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Groomsmen Proposal Digital: Will You Be My Best Man, Reality TV Tribal Council Vote

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This digital groomsmen proposal asks "Will you be my best man?" (or groomsman, officiant, ring bearer) with a playable reality TV island challenge, sent by text. Their link opens on tree mail: a wooden box nailed to a palm at sunset. They tap it, a scroll unrolls with a rhyming note signed by you, and they grab a buff. They pick a color, the words "for now" type out, and then it's a tribe swap: their buff drops and your tribe's buff lands in its place, with your tribe name printed on it. Next they search camp for the hidden immunity idol. The first two spots they tap are duds (a crab, a coconut, "someone's missing sock"), the third is the dig. They rub the sand away with a finger and the idol rises, carved and beaded, with your photo burned into the wood. Then tribal council: torches, embers, and the votes read out one by one. Every vote has their name on it. The final vote is your question, "Mike, will you be my best man?", signed by you, and THE TRIBE HAS SPOKEN.

Both buttons say "I'm in". Or turn on the "Play my idol" button: it shakes the screen, says NICE TRY, reminds them the idol was only good for one wedding, and signs them up anyway. At the end they're welcomed to the tribe with their role, your date and venue, and a keepsake picture of themselves holding up the idol that they can save. One purchase covers your whole wedding party, each guy with his own link. Make it tonight and send it the same day.

TRY THE SAMPLE: open bigreveal.joyjotstudio.org/tribe-demo?reject=1 on your phone (sound on) to play a sample, "Play my idol" button included.

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HOW IT WORKS
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1. Buy and download "The Tribe Has Spoken: How to Get Started" PDF. It has the builder link and your password.
2. Pick one of 3 rhyming tree mail notes, or write your own. Add your name, the wedding date and the location if you like.
3. Name your tribe (your last name, a pun, the hashtag), pick your buff color from 15, and add the groom's photo for the idol if you like.
4. Add your tribe (paste your whole list at once) and pick each guy's role.
5. Preview exactly what he'll see. Add his photo for the keepsake, or change his question.
6. Copy each link to text or email it, or download his 4x6 tree mail QR card.

About five minutes from start to finish. No app to download, nothing to install.

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WHAT'S INCLUDED
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◆ Access to the easy online builder, on your phone or computer
◆ A private link for each guy you're asking
◆ Tree mail with a rhyming note on a scroll (3 to pick from, or your own)
◆ The buff pick and a tribe swap onto your tribe, with your tribe name on the buff in the color you choose
◆ An idol hunt at camp with 6 hiding spots, joke finds and a sand dig they rub away with a finger
◆ A carved hidden immunity idol with the groom's photo burned into it (no photo: his name is carved in instead)
◆ Tribal council with torchlight, three votes with their name and the final vote with your question
◆ Drums, fire and marimba sound effects (easy to mute)
◆ Roles built in: Groomsman, Best Man, Usher, Officiant, Ring Bearer and Junior Groomsman, or ask your own question
◆ A "Welcome to the tribe" ending with their role, your date and location
◆ A keepsake picture they can save: them holding up the idol at tribal council (with their photo, or a castaway silhouette)
◆ Optional: the "Play my idol" button (NICE TRY)
◆ Optional: "Text me their answer", so "I'm in" opens a text to you, ready to send
◆ A printable 4x6 tree mail QR card for each guy
◆ Opens on any phone, tablet or computer

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PERFECT FOR
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Asking your groomsmen and best man when the whole group watches reality competition shows together, brothers and college roommates who never miss a season, long-distance friends you can't ask in person, an usher, officiant, ring bearer or junior groomsman, a QR card tucked into a groomsman proposal box, a watch party ask, or a last-minute ask you make and send the same day.

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GOOD TO KNOW
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◆ This is a digital item. Nothing will be shipped, including a buff or an idol.
◆ A fan-made island game, not affiliated with or endorsed by any TV show or network.
◆ Photos are optional. Add them right in the builder: tap "Choose a photo" and it uploads for you. Your photos and saved proposals are kept securely until 60 days after your wedding (or 12 months if you don't give a date).
◆ The builder asks for your email in Step 1 and emails you a link to come back to your proposals on any device.
◆ The idol hunt can't be lost: the third spot they search is always the one.
◆ Links can't be edited after they're made, but you can make a new one anytime.
◆ For your own wedding party. Please don't share the builder password.

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JoyJotStudio
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