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Most of our items can be cleaned up as needed using a small white polishing pad, which we include in each order. If you need more, we sell them in our shop. All jewelry should be kept away from bleach, chlorine, and harsh chemicals. Most of our gold-filled jewelry is soldered. This can cause small brown tarnishing spots sometimes that can easily be cleaned with a polishing pad.

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Gold-filled contains 100x more solid gold than plated without the solid gold price. All metals tarnish with time, but it is easily cleaned with a polishing pad, which we include. The process of soldering our gold filled rings will include a small solder spot and possibly a brown spot after time. This can easily be cleaned also.

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Custom Collar Stays, Personalized Brass Shirt for Men, Groomsman Gift, Wedding Gift for Man

Name: Custom Collar Stays, Personalized Brass Shirt for Men, Groomsman Gift, Wedding Gift for Man
Brand: shopGoingGolden
SKU: 112487761
Price: 24.00 USD
Availability: InStock
Rating: 5.0 (209 reviews)

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Ships from Indiana

Arrives soon! Get it by Sep 10-16 if you order today

First Collar Stay

23 characters max for each collar stay including spaces, dots, hearts

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Second Collar Stay

23 characters max for each collar stay including spaces, dots, hearts

0/256
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Ships from Indiana! Shorter shipping distances are kinder to the planet
Materials: Brass

Elevate his everyday style with our custom collar stays, crafted from solid brass and individually hand stamped. These personalized brass shirt stays are designed to keep collars crisp while adding a touch of sentiment. Each stay features a clean, masculine finish with a subtle shine, making them a perfect accessory for any occasion.

- Made from durable solid brass, ensuring longevity and a refined look.
- Each set includes 2 matching collar stays, ideal for daily wear.
- Personalization options allow you to add names, dates, or short messages.
- The undarkened brushed finish offers a soft, modern aesthetic.
- Packaged ready for gifting, making them a thoughtful present for any man in your life.

With these collar stays, he can carry a hidden message with him wherever he goes.

Order today to get by Sep 10-16
Returns & exchanges not accepted
Cost to ship: $5.24

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Ships from: Brownsburg, IN

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What buyers say, summarized by AI: Great quality Perfect gift Love it Looks great Fast shipping Helpful seller

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Ignacio Aug 12, 2026

Great quality and beautifully package (ready to gift)

Ignacio Aug 12, 2026

5 This item

Alexis Mar 7, 2026

Beautiful personalizaton and a nice weight to it

Alexis Mar 7, 2026

5 This item

Stephanie Jan 7, 2019

gift for my boyfriend, from our daughter :) He was quite moved by the message we added. a wonderful gift for a daddy! Came VERY quickly and looked just perfect. thank you!

Stephanie Jan 7, 2019

5 This item

Pam Sep 16, 2018

“They’re awesome! I love them” - quote from my husband who received the collar stays from our 3 boys for Father’s Day.

Pam Sep 16, 2018

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