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Crestfallen Long Lace Choker Collar - Black Venetian Tear Drop Lace Gothic Victorian Mourning Necklace - Black Goth Lace Necklace Jewelry

Name: Crestfallen Long Lace Choker Collar - Black Venetian Tear Drop Lace Gothic Victorian Mourning Necklace - Black Goth Lace Necklace Jewelry
Brand: OurWidow
SKU: 1471932227
Price: 34.00 USD
Availability: InStock
Rating: 5.0 (12 reviews)

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Made by OurWidow
Materials: lace, satin
Closure: Tie
Adjustable
Style: Gothic
Made to Order
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“If there ever comes a day where we can’t be together, keep me in your heart. I’ll stay there forever.”
~ A.A. Milne

~ choker made from teardrop lace in the deepest shade of black
~ perfect necklace for an alternative or gothic wedding
~ piece measures 4.5" wide
~ gothic collar closes with satin ribbon ties
~ features satin pleated trim along top edge
~ made-to-order: please measure your neck circumference, and choose your size from the drop down menu. if you are in-between sizes, please round down

Available as a set with matching wrist cuffs: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1187499010/crestfallen-gothic-lace-choker-and-cuff

All designs are copyright of Our Widow, and may not be copied or re-sold under a different name. Accessories not included.

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Cost to ship: $5.72
Ships from: San Angelo, TX

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What buyers say, summarized by AI: Looks great Great quality

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Theresa Sep 12, 2026

Excellent quality love the design

Theresa Sep 12, 2026

5 This item

Etsy buyer Apr 26, 2026

When I opened my package up and saw them they were absolutely stunning. The quality and craftsmanship is well done and they look even better in person. I look forward to wearing them.

Etsy buyer Apr 26, 2026