I AM SO FREAKIN' FURIOUS
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I need to have a rant.
My boyfriend just got in stress and smashed my latop screen.
Do you know how ANGRY that makes me? I am right now brandishing a large rolling pin waiting for him to come back through the door, he has sloped off in shame, but I know he is coming back because his beer is here.
He has gone to his work and stolen a screen so I can use the laptop tonight, so I'm typing on the latop keyboard and looking at a flat screen monitor. I HATE HIM I HATE HIM I HATE HIM I AM SO ANGRY ARRGGG!!!
Please help me think up ways to get back at the selfish tosser.
Posted at 4:23pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
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<I only break my own things, and it's usually me just throwing my cell phone because it doesn't seem to break but it does take me a day or two to find the battery>
Posted at 4:42pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
GGRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!
EVery time I look at the screen I want to punch it myself, and I don't have an anger problem.
I may go outside and smash a plate.
Posted at 4:42pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
Of course I was about 19 when I threw the plate...I'm 26 now and don't do things like that. lol How old is your boyfriend?
Posted at 4:42pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
"I've gotten upset and thrown a plate before. That doesn't make me a dangerous, abusive monster. lol"
it might. by your own words we don't know the whole situation and shouldn't just take your word for it.
The fact that he's already in anger management implies that there have been problems before that are serious enough to be a cause for concern.
Posted at 4:43pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
He is 23. Going on 12.
He has changed so much since the program started. I just cannot BELIEVE this has happened.
Posted at 4:43pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
Smashing things out of anger and stealing in an attempt to make up for it = not good.
Posted at 4:43pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
keepsake - try anger cleaning! works for me. I have never gotten the floor so clean as when I'd like to take a person's head to it.
Posted at 4:44pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
I think there is a difference between smashing a plate and smashing your girlfriends laptop. seriously, if I'm about to smash something I should at least have control enough not to smash something really expensive that probably has some sentimental value too (what if the computer was completely broken, all your pictures gone etc.) and not to smash something that doesnt even belong to me. clearly his anger is NOT in control.
You might say this thread is not about his anger issues, but it clearly is and you MUST get out of there, he's not going to get better.
Posted at 4:44pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
He IS a tosser, but he is also trying to change for the benfit of our family. I don't think I can let this go though.
Posted at 4:44pm Nov 17, 2008 EST