Youarebecoming

Innovative androgynous neckwear designed + made in NYC

New York, United States · 4 Sales

Youarebecoming

Innovative androgynous neckwear designed + made in NYC

New York, United States 4 Sales On Etsy since 2014

Announcement   We design Becoming pieces for individuals who want to look on the outside like they feel on the inside–sharp, beautiful/handsome and confident. Everyone wants to look amazing, regardless of gender identity. That’s why we offer ties for everyone, operating from a few key principles: proportion, quality and class.

Announcement

We design Becoming pieces for individuals who want to look on the outside like they feel on the inside–sharp, beautiful/handsome and confident. Everyone wants to look amazing, regardless of gender identity. That’s why we offer ties for everyone, operating from a few key principles: proportion, quality and class.

Abbilyn Miller

Contact shop owner

Abbilyn Miller

About

An act of (r)evolution

Becoming is a vehicle to explore with people what they want to look like and what they need to get them there. I also see it very much as a way to explore my own sense of self as I get to interact with other people thinking about similar questions.

There has been a simultaneous explosion in the U.S. of trans visibility, queer fashion, marriage equality and a serious solidifying of the rights of trans* folks to not be discriminated against in government programs like housing, healthcare, education, employment. The work I’m seeing different people doing in queer fashion is totally incredible—seeing people’s different versions of gender, gender-free, and gender-fuckery expressions has been inspiring and mind-expanding.

I see an opportunity to bring a voice and a look to a growing movement—not to speak for others, or to make people look a certain way, but to facilitate voices and looks…basically to give people a space and a set of things that promote people becoming themselves. I’m also finding my own voice and look all the time, and working hard to create and sustain a life in which I am openly, fabulously, unapologetically queer.

Tweet

Around the web

Shop members

  • Abbilyn Miller

    Owner, Designer, Creator

    Lover of beautiful things. Firm believer in the power of joy. Committed seeker of justice. Designer of playful clothing. Actor in the broader world. Seeker of connections between these pieces of me.

Shop policies

Last updated on 29 August, 2015
Welcome to Becoming, a place where the clothing is designed to support your wardrobe becoming more fully reflective of who you are on the inside. We're so happy you're here and look forward to meeting your clothing needs, wishes and desires, either through the products listed or through custom work to achieve the unique piece that you need in your life!

Accepted payment methods

  • Pay with Visa
  • Pay with Master Card
  • Pay with American Express
  • Pay with Discover
  • Pay with PayPal
  • Buy with Apple Pay
  • Pay with Sofort
  • Pay with iDeal
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards
Payment
Buyers pay through PayPal before items ship. Sales tax is calculated only for addresses in the state of New York.
Shipping
$3 flat-rate shipping. Allow 5 business days for delivery. All packages are insured and have tracking numbers.
Refunds and Exchanges
Refunds must be requested within 14 days of the estimated date of delivery. Please contact the seller through the etsy shop to request a refund. The buyer pays return shipping.