I AM SO FREAKIN' FURIOUS
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I need to have a rant.
My boyfriend just got in stress and smashed my latop screen.
Do you know how ANGRY that makes me? I am right now brandishing a large rolling pin waiting for him to come back through the door, he has sloped off in shame, but I know he is coming back because his beer is here.
He has gone to his work and stolen a screen so I can use the laptop tonight, so I'm typing on the latop keyboard and looking at a flat screen monitor. I HATE HIM I HATE HIM I HATE HIM I AM SO ANGRY ARRGGG!!!
Please help me think up ways to get back at the selfish tosser.
Posted at 4:23pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
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lol, McPrincessMaree - I'm not hitting him!! That did make me giggle though.
This thread wasn't really about his anger problem, more about MY current anger problem. To do with my precious, expensive, most treasured possension.
Posted at 4:37pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
McPrincessMaree -- I understand your perspective, but when there's a possibility that someone is in a violent living situation, I'd rather overreact and stereotype than assume everything's fine.
Posted at 4:38pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
McPrincessMaree says:
lol How do you guys know she's not beating the shit out of HIM? People always jump to conclusions on these type of threads. There's 3 sides to every story and you're oly getting one of those. Sheesh.
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9 times out of ten.......ahem...
But even if that is the case...it's clearly a toxic environment and they should change it.
Posted at 4:38pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
Well, I'm glad you weren't offended. lol I wasn't trying to be a bitch. I just find it hilarious how everyone jumps to conclusions. Actually...anger management would tell him it's better to hit someTHING than someone. I've gotten upset and thrown a plate before. That doesn't make me a dangerous, abusive monster. lol
Posted at 4:39pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
so by him being in anger management that's not working (It's not okay to hit a person OR a thing if you're angry) you'll end up needing anger management.
McPrincessMaree - My bf's ex would get angry and hit him, but because of the double standard, he couldn't really do anything about it, even defend himself, really.
Posted at 4:40pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
Well, the OP also stated he's in anger management through a domestic violence program, so even if we're all jumping to conclusions, we're also right.
Posted at 4:40pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
"keepsakekatie
keepsakekatie says:
He is in anger management and the domestic violence rehabilitation program. They are teaching him to hit THINGS not PEOPLE."
see, that should be all you need to know......
leave.
don't wait for him to change because changes are he won't.
leave.
Posted at 4:41pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
If my BF did that to my laptop I'd kick him out.
I have no time for people who can't control their temper like that. There is NEVER an excuse for destroying something in anger.
Posted at 4:41pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
I've needed anger management before too I think. lol
Then maybe you could both go together? That might be a great experience for you both...and then you can help eachother?
Posted at 4:41pm Nov 17, 2008 EST