BeforeTheIDos

Pennsylvania, United States

86.5k
Sales
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.9 (16.4k)
12 years
on Etsy
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.9 (16.4k)
86.5k
sales
12 years
on Etsy
86.5k
Sales
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.9 (16.4k)
12 years
on Etsy
We calculate this number using a recency-weighted average of all ratings, with a rating's value decreasing by half each year to best reflect the current experience. 4.9 (16.4k)
86.5k
sales
12 years
on Etsy
86537 Sales

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About BeforeTheIDos

Custom Wedding Napkins, Mr Mrs Apparel, Birthday Hats

Sales 86,537
On Etsy since 2014

Custom Wedding Napkins, Mr Mrs Apparel, Birthday Hats

Celebrating you and all your life's events.

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    Before the I Do's

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    Before the I do's

    Printer

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    Aly

    Customer Service

Production partners

  • Engraving/Embroidery Shop

    Indianapolis, IN

    A leading manufacturer and supplier of wedding accessories and personalized gifts since 1988.

  • Engraving and Printing Co.

    ID, United States

    For decades, we've been creating personalized accessories and party supplies for all of life's special events.

  • Print/Engraving Shop

    Mukwonago, WI

    A leader in the printing and engraving industry for over 30 years. Personalizing glassware and more.

  • Printing Shop

    IL, United States

    For more than 33 years, we've prided ourselves on delivering high-quality custom foil printed accessories to accompany any celebration or special event you may have. For our napkins/cups, intricate detail and print fill-in may occur. Foil inks are least likely to exhibit this tendency.

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Last updated on Mar 30, 2025

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For US deliveries, Etsy policy requires that import duties and fees are included in the checkout price. Non-US buyers may need to pay these fees upon delivery. You can message me to confirm how these fees will be paid for your order. I'm not responsible for any customs-related delays.

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Cancellations

Cancellations: accepted

Request a cancellation: within 1 hour of purchase

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Last updated on Mar 20, 2026

Frequently asked questions

What is your current production or turnaround time?

Glad you asked! Here's what you need to know:

O U R ∙ T U R N A R O U N D ∙ T I M E S
Production Time + Shipping Time = Total Time for Delivery
Business days are Monday-Friday, excluding holidays.
Our current PRODUCTION times are estimated as follows (this does NOT include shipping/transit time):

⦿ APPAREL ▶ Please allow up to 5 business days unless otherwise noted.

⦿ HATS ▶ Please allow up to 5-6 business days.

⦿ WELCOME BAGS ▶ Please allow up to 5 business days.

⦿ NAPKINS ▶ Please allow up to 3 weeks.

⦿ MATCHBOXES ▶ Please allow up to 3 weeks.

⦿ CUPS ▶ Please allow up to 3 weeks.

⦿ ALL OTHER CUTE STUFF ▶ Please allow up to 5 business days (unless otherwise noted under the product listing).

What about shipping? How long does that take?

Good question!

Orders may be shipped via FedEx, UPS, USPS Priority or USPS First Class based on our discretion. Generally speaking, ground delivery usually takes around 3-5 business days to reach your doorstep once the package has left our facility.

SHIPPING RATES SHOWN ARE VALID FOR THE 48 CONTINENTAL UNITED STATES. Shipments to Alaska, Hawaii and Puerto Rico are subject to higher shipping rates. Please do contact us first for a shipping quote prior to placing an order if delivery will be outside the 48 continental United States.

I need my order ... ASAP! What are my options?

If your event date is nearing, please contact us before placing an order. It may be necessary to place an in-plant rush on your order for an additional fee and/or upgrading the shipping method to Air. If you do not notify us before placing an order of your nearing event date, we will process it under normal production timelines.

We will not be held liable for orders arriving after your event date if you do not provide advance notice.

No worries though - we can usually handle rush orders. Just ask us! {Rush fees do apply.}

How do I enter my personalization info {like names, date, colors, etc.}?

Make sure you take a peek at the product's description. We list all the important {and good stuff!} right in there. Once you review the description, be sure to note the personalization details in the personalization box provided above the Add to Cart/Bag button. Easy peasy!

{If your personalization details are not provided with your order at time of placement, production delays may occur. If a color option is not provided during order placement, we will process your order with the design/text color as shown in the original product photo or a color that we deem best for the design.}

For our napkins/cups, intricate detail and print fill-in may occur. Foil inks are least likely to exhibit this tendency.

Can I return or exchange an item I've purchased?

ALL SALES ARE CONSIDERED FINAL AND MAY NOT BE RETURNED OR EXCHANGED. {And we're sure you'll love your cute stuff anyways!}

As all orders are custom made at time of order placement just for you, we regret an order may not be returned. Please be sure to choose the correct color, size, etc. as necessary to ensure you receive something just perfect for you. And be sure to double check your personalization for accuracy too.

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