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Turn your memories into a speech that sounds like you. Editable workbook shown in a styled product preview. -
Keep your best words close and your attention on the room. Cue cards you can type or write by hand. -
Know what needs doing and when. Organise your best-man responsibilities so you can be there when it matters. -
Make the speech your own. Read it aloud, find your rhythm and practise with your cue cards. -
From best-man duties and stag or bachelor plans to the final toast. You've got his back - we've got yours.
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Sean
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Being asked to be best man is brilliant. The job that comes with it is a lot. I started Best Man Backup to give you the structure, so your effort goes on the stories and the day itself. Stuck on a file? Message me here on Etsy and I'll sort it.
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Frequently asked questions
Which kit do I need?
The Speech Kit is for writing and delivering your speech. The Duties Kit is for everything else that lands on the best man: the stag do and its money, bookings, timings, the rings and the handovers. They're separate downloads designed to work together; the Duties Kit's wedding-day timings even hold a slot for your speech.
What's inside the Speech Kit?
Eleven files: a Start Here guide, a speech-writing guide, an editable workbook, print-ready workbooks, an editable final-speech document, six large cue cards and a rehearsal checklist. Print files come in A4 and US Letter.
What's inside the Duties Kit?
Nine files in one ZIP: a Start Here note, a 10-page duties handbook, an editable Word planner, a 14-page print planner, a day sheet with four pocket carry cards, and editable carry cards. Print files come in A4 and US Letter.
Will you write my speech or plan the day for me?
No. Both kits are self-guided: you bring the stories, names, times and places, and the kits give you the structure, examples and documents to do it well. Bespoke writing, planning services and live coaching aren't included.
Can I type into the files?
Yes. Both kits include editable Word (.docx) files. You'll need Microsoft Word or a compatible editor, which isn't included. Layout can shift between apps, so check Print Preview before printing. The PDFs are for reading, printing and handwriting; they aren't fillable.
Can I print and write by hand?
Yes. Print the PDFs and write straight onto them. Speech cue cards print two to a sheet; follow the cut line. Duties carry cards should be printed at Actual size or 100% so each card measures 170 x 95 mm.
How do I download my purchase?
Once Etsy confirms payment, sign in on Etsy.com in a web browser, open Purchases and select Download Files beside your order. Guest buyers can use the link in their receipt email. Downloads aren't currently available inside the Etsy app. Extract the ZIP and open Start Here first.
Can I use the kits on my phone?
You can read the PDFs on a phone, but a laptop or desktop is best for editing and printing. Download through Etsy.com in a browser rather than the Etsy app.
Will they work for weddings outside the UK?
Yes. Both kits are written in English with A4 and US Letter options, for weddings in the UK, Ireland, the US, Canada, Australia and New Zealand. Stag do, bachelor party or bucks party: the Duties Kit treats them as the same planning job.
Can I share the files, and what if something won't open?
Each purchase is for one buyer and one wedding. Share your finished plan and speech with that wedding's helpers, but please don't share, resell or upload the blank templates. If a file won't open, message us on Etsy with the file name, your device and the app you're using, and we'll help. For order issues, use Etsy's Help with order option.