and are custom made to order. This is to ensure perfect sizing every time, and to allow any custom modifications to the designs. If you want something special to your order, just contact me, and I´ll try my best to fulfill your wishes. I make fully custom and unique items as well, and am open for Alchemy requests.

Because everything is done after the order has been placed, and because I don´t do this as my full-time job, please allow some time for completing the order before shipping. I am usually able to ship collar orders withing four weeks from receiving the payment, but depending on the order queue and my day job it might take up to six weeks before the order is ready to ship. I will keep my customers informed about their order status and possible delays. You can check product specific delivery times on each item's listing, or contact me and ask for a more specific delivery time estimate.

I hope you to be patient, and keep in mind, that hand making quality metalware is time consuming. I hope that the quality of the finished product will cover for the waiting. Ain't good worth waiting for?

Accepted payment methods

  • Pay with Visa
  • Pay with Master Card
  • Pay with American Express
  • Pay with Discover
  • Pay with PayPal
  • Other Method
At the moment the only possible payment method for any international (outside Finland) orders is PayPal.

For finnish customers, a payment by bank transfer, or picking up the items in Helsinki and paying by cash is possible as well. Just check the "other" option when selecting the payment method, and tell me if you want the bank account details, or if you want to pick up the order from me.
Please notice, that my products ship from Finland, Europe, so delivery times to the U.S. for example can be as long as 2-3 weeks from dispatch. European customers get their shipments usually in a few working days.

I ship my items as priority international mail. The shipping prices on my listings are the actual expences of the shipping. I you´re not in a hurry and want to save a buck or two, I can ship the package as an Economy-class delivery as well. This about doubles the estimated delivery time, but is slightly cheaper. If you want this, just convo or mail me before ordering.

Unfortunately the Finnish mail doesn't offer a tracking service for small international deliveries. However, to date, all shipments have reached their destination without a problem.

Please check your own country´s possible customs expences and import taxes before ordering. I can take no resposibility for the shipment getting stuck in the customs.
Refunds and Exchanges
Because almost all of my products are custom made, I can not take any returns without a reason. If something has broken during shipment, or you are somehow unhappy with the product, please contact me and we´ll see what can we do about the situation. I naturally take responsibility for any manufacturing-related defects.

Please double check your measurements for custom-sized products. I can not take resposibility for a wrong size item if the measurements given were wrong.

I do not take resposibility for something getting lost in international mail or rejected by customs. I always try to pack and report my shipments so, that they should pass a customs check. Please check your country´s import regulations and possible taxes and other expences before ordering internationally.