Behavior incentive charts are huge motivators for most children. Positive reinforcement can make households far less stressful, for both caregivers and their children.
Each time the child cooperates in each task/behavior, they receive a checkmark/sticker/smiley face. You may even choose to laminate your chart, and use a dry erase marker to draw smiley faces or checkmarks. Once they reach their goal, they receive a predetermined reward and lots of praise!
Always reinforce why your child is receiving the point: "I like how you ...., so I'm giving you a checkmark!" Remember to be specific in your praise. Instead of saying that you like how they used their manners, tell them that you liked how they said "Please". Your child will know exactly why you are so proud of them, and will be encouraged to repeat the behavior!
Place the chart where it will be noticed each day. If you are working on potty training, place it in the bathroom (see my blog for potty training tips).
You may choose to start by requiring only two points. Then, four points, and so on. Build up until they meet your expectations. Don't expect perfection. As parents and caregivers, we're not perfect either!
Be consistent. Give the point faithfully. Rewarding one day and not the next will result in your child losing faith in the system, and the behavior will not improve. Charts should be used for six weeks in order to establish a positive behavior.
If you need suggestions about how to set up your strategy, please don’t hesitate to contact me. Remember, focus on the positive!
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1.Your child’s name for personalization.
2.Would you like to change any of the Praise Phrases?
3. Choose your football player child and team color (e.g. Child#1, blue). Please note, the opposing player remains red, but you may choose either Child #1 or Child #2.
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*This listing is for the Jpeg file only. I will NOT be mailing any physical item directly to your home address.
*Please keep in mind that, due to monitor and printer differences, the colors may vary slightly.
*Please respect the time and effort that I have used to create this custom design, and remember that this is for your personal use only.
*I test and print the pages to validate. The size is correct. When I send the Jpeg file, I assume that you know how to use it; check your page size/borders/etc if the image is not printing correctly. I can try to help if you have difficulty, however with so many programs available, I may not have knowledge of your specific program.
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Other themes currently available (Do not purchase this listing, instead request a custom item):
1. Disney-inspired princesses (Princess and Frog; Annabelle; Jacinda) e.g. get the princess from her carriage to the castle
2. Aliens e.g. get the alien from his ship to saturn
3. MacDonald’s Farm e.g. get the farm girl/boy from the barn to the cow/horse/etc
4. Fairy Garden e.g. get the fairy to her cottage
5. Twilight-Inspired (Vampires) e.g. get the girl/boy vampire to his/her castle
6. Wizard of Oz Inspired e.g get Dorothy to Oz
7. Pirates e.g. get the pirate from his ship to the treasure
8. Toy-Story Inspired
9. Boy Super Hero
10. Girl Super Hero
11. Pretty Birds
12. Forest Friends
13. Vehicles (car, truck, airplane, police car, helicopter..)
14. Robots
15. Beauty and the Beast Inspired
16. Peter Pan / Tinkerbell Inspired
17. Unicorns and Rainbows
18. Busy Bee (e.g. get the bee from the flower to his hive)
19 Construction vehicles/site
20. Astronaut Kids
21. Soccer boys
22. Football boys
23. Cute bugs
24. Monsters
25. Mermaids
26. Dinosaurs
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