Relationship Decision Workbook – Stay or Go Guide (PDF Download)

You've been going back and forth for a while now. Some days it feels fine. Other days you catch yourself wondering if this is really what you want or just what you're used to. You don't need someone to tell you what to do. You need space to think clearly, tools to see honestly, and permission to trust yourself.

That's what this workbook is for.

The Stay or Go Decision Workbook is a 5-page research-backed printable guide for anyone in a committed relationship who is seriously asking the question. Not a quiz. Not a listicle. A real, thoughtful, private process designed to meet you where you actually are.
✦ WHAT'S INSIDE (5 beautifully designed pages)

① Before You Decide, Feel — Reflection prompts to access what you already know, before any scoring begins. Includes open-ended questions, three-circle exercises, and a gut-check word cloud to circle.

② The Honest Score — A weighted 6-dimension scoring matrix with 23 questions across Love & Foundation, Trust & Safety, Communication & Repair, Mutual Investment, Future Alignment, and Your Wellbeing. Built on relationship psychology research — not opinions.

③ What Your Score Means — Four outcome zones with real, honest guidance for each. Not prescriptive. Not preachy. Includes safety resources and reflection prompts for every zone, plus space to write your own notes.

④ Right Now, After — Complete immediately after the matrix while everything is fresh. Captures your emotional state, what surprised you, what you know for certain, and a letter to yourself to read later.

⑤ Return Here — Two dated return entries to come back to weeks or months later. Track what's changed, what hasn't, and how your clarity evolves over time.

✦ FILE DETAILS
— Instant digital download (no physical item shipped)
— High-resolution PDF, US Letter size (8.5 × 11")
— Print at home or at any copy shop
— Works in black & white or color
— Print as many times as you need

✦ DESIGNED WITH CARE, NOT ALGORITHMS
Every question, every prompt, and every word of guidance in this workbook was written with real intention. The scoring is weighted based on relationship psychology research. The guidance in each zone was written to be honest without being cold — warm without being vague.

This isn't a "10 signs you should leave" article. It's a tool that respects your intelligence and your situation.

Questions? Message me on Etsy — I respond within 24 hours.

Whatever you're deciding — you deserve to decide it clearly.