I AM SO FREAKIN' FURIOUS
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I need to have a rant.
My boyfriend just got in stress and smashed my latop screen.
Do you know how ANGRY that makes me? I am right now brandishing a large rolling pin waiting for him to come back through the door, he has sloped off in shame, but I know he is coming back because his beer is here.
He has gone to his work and stolen a screen so I can use the laptop tonight, so I'm typing on the latop keyboard and looking at a flat screen monitor. I HATE HIM I HATE HIM I HATE HIM I AM SO ANGRY ARRGGG!!!
Please help me think up ways to get back at the selfish tosser.
Posted at 4:23pm Nov 17, 2008 EST
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Ya gotta lay down the law for yourself early.
For now, take him and his toothbrush and toss them out the door for awhile.
Then think about it....seriously, bustin' your screen is pretty bad.
Heh! I used to dump guys for being 10 minutes late on a date.
Posted at 9:37am Nov 18, 2008 EST
get out now. anger management for domestic violence. forget having him replace your computer....leave now. next time he might just hit you. the beer only fuels the anger.
please go somewhere else.
i was married to a guy that threw the remote at me for not getting his second grilled cheese sandwich to him quickly enough. the remote missed me by only a couple of inches.
after i divorced him, i found out he liked hitting his women.
please just get out.
Posted at 9:55am Nov 18, 2008 EST
Eek. I know your question was about how to get back at the tosser but I think if it was me I'd leave. Even if I didn't have anywhere to go. I'd try to go somewhere. Anywhere. A friend, relative, coworker... it would be HARD but I wouldn't be able to deal with the anger...and I know that's easier said than done, because it's hard to just pick up and go, ESP if you still love the person.
But back to your original question, if you retaliate are you at risk to him doing something else? If not, then what about sewing one of the legs of his underwear shut? Or the fly or something? THat's more funny than mean, but... LOL :)
Posted at 10:03am Nov 18, 2008 EST
Woah that is scary! Hope you're okay Katie.
As for having anger management as part of a DV programme; just be careful as it is basically learning new techniques of control which perpetrators can use to their advantage within an abusive relationship.
Leaving your own home is a scary prospect, but sometimes it doesn't have to be the only answer. There are ways of getting him out too, legally!, and remaining safe within your own home.
If you want any info/advice Katie convo me, I work in my local women's refuge as a support worker so would hopefully be of some use if you need it x
Posted at 1:52pm Nov 18, 2008 EST
not reading all 18 pages - just going to say that I think you should dump his ass. How long before he gets angry enough to smash YOU, not just a lap top? Seriously, he has anger management issues. He needs help. Get out before you get hurt.
Posted at 1:54pm Nov 18, 2008 EST
man who breaks things no good
what will stop him from 'breaking' you too?
Posted at 1:54pm Nov 18, 2008 EST
