Announcement
08 Sep 2023;
You all may notice EW wrist and/or Ankle cuffs out of stock on occasion, this is mostly to save my arm, so I am limiting them to 3 per month for the moment (or at least until I am all caught up with current ones) and then I will reset the stock number to 3. Still potential to end up with up to 6 full sets in progress, but at least now it won't add more when I have that many.
The new finishes for buckles (Pink, Green, Purple, Blue, and Red) arrived a couple months ago. I now have 1/2", 3/4", and 1" strap width size buckles. several listing created for the matching Ball, Strap, and Buckles, although you can mix and match, please use the listing with the matching strap color.
COVID and other similar sickness procedures:
Everyone in the household/workshop has been fully vaccinated, including boosters at this point (current as of Sept 2023)
General policy for all flus, colds, and viruses is if sick, We do not go to the workshop or leather storage room until over it. This may cause delays, short of unexpected hospital visit, we will let anyone whose order is affected know as soon as we know.
Because of Etsy's shipping fees I have had to disable Express shipping options on most items, they cost me too much in fees on the little items like padlocks and buckles. I lose money if I have to ship express because of the extra fees. If you wish something shipped by express options, let me know and I can set up a custom order to cover the extra cost to both of us for that option.
DISCRETION POLICY:
The return label will say "Tim Dolan" on it, NO mention of Pleasure Paradox on outside of box for Etsy orders. International will have some information about the product on the customs form, but I will still be as discreet as it is legally allowed for those.
If you need me to clear all mention of Pleasure Paradox from INSIDE the box as well, you need to make a custom order request as this takes me extra effort, while still meeting shipping requirements. I will likely add an extra $5 for this effort per package.
Also if you are unsure of the size ball you need, please send a Etsy conversation request and I can send you a pdf of our BALL SIZING GUIDE. Please mention if you are outside the USA and don't use US letter size paper. A customer was nice enough to upgrade my 2019 version to an A4 size paper for me, so I have that as well.
We have also been asked by a customer to emphasis that the international (Non-USA) customer is responsible for customs fees and taxes if their country charges one, if Etsy does not collect it.
Thanks for your support.
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Timothy on May 8, 2024
5 out of 5 starsExactly what I expected great quality and price fast shipping
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Phil on May 4, 2024
5 out of 5 starsVery happy with purchase, would buy again. Silicone ball is pretty firm and seems to resist teeth marks
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Bryon on Apr 27, 2024
5 out of 5 starsthese worked perfect! great color and best iv ever seen, ordering more !
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Cheyne on May 9, 2024
5 out of 5 starsThe materials feel nice. The ball can come off for cleaning. The ball does not slide around and pinch skin like our last one.
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About PleasureParadox
Could not find the size we needed so made my own
Shop members
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Tim Dolan
Owner, Lead Crafter, And Photographer
I was taught leather-working by my maternal grandfather, along with other crafts, before joining and serving 20 years in the USAF. My goal is to always provide quality. This is my retirement Job, something to keep me engaged with the world.
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Tina Comroe
Assistant
Tina is primarily a seamstress and my girlfriend, she occasionally helps with making stuff (especially when we have to cut into a new side of leather). We also sell some of the items she has designed as well. If it is sown she did that part.
Production partners
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Franklin Machine Shop
Hampton, VA
They are a machine shop that has helped me with making and modifying molds and have also drilled holes for me, because they have the machines to do them correctly, all I have is a drill press. When not doing stuff for me, they literally do parts for NASA and DOD projects.
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Some Chinese company via Ohio Travel Bag
OH, United States
Wholesale distributor of Leather working, Travel bag and purse parts. I buy some of the parts I use from them wholesale in quantity for resale at retail prices and as accessories added to some of my products. They have numerous contacts with Chinese and Taiwanese companies that I don't.
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Trade Diversified, Inc
Ontario, CA
They sell me 2 of the 3 brass parts I need to make the brass version of the spreader bars, but they will also cut the tubes to length for no charge, so I am not passing that opportunity up. I still have to smooth the ends, drill the holes for the end caps and put it all together.
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Trisha
NC, United States
Trisha likes doing wood working and has the tools for that so I trade her some leather goods for the wooden dowels made with hardwood types.
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Frequently asked questions
Sizing details
For balls; Measure from the top of the bottom teeth to the bottom of the top teeth with the mouth wide open. For smaller sizes you can go 1/4" (5mm) more at most, for middle sizes 1/8" (3mm) and for Super Large or larger sizes you should not exceed that measurement in the diameter of the ball.
For custom size Straps for Ball Gags: Measure where the ball and strap would go ALL the way around the head with the mouth wide open. That is the size measurement of the strap. The length will be about 5 inches longer. Recommend using the shortest distance you can come up with, which is usually low on the back of the neck with head down.
For Cuffs and Collars: Please provide those sizes in the notes in 1/4" or 5mm increments.
Custom and personalized orders
For simple requests please just send a note with the order, for more complicated requests or if unsure make a request first. But I will do most custom orders for ball gags or straps if I can.
Wholesale availability
For wholesale on the balls or straps contact me directly via longwatcher@pleasureparadox.com
Minimum order is 30 balls for first wholesale order to get pricing, afterwards 12. This is mix and match for size and colors.
I can use Etsy for payment if you desire.
Discretion Policy
I have two levels of discreet shipping.
- The default which is I ship in either USPS box or a plain box, or envelope and it has my name on it instead of the Company. I usually include a brochure. For certain European countries, I will need to put the packing slip on the outside and the packing slip will read what is in the box as shown by Etsy.
- The higher level of discrete (which is not required for USA shipping), which costs extra as a custom order. I do not include a packing slip and mail it manually from the USPS office so that it does not have the Etsy marked label. Please note I will not lie on the custom's form, but I will use discretion in the description without lying. Customer is still responsible for custom's rules, fees&taxes
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